Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 2: Prepare
• Method 2 of 2: Setting
• Tips

It may seem like a pretty daunting task, but it is not that difficult to strike up a conversation with someone you like! A little tweaks and your sympathy will soon reciprocate!

Steps

Method 1 of 2: Prepare

1. 1 Explore the interests and hobbies of someone you like. Pay attention to how your passion is having fun. Usually people like to talk about something familiar, something that they like. Look for common interests so you have something to discuss.
2. 2 Try to understand the personality of your liking. Maybe your passion is modest? Or, on the contrary, sociability and openness? When you understand the nature of his / her communication with people, it will be easier for you to get closer to your sympathy.
3. 3 Study the schedule of someone you like at least roughly. You can only talk if you are in the same place at the same time. This information will increase your chances of setting up an unexpected meeting with this person!
4. 4 You need to look great to feel good! For your first important conversation, it is imperative that you look attractive. Inner harmony with your appearance will also give you an extra dose of confidence! Particular attention should be paid to:
   • Hair - Upgrade your haircut or get a cool hairstyle.
   • Clothes - Choose the clothes that are most likely to please your liking. First of all, make sure your clothes are clean and ironed.
   • Personal Grooming - Wash, shave (if you're a guy) and make you smell good!

Method 2 of 2: Setting

1. 1 Pick a time and place. Based on what you have learned about your passion, choosing the right time and place is very important. If you want to have a one-on-one conversation, guess the moment when your sympathy is not surrounded by a swarm of friends. If there are a lot of people around and noisy, the conversation can be more direct.
2. 2 Start a conversation with confidence. Speak clearly and look your passion in the eye. Your body language can tell a lot about your interest. And a smile does not hurt either!
3. 3 Start with a comment or question that you will definitely get an answer to. The goal is to spark interest and attract attention. Nm in no case should you behave offensively or aggressively. If you are a witty enough person, you can make a funny remark about your surroundings, some general activity, or a person you both know.
4. 4 Listen carefully and pay attention to your crush's body language. Try asking clarifying questions about topics that your liking is genuinely interested in. Your tone of voice and body language will help you determine how the conversation is progressing.
5. 5 Be yourself and let your liking do the same. As soon as the conversation starts, don't be afraid to voice your opinion or share your interests, but don't forget to also let someone you like participate in the conversation as well.

Tips

• While it is advisable for you to find out something about the person you like before starting a conversation, you do not need to know. all... Too much information about a person (and the ways you've found out about it) can make your liking feel uncomfortable.
• Do not squeeze cues out of yourself. If the person you like is not very supportive, maybe there are reasons for that. Try another time.
• Be patient. If the moment is not right, wait and collect your thoughts.