Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 4: Be empathetic and considerate
• Method 2 of 4: Be Creative
• Method 3 of 4: Make It Like the First Time
• Method 4 of 4: Grow Together Individually
• Tips
• Warnings

It takes a lot of care, attention and imagination to be truly romantic. Romantics need to be able to find unexpected and surprising ways to express their feelings for another person. Sometimes, showing all this, it is even difficult not to face feelings of tastelessness and insincerity, and it does not matter whether you met a week ago or have been together for twenty years and just decided to refresh the relationship a little. There are many strategies - from gifts to hidden love notes, but the main thing is to remember to be attentive and creative, focusing your efforts on developing a relationship with your partner.

Steps

Method 1 of 4: Be empathetic and considerate

1. 1 Give thoughtful gifts. Flowers and chocolate, of course, will make anyone smile, but you can make a knight's move and surprise your loved one by giving him something specially created for him that he or she can truly appreciate. Gifts like these are very romantic because they show that you've put in a lot of effort to come up with the perfect gift. By the way, here are some ideas on the topic:
   • Gifts for music lover: Concert tickets, iTunes gift certificate, new CD, book about your favorite band or artist, player with your favorite songs, concert DVD, poster with your favorite band, or even a figurine of your favorite artist.
   • Gifts for sports lovers: signed sports equipment or sportswear with the logo of your favorite team, tickets to the game, a movie about your favorite team, and so on.
   • Gifts for the food lover: new cookbook, culinary magazine subscription, restaurant gift card, a bottle of good wine and delicious cheese, cooking courses, something useful for the kitchen.
   • Gifts for the fashionista: A boutique gift voucher, a new outfit from your favorite designer, fashion show tickets or fashion accessories.
   • Gifts for the book lover: An e-book, a hand-made bookmark, a book or rare edition signed by the author, a bookstore gift certificate, a copy of a rare book, or a trip to a favorite author's talk.
   • Gifts for the travel lover: clothes for your favorite activity (shoes, glasses), maps and guides, a backpack and so on.
2. 2 Invite your loved ones on thoughtful dates. Yes, any date is “thoughtful” by default. The love and care you put into dating planning is romantic, fact. But there is no limit to perfection! Consider all the interests of your loved one when planning a date, and everything will turn out even more romantic! You yourself understand that if you invite a homebody for a long walk in the mountains, then there is every chance that he will not appreciate it. And here are the options that will certainly resonate with hearts:
   • Dates for music lovers:
     • Go to a concert of his or her favorite artist. If it's a free concert in the park, even have a small picnic.
     • Go to a small cafe that plays jazz. Wine, dessert, music - what could be better?
     • Prepare a romantic dinner together to the sound of your favorite artist's songs.
     • If you can play guitar, write a romantic song and play it.
     • Go with your loved one to a music store, and then return home and enjoy the sounds of purchased songs.
   • Dates for the travel lover:
     • Climb the mountain and have a picnic there.
     • Go boating.
     • Go for a bike ride in the woods.
     • Take a horse ride.
     • Take a long walk along the beach.
     • Spend the night staring at a small telescope.
   • Dating for sentimental people:
     • If you've been together for a long time, re-create your first date together and write a letter to your loved one describing how much you have grown in love with her or him since then.
     • Spend the day visiting your favorite places and places, order your favorite food and drinks.
     • Spend the evening sorting through your old photos and letters.
   • Dates for the food lover:
     • Prepare your loved one's favorite meal.Learn to cook it when your loved one is not around.
     • Make fondue together.
     • Buy a good wine, cheese and nuts that match.
     • Put on jazz, light candles and cook dinner together.
3. 3 Leave a note to your loved one. If you want the romantic component not to leave your relationship, leave romantic notes for your loved one when you leave somewhere. Leaving for work earlier? Well, leave a note with kind and warm words by the bathroom mirror. This will give your loved one a smile as soon as he sees the note and reads it. Other options are:
   • Leave a note in your favorite book. Yes, perhaps they will not find her right away, but if they find her, then there will be a lot of joy!
   • Is your loved one going somewhere for a few days? Put the note in his backpack, where he will not look until he arrives at his destination. So he will immediately remember you, and he will no longer be so sad.
   • If you are absolutely on a romantic wave, then write a whole love letter!
4. 4 Send your loved one SMS or emails throughout the day. Of course, you should not send them in a continuous stream - it will be distracting, and the effect will not be the same, but simply reminding that you are and you miss, love him or her very much and think about him (her) is good. And here are some more options for this:
   • An email with the words: “Sweetheart #, I keep thinking about how awesome yesterday # was. How lucky I am with you! I can't wait to arrange you #. Your / your # ".
   • Text messages will work too - send something short, reassuring, and sweet.
   • Don't overdo it - just one or two messages a day will be enough to cheer you up.
   Specialist Answer Question

   "How to become more romantic?"

   
   

   

   Maya Diamond, MA

   Relationship Coach Maya Diamond is a dating and relationship coach from Berkeley, California. He has seven years of experience helping people with relationship problems gain inner confidence, deal with their past and build healthy, lasting, loving relationships. She received her MA in somatic psychology from the California Institute for Integral Research in 2009.

