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• Steps
• Method 1 of 6: How to Appreciate Your Beauty
• Method 2 of 6: Personal Care
• Method 3 of 6: Personal Care
• Method 4 of 6: How to care for your skin
• Method 5 of 6: Building a wardrobe
• Method 6 of 6: Other Ways to Feel More Attractive
• Tips
• Warnings

You have the right to be happy with yourself, whoever you are. However, many men are unfamiliar with the sense of their beauty. Especially often this problem arises among gays who grew up in a society that often condemns them. However, beauty is a combination of the way you present yourself, self-confidence and personality. Taking care of yourself, choosing the right clothes and making changes in your habits will help you look and feel good, while developing your personality, focusing on your hobbies and self-esteem will help your inner beauty become more visible.

Steps

Method 1 of 6: How to Appreciate Your Beauty

1. 1 Work on your self-esteem. Homosexual men often have self-doubt due to the fact that they constantly face homophobia in different forms. It takes time and effort to stop paying attention to it.
   • Think about what you think is beautiful in yourself, and start nourishing that beauty without doubting yourself.
   • Trust other people when they say you are beautiful. They tell you the truth! They see you that way.
2. 2 Fight internal homophobia. You may find it difficult to appreciate those physical and personal traits that are considered inherent in homosexuals. It's just that heterosexual society defines these traits as undesirable. Resist these stereotypes and appreciate your "gay" voice or the mannerism often attributed to homosexual men.
3. 3 Pay attention to your hobbies and skills. Attractiveness lies not so much in physical qualities as in character (for example, in a sense of humor or intelligence). Learn to do something really well. Engage in projects or hobbies that you enjoy. Work wherever you like. Having hobbies, skills, and goals will make you an interesting and attractive person.
4. 4 Don't compare yourself to others. You may be jealous of the way someone else looks. This makes it especially difficult to live in the gay community, where looks and classic attractiveness are of particular value. However, this will not achieve anything. Don't compare yourself to others, but value what you have.
   • Learn to see the beauty in yourself. Let what you think is beautiful about yourself help you feel more confident.
5. 5 Connect with people from the gay community who value your beauty. There is no single surefire way to become a handsome and attractive man. Some gay people like thin men without hair. Others prefer large, hairy men. In other words, if you want to feel beautiful, you don't have to change yourself. Better to surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are.
   • Of course, it's very nice to know that someone thinks you are beautiful. If you are surrounded by people who fill you with doubts and self-loathing, know that such people are toxic. Find another company where everyone appreciates what you already have.

Method 2 of 6: Personal Care

1. 1 Wash your face. The face is the first thing people see when they meet you. Skin care helps prevent acne, dry skin and oily sheen. Plus, grooming will help you look and feel your best.
   • Wash your face with cold or lukewarm water. Do not use warm or hot water.
   • Use a mild scrub 1-2 times a week. Do not use the scrub too often, or it may irritate the skin.
   • Blot your face with a clean, soft cloth. Do not rub your face or you will provoke irritation.
2. 2 Take care of your teeth. You should brush and floss your teeth at least twice a day. Taking good care of your teeth will help prevent bad breath and will be beneficial for the health and beauty of your teeth.
   • Unwind 40-50 centimeters of thread and brush the spaces between the teeth, starting with the upper back teeth and working downward. Floss around each tooth to clean the entire surface, including the back.
   • Use an antiseptic mouthwash to kill bacteria in your mouth. Rinse your mouth for 30-60 seconds, then spit out the mouthwash.
   • Squeeze a small amount of paste (about the size of a pea) onto the brush and brush your teeth in a circular motion. Brush the back, front, and chewing surfaces of all teeth, then brush along the gum line to remove plaque and food debris.
3. 3 Take a shower daily. Most people shower every day, although there are some who do it every other day or less (depending on their access to water). It is important to take a shower on time to be cleaner and more confident in yourself.
   • Try not to use very hot or very cold water as this will dry out your skin.
   • Lather up any shampoo you like and massage into your scalp. If you have facial hair, wash it with shampoo. This will get rid of dirt and odors.
   • Rinse off any lather from your hair.
   • If using conditioner, apply it to your head and rinse.
   • Wash your body with soap or shower gel. Lather, apply to skin, then rinse.
   • Wash your genitals and groin from front to back.
   • Make sure you have rinsed off all the suds before you get out of the shower.
4. 4 Watch your body odor. Use deodorant at least daily. However, everyone has different preferences for smells. If deodorant is enough for you, just find the product you like. If you would like to use eau de toilette, look for your fragrance and use it in small amounts.
   • Deodorant should be used every day, wherever you are.
   • If you decide to use eau de toilette, remember that the less it is on the skin, the better.

