Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 7: Doing Well in School
• Method 2 of 7: Spend Time with Friends
• Method 3 of 7: Spend Time with Your Family
• Method 4 of 7: Spend Time With Yourself
• Method 5 of 7: Take Care of Yourself
• Method 6 of 7: Get Involved in Extracurricular Activities
• Method 7 of 7: Find a Job
• Tips
• Warnings

Being an open-minded teenager is like balancing all the time. Imagine you are in a circus riding a unicycle. The arena inspector throws you one ball, then two, then three and four, and everyone expects you to juggle them all at the same time - while moving around on a unicycle. This is a difficult endeavor, which is why many people seek mentorship during their teenage years. If you want to take on your life again and be whoever you want, here are some guidelines.

Steps

Method 1 of 7: Doing Well in School

1. 1 Be attentive in class and get good grades. School may seem boring, but it's important to try and study well. Good grades will give you more options in the future. Be sure to write down your homework or test deadlines when you receive them so you don't forget to complete everything, and also prioritize school scheduling. When it is recommended to take notes in class, write it down, as this is one of the best ways to recall the material in memory before writing essays and taking exams.
   • If you don't understand something, ask someone! Read it carefully again, then if you don't already understand it, ask a friend or teacher. Contrary to what people think, there are never stupid questions; it is better to clarify everything than to remain for a long time in the darkness, poorly educated.
   • When you get home from school, take stock of what you learned that day.This will help when you need to repeat everything, since in this way you consolidate what you have learned in the day, and it is much easier than cramming at the last minute. And although you don't think so now, learning "on the fly" forms long-term memory, while cramming trains only short-term memory and prevents you from learning for real and having access to this information in the future.
2. 2 Do your homework. It's obvious, but doing your homework efficiently doesn't just mean jotting down something carelessly and then handing it in. Make every effort to each assignment and, as already mentioned, ask questions if you do not understand something. Schedule your lessons so you don't create a rush.
3. 3 Build a good relationship with your teachers. This is especially important in high school because you may need to ask a few of your favorite teachers for college admissions guidelines. The better they know you, the better these recommendations will be. But more than that, these people can provide assistance as mentors and consultants during your high school studies, and you can learn a lot from their experience and knowledge.

Method 2 of 7: Spend Time with Friends

1. 1 Take your time, make good friends. Best friends are friends with whom you are comfortable relaxing and being serious. There is no need to change your personality to please them. Good friends are hard to find, so remember that it is not uncommon to change your circle of friends several times during your teenage years.
2. 2 Beware of peer pressure. Many people experiment with a lot of things in high school and high school, and it's important to be able to say no to anything that doesn't suit you. Listen to your intuition and do what you think is right.
   • Sometimes people pretend to be friends just to get you to do things they don't want to do themselves, like stealing things, buying drugs, or cheating. You should not base your relationship on any of the above, and if you are caught, you will be in trouble, and you will see how the so-called friendship will end instantly.

Method 3 of 7: Spend Time with Your Family

1. 1 Build relationships with your parents. While it often seems like they don't take you seriously, letting your parents know they can trust you will usually give you more freedom.
   • Recognize that this is a difficult time for parents. Remember that they are not trying to make your life miserable - at a time when you want to be treated like an adult, your parents are struggling with the knowledge that you are no longer small. They also probably go out of their way to do a good job, pay a mortgage, get your brother or sister up on their feet, just like you, and do whatever they can to be good parents. It is not an easy job, but you can make it easier if you are understanding and friendly.
2. 2 Get to know your brother and / or sister better. Your little sister may seem like the most annoying person in the world right now, but you'll probably spend the rest of your life with her. Plus, it's a lot more fun to be at home when every night feels like a sleepover with your best friend.
3. 3 Help around the house. Some day-to-day chores take less than five minutes when many hands are involved, and your parents and siblings will be in a much better mood if they have one less task to complete. You can even turn household chores into a fun way to spend time with your family by making them a competition. Try playing some catchy music that everyone loves, or strike up a pleasant conversation while you work and set deadlines for completion. If you have winners, for a job well done, the prize could be the following: the right to choose a DVD or movie to watch with your family or what to cook for dinner that evening.
   • When asked to do something, do it. So you will save your house from unnecessary quarrels, and when things are redone, you are free to do whatever you want! Arguments can be time-consuming and cause unnecessary emotional discord.

Method 4 of 7: Spend Time With Yourself

1. 1 Schedule the time you devote to yourself. Life as a teenager can be quite stressful, but spending time on your own is also very important.
2. 2 Decide on your hobbies and interests. Find what you love and do it regularly. This will keep you cheerful and joyful when it comes to other parts of your life. Don't be surprised if your interests change months or years later; this is natural for the age when you are still trying to figure out what you like best, but do not overdo it. Just follow your interests to see where they lead, and also stay open to new opportunities.
3. 3 Be happy. Depression is a very common condition that usually manifests itself during pre-adolescence or adolescence. Seek professional help if you think you are depressed. You may or may not receive family support for dealing with depression (depending on family circumstances), but don't let the lack of such support deter you from caring for your mental health; There is always someone who can help you sort out depressive or negative feelings and problems, and the sooner you start therapy, the easier it will be to recover and gain confidence and resilience for a happier future.
   • Allow yourself to play the fool from time to time. Trying to be serious and focused at all times can make you feel unhappy. Give yourself the freedom to do funny things on a regular basis to balance your studies, activities, and relationships.
4. 4 Listen to music. It can help you relax and relieve stress after a busy day at school or with friends. Music is also a good way to express yourself - if you don't already know how to play a musical instrument, consider mastering one of them, such as a guitar, piano, or synthesizer. And don't forget that your voice is also an instrument!
5. 5 Learn to enjoy being alone. Being able to enjoy your time alone is essential to realizing that you are whole without the other person. This can help prevent an emotionally dependent relationship from developing or trying to make another person the source of happiness in your life. Loneliness also helps you learn more about what makes you special and what your values ​​in life are. Some ways to find effective and enjoyable solitude include meditation, walking alone, journaling, and time with pets.