   SPECIALIST'S ADVICE

   Maya Diamond - Dating and Relationship Coach - replies: “Romantic and passionate SMS can help increase the degree of relations... Alternatively, you can arrange with a partner unexpected dates and create a romantic setting in the bedroom. Light candles, play music, and wear something sexy. For more romance, you can even read a poem corresponding to the mood or sing a song. "

   
   
5. 5 Do niceties. Do you want to be romantic? Learn to read the mind of your loved one and guess what he / she wants - and be ready to do this little favor for your partner. Yes, we do not argue, it is unlikely that someone will find it romantic to go shopping to a local greengrocer to buy vegetables while their loved one is busy with something - but in fact, this will demonstrate all your care and attention to the needs of your loved one, and this is very romantic ... Here are some other options:
   • If your loved one is sick, look after their pets.
   • If your loved one comes down with allergies, take over housework until they feel better.
   • If your loved one is head over heels at work, cook him / her a delicious lunch.
   • If your loved one needs to go somewhere and do something there, surprise him by doing it for him!

Method 2 of 4: Be Creative

1. 1 Write “I love you” somewhere unexpected. Say, on a mirror, which will fog up when your loved one takes a shower, or on a tree (if the tree is your property). You can even ask the waiter to write the cherished words on top of the dessert with chocolate. All this will be a pleasant and romantic surprise.
   • You can also write “I love you” on the sand of the beach.
2. 2 Burn a special CD for your loved one. Write there songs that are something memorable and symbolic for you. The disc can be left somewhere in a secluded place as a surprise, or you can give it along with a postcard.
3. 3 Massage your loved one. If you know your loved one has had a long and hard day, offer them a relaxing massage. For more romance and sexuality, massage with lotion.
4. 4 Take a photo album. Perhaps all your photos are already online. Print out the ones that you especially like and make a small photo album to remind you of your feelings even when the internet is disconnected. You can add funny captions to your photos!
5. 5 Celebrate Valentine's Day on a random day. Who said that you need to wait for February 14 ?! There is always a place for a holiday! So set a date and go ahead - postcard, dinner, night together! It will surprise your loved one and he will definitely like it!
6. 6 Confess your love the old fashioned way. Dedicate a song to your loved one by ordering it on the radio - just make sure the radio is on at the right time. You can confess your love by writing a poem, singing under the balcony or even in a crowded place, if only, of course, this does not confuse anyone. There are dozens of ways to honestly and convincingly confess your feelings in the old fashioned way.
7. 7 Kiddie. You can be romantic by showing caring for your loved one in a childishly silly manner. Go to the fair, hold on to the handle, win the teddy bear in the shooting gallery. Play mini golf by signing "I love you". Go to the water park and fool around like teenagers in love. Who says that youth is not good for young people ?! You can be romantic as a teenager and so show your feelings at any age! And here are some options:
   • inflate animal balloons;
   • paint something with your fingers;
   • go to the fireworks;
   • make cakes together;
   • watch together a silly film from your childhood;
   • tell each other jokes.

