Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

Have you noticed a strange attitude from your beloved or just a friend? Does she treat you coldly or give other signs of resentment? Better not to ignore these signs, but find out if there is really a cause for concern, or maybe you take everything to heart. How to find out, you will learn from this article.

Steps

1. 1 Remember. Have you given her a reason for this behavior? Maybe you somehow offended her?
2. 2 Try to identify even the smallest changes in her behavior. Is her behavior different from her usual state? She may be offended by you even if she is talking to you. Pay attention to any change in voice or gesture: her tone of voice, tension, or crossing her arms when talking to you. Does she look you in the eye when talking? Does he react strangely to your jokes? Impervious to your feelings? These are just a few signs to watch out for.
3. 3 Pay attention to the attitude of her friends. Girls always tell their girlfriends about their relationship with a particular person. Do her friends look at you strangely or do they not even notice? Or do you feel uncomfortable in their presence? Take this into account.
4. 4 Check her mood. Make a joke. Tell a joke that only you two can understand, or remember a funny incident that happened to both of you. If she holds back, is cold and does not react to your joke, then she is offended at you.
5. 5 Talk to her openly. After you find out that she is angry with you, ask directly: "What happened?" or "Are you mad at me?" or "Did I do something wrong?" Don't say it in a commanding or threatening tone.
6. 6 Find out how offended she is. If you ask her directly, chances are she won't answer you right away. She may say something like: "Nothing happened", "I am not offended."
   • Pay attention to her gestures. Don't you think her voice is harsh? Does she avoid looking you in the eye? Any strange behavior means that she is lying to you. If so, you should say something like, "Well, I noticed that you ..." and describe her behavior that you find strange.

Tips

• In general, it is better to be gentle with her. At the same time, you must pretend to understand what she has to say. Do not focus only on your grievances and feelings, do not ignore her words and desires.
• When listening to the advice of strangers, be careful. No need to apologize to her through her friends - it will be perceived insincere. First of all, you need to find out if she is offended by you.
• It is very good if you have a mutual friend with her who can become an intermediary between you.
• Sometimes, in order to just break up with you, girls make you believe that you have done something terrible and wrong, which makes them angry with you. If you're sure you haven't done anything wrong, ignore her behavior. And in general, why do you need a relationship with a girl who cannot even tell what is happening to her?
• If you cannot find out the reasons for her behavior from her herself, ask your friends.

Warnings

• Don't ask her questions about her behavior around friends. Doing so will not only embarrass you both, but also force her not to admit that there is a problem. Therefore, when deciding to speak frankly, do it in private.
• Don't show your indifference. Sometimes your indifferent and inattentive attitude towards her can cause resentment.
• If she is angry with you for a long time, leave her. Find new friends.