Method 5 of 7: Take Care of Yourself

1. 1 Take care of yourself. Wash your face, shower regularly, eat homemade food instead of ready-made food, etc.
   • Be sure to always brush your teeth 2-3 times a day. This will keep them clean and breath fresh.
2. 2 Exercise. You don't have to go crazy, but a little physical activity every day, such as cycling to school, will help keep your mind and body healthy as well.
3. 3 Eat well. Eating too much or too little will make it difficult to concentrate and your performance in other areas will decrease.
4. 4 Get enough sleep. Nine hours of sleep is the best thing to do, even on weekends; it will prepare you for school and make you feel better the next morning. Try to schedule each week so that you finish your homework at a reasonable time.If you know you will have a lot of work to do tonight, talk to your teacher about getting a reprieve, or even better, getting the assignment ahead of schedule. This will allow your body to be more docile and will clear up any nasty eye bags!
5. 5 Wake up on time. Make sure you have enough time to eat breakfast, wash your face, shower if you need to, etc. before school starts.
   • Fold up your briefcase and get your clothes / school uniform ready the night before so you can get things done much faster and more organized. Don't forget to lay out a clean pair of socks, underwear, and shoes!

Method 6 of 7: Get Involved in Extracurricular Activities

1. 1 Join the Boy Scouts / Girl Scouts / Youth Organization Head, Heart, Hands, Health or similar programs and stick to them. They will give you a sense of community and you will acquire vital skills. These programs also open up a wide range of opportunities that you may not have in school or on social media, for example, public speaking, experiences, skills necessary for living or being away from home, etc.
2. 2 Join the club. School clubs are a great way to get carried away without compromising on the things you love. They can also help you decide what hobbies and interests you like best. Try a few clubs as a teenager, don't be afraid to admit that one isn't right for you, and keep looking.
3. 3 Go through to get into the sports team. This will teach you how to work in a team and you will become good friends with the team members. Alternatively, if team sports are not for you, find at least a sport that interests you, be it athletics, triathlon, swimming, tennis, cycling, or other more individual but still great sports. Even in individual sports, there are team elements when you play for your school or region.
   • Martial arts are another great outlet for physical and mental development. They are also a good way to develop self-discipline. It is a good idea to start with one combat sport, and once you achieve certain results here, you can practice more.
4. 4 Consider volunteering. Another extracurricular activity that benefits both you and others is volunteering. Pick something that interests you and provide help regularly. It could be something related to a favorite sport or activity, so you shouldn't do it against your will.

Method 7 of 7: Find a Job

1. 1 Work is a great way to spend your free time, but don't feel absolutely necessary. What was discussed above should come first - relationships, learning and extracurricular activities. It is not worth sacrificing any of these aspects of adolescence for the sake of work, and it is very difficult to combine many other different responsibilities with work. On the other hand, if you feel you can handle both part-time and other activities, getting a job will help show your parents that you are responsible and can provide you with the money to keep or acquire things that your parents cannot afford to spend. ... Common jobs for teenagers are:
   • Babysitting services. If you have little siblings, ask the parents of their friends if they need a nanny. Post ads around elementary and preschool. You can usually make good money as a nanny, and it's a good weekend job that will allow you to do your homework or call your friends on the phone after the kids go to bed.
   • Supervising pets. If you are not sure if you can be responsible for another person, you can start with an animal.Talk to neighbors and family friends who have pets and let them know that they will be happy to look after their pets when they go on vacation. The beauty of this job is that it tends to be periodic rather than daily. If you live in the countryside, don't forget that your neighbor farmers might gladly take the opportunity to get some rest knowing that you are looking after their farm and animals.
   • Tutoring. If you have excellent knowledge of a subject, you can make money teaching others. Put up notices with your contact information around town, talk to your friends and their younger siblings, or ask your experienced teacher (s) to recommend you to parents of children with delays.
   • Work as a counselor. Contact a Youth Christian Organization or the director of your favorite children's summer camp and ask when they are hiring counselors and if you can apply. Usually, people start hiring for the next summer from about January to March or April, depending on the size of the camp.
   • If you can legally get a work permit, get a job at local businesses. Consider the possibility of being a waiter / waitress in a restaurant, working in a trade, or helping a sports coach.

Tips

• Take a water bottle to school for a sip in class. Water will help you retain the amount of fluid you need and therefore you will be more focused and energized. It is much healthier and better for your teeth than cola, soda, etc.
• Listen to your parents and teachers. They were already in your place and there are things they can help you learn so you don't "reinvent the wheel."
• Always try to be a confident teenager.
• Make sure everything is ready the night before, and that you have plenty of time and don't miss breakfast in the morning.
• Avoid conflicts with friends. If you feel negative attention from someone, try to stay away from them for a while and let them cool off.
• Do not feel that you are unable to do anything. Just do your best and maybe, just maybe, you will be successful.

Warnings

• If you are experiencing negative feelings or being abused (emotionally, physically, or verbally), seek help from someone like a teacher, parent, friend, psychologist, or other neutral party. If you have problems at home, seek advice from a psychologist or someone else you can trust outside the home. Don't suffer in silence; no one deserves to be in the middle of constant negative impact.
• If you have learning difficulties, talk to the appropriate teachers and ask for help.