Method 3 of 6: Personal Care

1. 1 Clip your nails. It is important to keep your fingernails and toenails neat and short at all times. Long nails are more likely to break, causing them to cling and scratch, and toenails that are too long look extremely unattractive.
   • Clean your nails. Use a toothpick to remove dirt from under your fingernails and toenails.
   • Use nail clippers or nail scissors to trim your nails. Cut your nails lengthwise and then round the edges so they don't stay sharp.
   • If the edges are uneven or sharp, you can smooth them out with a file.
2. 2 Take care of your facial hair. Every man decides for himself whether to grow facial hair, so no one can tell you which is better - a smooth face or a beard. Do what makes you feel comfortable and confident.
   • If you shave, use a shaving gel and a sharp razor (preferably one blade). Shave your hair in the direction of growth and do not pull the skin around to avoid injury.
   • If you wear a beard, trim it in time. Use the electric beard trimmer and attachment for the length you want.
3. 3 Trim your ears, nose, and neck hair. It doesn't matter if you wear a beard or shave, you should keep an eye on the length of your hair elsewhere anyway. Trim hair in and around the nostrils, ears, and the lower part of the neck (under the hairline on the head).
   • Trim your eyebrows from time to time to keep them from getting messy.
   • Use a trimmer to trim your nose and ears with a trimmer and a trimmer with a short attachment or straight razor on your neck.
4. 4 Decide if you want to keep chest hair. Some men like chest hair, others prefer smooth or at least trimmed breasts. The choice is yours (but you might want to ask your partner for their opinion). If you decide to trim your chest hair, it's important to get it right.
   • If you need to trim or cut your chest hair, use the electric trimmer. Move them along the hairline.
   • If you want a smoother chest, you can either cut your hair with the trimmer without the attachment, or shave off the hair with a razor and shaving gel.
5. 5 Find a hairstyle that you like. If you feel like you're stumped, a new hairstyle can help you cheer up. A good haircut and styling will make you feel confident and handsome wherever you go.

Method 4 of 6: How to care for your skin

1. 1 Moisturize your skin daily. It is important not only to wash your face and take a shower, but also to moisturize your skin. Rub a toner on your face to remove excess sebum and dirt, then apply a moisturizer to your skin. Apply moisturizer to your hands and other areas of your body where the skin dries quickly and begins to itch.
   • Choose a moisturizer for your skin type - it can be dry, normal, or oily.
   • Try to moisturize your skin at least 1-2 times a day.
2. 2 Take care of the skin around your eyes. Dark circles under your eyes can make you look tired and aged. However, you can fight them. This will help you achieve a healthier and smoother looking skin.
   • Place cool tea bags on your eyelids. This will reduce puffiness and improve skin color.
   • Use a special cream for under eye circles. Buy a cream with caffeine (it reduces puffiness), as well as retinol and vitamins C and E.
   • If all else fails, try applying a small amount of concealer under your eyes. Match your skin tone to even out skin tone and brighten, clearer skin.
3. 3 Protect your skin from the sun. The sun can cause significant damage to the skin, including burns and sensitivities. With constant exposure to the sun, the skin becomes covered with wrinkles, age spots, and the risk of developing cancer increases. For skin to look good for longer, it must be constantly protected from the harmful effects of UV rays.
   • Use a broad spectrum sunscreen. It is important to use a product with an SPF of at least 15 and reapply it to the skin at least every 2 hours.
   • Avoid being in direct sunlight between 10 am and 2 pm when the sun is at its brightest.
   • Wear heavy-duty clothing that will protect your skin from UV radiation. Choose long sleeves and trousers. If you need to be outdoors for a long time, wear a wide-brimmed hat.
4. 4 Quit smoking. Smoking contributes to premature aging of the skin. Regular smoking not only increases the risk of developing certain diseases, but also impairs blood circulation, which causes the skin to lose elasticity and wrinkle. In addition, smoking can cause wrinkles around the mouth and eyes.
   • To prevent tobacco damage to your skin, it is best to stop smoking completely.
   • If you smoke, talk to your doctor about how you can overcome this habit.

