Content

• Steps
• Warnings

After the first date, you may feel that she is the apple of your eye, or that he is the man of your dreams. Or you might have a faint feeling inside of you that you really shouldn't go on your next date. Here are a few ways to help you figure out whether or not you should avoid a second meeting.

Steps

1. 1 Listen to your inner feelings. Your feelings are very important - the heart knows best. Do you feel that there is some connection or some kind of spark between you that needs to be helped to ignite? Or do you feel indifferent, uncomfortable, and lacking in serious interest? Rely on how you feel.
2. 2 Reflect on how your partner behaved on the first date. There are many so-called signals that indicate not to make a second date:
   • Your partner only did what he talked about himself all evening - if you felt like only a listener to your partner, this is not the best start to a relationship.
   • Your partner did nothing but praise himself all evening.
   • Your partner talked about all their problems and didn't say anything positive.
   • Your partner discussed their exes.
   • Your partner was constantly distracted by phone calls to talk to other people; It's even worse if your partner is acting rather cryptic when talking about who called him, or constantly walks away to talk.
   • Your partner disappeared for a while without explanation, or spent most of the time with his friends avoiding you.
   • Your partner came on a date drunk or drunk during your meeting.
   • Your partner criticized you.
   • Your partner was constantly cursing.
   • You find out that your partner lied to you about who he really is or what he is into.
   • Your partner refused to tell you where he lives; It is very strange!
   • Your partner is boring, disgruntled, or living in the past.
   • Your partner is having trouble making eye contact with you.
   • Your partner places the order for you without asking what you want.
   • You find out that your partner recently went through a difficult breakup, but is still dating his ex.
   • You find out that your partner is married or dating someone else. "
3. 3 After the date, additional signs may appear, indicating the pointlessness of the second meeting. They may include the following:
   • Your partner did not call you back, did not send an SMS or letter (accept this fact, your partner simply does not suit you).
   • Neither you nor your partner mentioned wanting to meet a second time.
   • Your partner is rushing things (for example, trying to get the bill as soon as possible, rushing out of the cinema and immediately hailing a taxi home, and so on).
   • The date has been set, but your partner has not been reminded of himself. This is a big sign that you shouldn't try to meet again.
4. 4 Get in the habit of noticing signs and digging into your feelings. A relationship with the right person doesn’t take a lot of effort, the right person doesn’t have to elude you all the time, it doesn’t have to be difficult, arrogant, or mediocre. The right person will understand you perfectly. If things go differently, don't waste your time and get on with your life.
   • Do not judge yourself "on a failed first date. Romantic feelings often arise after a series of dates, and you should not blame yourself for doing something wrong on the first date if it did not work out. you are not on the same wavelength, take it easier. It is "not" worth your worries.
   • Don't think it's wrong not to want to meet your partner a second time. If on a date you feel that something is wrong, then the sooner you end the relationship with your partner, the better, and you can keep looking for someone who will suit you.
   • Maintain a positive attitude. Dates that end in nothing are pathways that take you from the main path that leads to your true love. You learn, your partners learn, and you soon find what you are looking for.

Warnings

• Don't talk yourself into going on a second date if you know it will be a waste of time. You won't get pleasure, and the expectations built after the second date won't come true, and this can hurt you, which would not have happened if you avoided the second date.