Method 3 of 4: Make It Like the First Time

1. 1 Show your attraction to your loved one. Touches, let's be frank, are pleasant and somewhat very, very romantic. No matter how long you have been together, you can always hug, kiss and demonstrate your attraction to a person so that he understands that he is really loved.
   • You should not walk by the handle everywhere and everywhere, but this is quite appropriate for a walk.
   • Watching a movie together? Hug your loved one!
   • Not a day without kisses, even if only on the cheek!
   • Cuddle as often as possible.
   • Think about how else you can demonstrate your feelings? Maybe a playful pinch or play with your hair? Or even tickle?
2. 2 Come up with new compliments. You should not only compliment your loved one as often as possible, but try to constantly come up with something new and fresh - so your relationship will never wither! Of course, you can always use good old compliments, say, about a beautiful eye color or a sexy smile, but you can always mix something into the old and make something new out of it!
   • Let's say every week give a new compliment, no matter if you praise a person's inner world or their appearance. Well, the more you think about what kind of compliment to make, the easier it will be for you to find a line worthy of a compliment!
   • And you can also write a compliment with a note - it will even turn out more romantic.
3. 3 Watch yourself. If you want the romance to stay in the relationship, you have to watch yourself. Yes, if you have been together for many, many years, then you may suddenly start to be lazy, walk around the house in shorts, shave every other time - but this will kill romance, and with a guarantee. Take care of yourself as you did the day you first met.
   • Shower, razor, shampoo, soap - in general, all this will help you!
   • Dress neatly for your date, even if it's your anniversary, your 500th date.
   • Don't forget about variety, though. A new haircut, a new style, a new outfit - it's all good.
4. 4 Never stop courting. Pretend you just met and want to impress. And what needs to be done for this? How to prove yourself? How to interest yourself? How to win love? Treat your partner as if you are trying to win her / his love and trust again.
   • Taking a relationship for granted is not romantic at all. Don't do it like that, nobody likes it. So go ahead, "show must go on", as they say!
   • The most romantic ideas go to those who are afraid that the relationship will end and they will lose their loved one. However, in order to tune in to such thoughts, it is not at all necessary to bring the relationship to a dangerous brink.
5. 5 Be spontaneous. For many people, the beginning of a relationship is romance, admiration, and inspiration, because everything new... You just met, the relationship is still developing ... what will happen tomorrow? And next week? And next month? He will call? Are we going to kiss? She will come? But then, when the relationship becomes strong, routine comes, and everything new evaporates somewhere ...
   • To be romantic, bring that element of admiration into the relationship that you had in the beginning, do something other, something unexpected. And the more extraordinary, the better!
   • Take a weekend trip out of the blue, kiss in the street, or send a letter to your loved one telling you how you feel - even if you live in the same apartment.
6. 6 Make your bedroom sexier. The more expressive in this regard the bedroom, the more you want to return there with your loved one. The bedroom should be a place for sex and enjoyment, not a place where you store old things, and certainly not a nursery or a study.
   • You and your loved one can furnish the bedroom together so that you can only sleep and have sex there.
   • However, even such joint work itself is already very romantic and sexy.
7. 7 Be more romantic in bed. It doesn't matter if you have been sleeping together for two decades or have just moved out of the kissing phase, kissing and making love should be like a romantic. Make eye contact, say nice things, make fresh, sincere compliments - and everything will be fine with you.
   • Do not hurry. Let your loved one feel your care and love.
8. 8 Spend some time away from each other. Yes, it may not seem particularly romantic - spending time away from your loved one, even if it is only a weekend, but this separation will help you remember what you love each other for and will only strengthen your feelings.
   • Spend time with your friends separately - and you will learn to appreciate the meeting with your loved one even more.
   • Being away from each other, you can both write about what you miss - it will be very romantic.
   • If you have to be apart for more than a few weeks, write letters to each other - with or without calls and emails - and say how much you love and miss each other.
9. 9 Walk together. Indeed, it can be a very romantic activity, regardless of whether you love it or not. Yes, a simple joint morning walk will already charge you with romance, not to mention a short outing, a walk along the beach or a picnic in the park.
   • Walk together at least once a week.
   • However, even dining on the balcony or on the hood of a car is also romance.
   • Watching the sunset together is always romantic.

Method 4 of 4: Grow Together Individually

1. 1 Do activities that increase your adrenaline levels together. Jogging, yoga, or going to the gym together will do just fine as long as the adrenaline rises.And increased adrenaline is sexuality, it is romance! If you can't work out together regularly, then try to raise adrenaline together at least once a week.
   • Even walking to the restaurant instead of driving will boost your adrenaline levels.
   • Sign up for a dance. This is not only romantic, but also good for the heart.
2. 2 Take care of your self-esteem. If you and your loved one are doing well with self-esteem, then not only will you feel better, but even your relationship will be stronger and more romantic. Self-esteem can be helped through exercise, proper nutrition, and faith in doing the right thing.
   • Praising and complimenting each other can increase each other's self-esteem.
   • Take pride in the fact that you set goals and achieve them. This is useful for self-esteem.
3. 3 Find new joint and romantic hobbies. In order for a relationship to grow and develop without losing its romance, you should find new hobbies for two. It will refresh your relationship, bring new activities into your life, for example:
   • Sign up for a dance class.
   • If you have musical talent, play together.
   • Sign up for a pottery or painting class.
   • If you have the ability to write poetry, dedicate poetry to each other.
   • Watch the stars. Enjoy exploring the starry sky with your loved one.
   • Learn to cook together. Enjoy both the cooking and the food and the atmosphere that comes with it!
4. 4 Always talk to each other about your feelings. If you really want to grow up as a couple, then you need to learn not to hide your feelings and not to keep them to yourself. Say how you love each other, how lucky you are with each other. It doesn't matter how bad everything is around - not a day without recognizing the importance of your loved one for you!
   • Always say "I love you."

Tips

• Don't be intrusive, it can be frightening.
• If your partner does not appreciate your efforts, then, apparently, it was not you who failed to be romantic, but your partner overlooked your signs of attention. Maybe because he was not used to them, or he is now having a difficult period in his life. If you feel rejected, then don't give up - talk about the problem.
• Don't expect your partner to be as romantic as you are. Waltz night in the hall may seem the most, most romantic activity in the world just for you, your partner may have a completely different view of it. Remember that any person, no matter how close he may be, is always first and foremost a person, and a separate one, and not your continuation. Surprise your partner with unexpected actions if you know that it will make him happy.
• Sometimes "chivalrous behavior" works wonders for both him and her.
• If you still have no idea what to do so romantic - don't give up, look for options.

Warnings

• Romantic doesn't mean obsessive. You yourself understand that it is one thing to express sympathy and quite another to wait for the other person's time to be devoted to you. You are a person, not just a half in a relationship, so don't lose your head from romance. You can be romantic by being yourself.
• Don't let romance cloud your vision. If everything seems too perfect to be true, there is a reason to slow down and turn on your head. However, only time can show the truth ...