Method 5 of 6: Building a wardrobe

1. 1 Don't try to keep up with fashion trends. Fashion changes, and what is considered fashionable today may go out of fashion in a month or two. It can be very expensive to follow all trends. In addition, due to the desire to be fashionable, you may not have important basic items in your wardrobe. In order not to worry about fashion, choose classics that always look relevant.
   • If you like button-up shirts and polos, wear them because they don't go out of style.
   • Avoid buying trendy versions of classics, such as ripped jeans or fringed jackets. They go out of style quickly but are expensive.
2. 2 Buy pants that fit your leg. These pants look more smart, confident and attractive compared to baggy pants. When heading to work or a party, choose tight pants or jeans to look more attractive.
3. 3 Buy a few basic items. Wherever you go, austere basics will help you look fashionable and feel confident. They won't cost a lot of money. Look for items on sales or stock stores, or just buy one item a month. You should have the following items in your wardrobe:
   • One solid color suit, preferably black or dark gray. It is better to opt for a single-breasted blazer with two or three buttons as this is a classic.
   • Classic pants. Buy pants in black or khaki to make it easier to pair them with other wardrobe items.
   • Tie. Prefer solid color, medium-length ties.
   • Classic shoes. Choose shoes to match the color of your belt and suit (the most popular colors are black and brown).

Method 6 of 6: Other Ways to Feel More Attractive

1. 1 Exercise regularly. Exercising regularly will help you look and feel great. An effective training program should consist of intense cardio and regular strength training.
   • Try to get at least 30 minutes of cardio workout 4 times a week.
   • Work 20 minutes twice a week.
2. 2 Watch your posture. You may not usually think about it, but the way you sit and stand says a lot about your self-esteem and self-confidence. Over time, poor posture also leads to neck and back problems.
   • Take regular stretching breaks at work and at home. Get up, stretch and straighten your shoulders for at least a couple of minutes every half hour. Try to walk and warm up more often.
   • Sit with your back straight. It is beneficial for back and posture health. Keep your back and neck straight and slightly tuck your shoulders back when sitting at a table or chair.
3. 3 Experiment with your style. Some men look the same all their lives. There is nothing wrong with knowing what you like. However, changing your style can help you diversify your appearance and feel more confident and attractive.
   • If you've never worn a beard, try growing one. For many men, a beard suits and gives self-confidence.
   • Try something completely different. If you've worn a beard for years, shave it off and remember what your face looks like without hair. You might feel younger and more attractive without a beard.
   • Buy a couple of things that you don't usually wear. Try wearing them when you need to feel more confident.

Tips

• There is no single right way to be beautiful or attractive. The tips in this article may help you, but they may not work either. You need to figure out what makes you feel beautiful and confident and stick to your plan.
• Don't change your style just to meet someone else's expectations. Be yourself and it will be easier for you to feel beautiful.

Warnings

• Don't criticize the other person's appearance. This is rude, offensive and can cause quarrels and clashes.
• Don't get hung up on looks.It's important to look and feel good, of course, but remember, beauty isn't everything.