Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 3: How to Improve Your Chances of Success
• Part 2 of 3: How to Get a Girl's Attention
• Part 3 of 3: What to do next

Are you lonely and find it difficult to meet girls? There are many dating apps out there today, but you can try dating a girl the old fashioned way at a bar. If you want to pick up a girl in a bar, then first you need to prepare for the evening, attract her attention and create an opportunity for further acquaintance.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: How to Improve Your Chances of Success

1. 1 Take care of your hygiene and appearance. Hygiene and personal care will help you look as attractive as possible. Take a hot shower, comb, shave or trim your mustache and beard, and use cologne. It's important not to overdo it with cologne, or the excessive smell can scare off your potential mate.
2. 2 Choose a bar that single women often visit. You should think strategically when choosing a place, as not every bar has a lot of lonely girls. The atmosphere of a bar, rather than a club or cafe, often promotes acquaintance with single people thanks to the informal atmosphere and low prices for alcoholic beverages. There are three main types of bars:
   • Local Bar: An establishment within your area that is easy to meet patrons or acquaintances. A bar like this is fun to hang out with close friends on weekends, but it's far from the best place to meet a girl for a short time. If you often go to the local bar, you will soon meet all the regulars and hardly meet strangers and single women in such a place.
   • Trendy bar: Popular downtown or chain establishments that are often hard to find on weekends. Despite the large number of visitors you may not necessarily be familiar with, it is more difficult to get a girl's attention here, especially if there are too many people.
   • Tavern: These places are sometimes considered seedy or low-grade due to their cheap drinks and relaxed atmosphere. Nevertheless, it is here that it is best to meet single girls, since the visitors of such an institution care less about the outer gloss and are easier to make contact.
3. 3 Ask your friends where they meet girls. You can also seek advice from your lonely friends who are more knowledgeable about this matter. Find out which bars they usually meet and which day of the week are most likely to succeed.
   • You can also read reviews of establishments on the Internet in order to form a definite opinion about the visitors. Check out the bar reviews in advance for helpful information.
4. 4 Choose clothes to match the establishment. Your appearance should match your surroundings. You can go to your local bar or pub in casual clothes like a clean T-shirt and jeans. If you're heading to a trendy establishment, it's best to opt for a shirt or T-shirt and slacks.
5. 5 Invite a couple of friends for support. Ask friends who will agree to be your entourage for the evening. Choose confident friends who get to know girls easily or also want to pair up for the evening.
   • Do not go to the bar with a large company, so as not to scare off the girls and focus on your goal, and not just chat with friends.

Part 2 of 3: How to Get a Girl's Attention

1. 1 Make eye contact. Pick a girl you are interested in and make fleeting eye contact with her. No need to stare and stare. Look at the girl from time to time and smile. If she looks at you and smiles back, you probably have a chance.
   • Also use open body language to show your interest. Hands should be relaxed and lowered along the body or carelessly hold a glass of drink, head and body should be turned towards the girl.
2. 2 Treat the girl and her friends. Order and pay for a few drinks for the girl and her girlfriends to surely attract attention. Determine what the girl is drinking or ask the bartender. Order the same or a similar drink.
   • Treat not only the girl, but also her friends to show courtesy and tact in relation to the rest. Doing so will show that you are not a danger and just want to look like a friendly guy.
   • It should be remembered that a girl does not have to pay attention to you just because you treated her to a drink. This is just a friendly gesture that allows you to draw attention to yourself, but not at all a reason to behave aggressively or put pressure on the girl.
3. 3 Be bold and introduce yourself. If she accepts your treat, then she's probably ready to meet you. Take a deep breath, have the courage and say hello to the girl. You should give your name and ask the girl's name. Be relaxed and at ease, and use open and calm body language.
   • Maintain eye contact during the conversation and do not refuse to interact with the girl's friends. Show yourself as an outgoing and confident person, but focus on the girl and ask questions like, "What are you doing?" - or: "Cool song, how do you like this group?"
   • Take your time with compliments about a girl's appearance, unless she is obviously crazy about you. First of all, earn the girl's favor by taking an interest in her hobbies, hobbies, and other topics that will be discussed in the conversation.

Part 3 of 3: What to do next

1. 1 Offer to play billiards or darts. Offer to do something fun together, like a game of billiards or darts.If the bar has slot machines, offer to compete. This kind of entertainment will help you keep the conversation going, relax, and enjoy each other's company.
   • Perhaps the girl wants to just talk to you and enjoy drinks, rather than play billiards. You can also offer a fun alcoholic game with your friends and girl friends. This is a great way to find common ground and have fun with the whole company.
2. 2 Maintain an open and casual conversation. Focus on the conversation with the girl you are interested in. Be there and joke to keep her in a good mood, or maintain a relaxed atmosphere, exchange jokes while playing billiards and with a glass of your favorite drink.
   • At the beginning of the conversation, use her phrases to ask open-ended questions like, “Do you like football? What's your favorite team? " - or: "What do you study at the university?" If she continues to pay attention to you, move on to simple, informal questions. "Like it here?" will allow you to move on to flirting rather than asking about travel.
3. 3 Find out if the girl has a partner. By this point, you’ll probably know if the girl likes you, but asking about your partner is a signal that you don’t just want to chat. If she has a boyfriend or is uncomfortable, then you are out of luck.
   • You can also try to read her body language during a conversation to understand her intentions. If she looks you in the eye, laughs at your jokes, and uses open body language (relaxed and facing you), then this is a good sign.
4. 4 Take the first step and gauge the girl's reaction. If a girl likes you and she is lonely, take action. The next steps depend on your intentions. If you need a connection for one night, then tell them that you live nearby. Invite the girl to continue the conversation at your home. This is an obvious hint. If you want to arrange a date or are in doubt that the girl will decide on a short affair, take out your phone and ask: "Will you give me your number?"
   • You can gently hug the girl by the waist, touch her hair or face. This step is permissible only if you are confident in mutual sympathy and the girl has made it clear to you that she does not mind public displays of intimacy and touch.
   • If she refuses or feels uncomfortable with your proposal, immediately apologize and step back. Say that you misinterpreted the situation and respect her choices. Never try to intrude or force the girl to go to your house.
5. 5 Protect yourself. If everything went well and you ended up in bed, do not forget that you need to protect yourself. Have sex wearing a condom and ask if the girl is using birth control. With any sexual intercourse, the main thing is safety, so that you can have a great time and not regret anything in the morning.