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If you want to attract someone's attention in a sexy or romantic direction, being sexy can help. Even if this may seem complicated, attention to detail and changes in body language will help. Being sexy requires the right body language and personality. Make eye contact and touch subtly depending on the situation. Listen to what others say and make them feel special. In terms of clothing, you should choose clothes that are sleek and beautiful.

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Part 1 of 3: Using body language

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   Eye contact. The best way to put sensual techniques into practice is with eye contact. To start being sexy, make eye contact with the person you want to attract. Look at them to get their attention.
   • If the person approaches to initiate a conversation, maintain eye contact when speaking. People are attracted to those who notice them. Making eye contact with someone can make them feel special, making you more attractive.
   • Don't maintain eye contact for too long if someone is not talking to you. You don't want to look like you're staring.

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   He came to the expression on his face. Certain facial expressions are considered sexier than others. When trying to attract someone, subtlety is key in facial expressions. Instead of grinning at others, smile softly and naturally. Making eye contact while smiling softly is considered extremely charming.

   

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   Keep everything light and fun. If you want to be sexier, don't take it too seriously. Don't treat your partner like they're one of the other guys, but don't act like you're interviewing them.
   

   
   

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   Maintain good posture. Gesture can convey excitement, it is a quality of seduction. Becoming difficult to approach by crossing your arms across your chest or looking away would show no interest. Instead, keep in a relaxed posture to show that you like the other person.
   • Look at the other person's face as they speak.
   • Keep your hands away from your chest. Don't leave anything, such as a wallet or handbag, on your lap.
   • Gently lean forward. This imparts real excitement to the other party, which can be a sexy quality.

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   Delicate touch. If the person seems open-minded when you flirting, subtly touch them. Touch can stimulate sexual feelings. Don't overdo it. Just touch gently and subtly.
   • For example, gently touch the other person's arm or wrist while talking.
   • If you're sitting, try touching their knees under the table.

   Try touching the other person's arm as you talk, or grabbing their hand for a second, then let go.

   

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   Use the right tone. You should pay attention to your voice when talking. Speak in a gentle and comfortable voice. Avoid raising your voice or speaking too loudly. It could be seen as anger, and disinterest in you. advertisement

Part 2 of 3: Cultivate the right personality

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   Makes everyone feel special. People will be interested in those who care about them. In general, people are almost easily fascinated by people who make them feel comfortable and special. If you want to be sexy, make it a habit to compliment others and make them feel confident.
   • Be genuinely interested in what others do. You might ask, "Doesn't that sound interesting? How's the teaching going?"
   • Praise for making them feel unique and special. For example, say, "Looks like you really tried hard. I'm sure you've devoted more of your attention to teaching."
   • When you compliment someone, combine this with sexy body language. This will help you become very attractive.

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   Listen and share. People are attracted to those who are willing to make a connection with them. When trying to be sexy, listen to what others say. Take turns sharing about yourself. Simply communicating with someone can make you more attractive to them.
   • When someone else is talking, offer non-verbal cues to show that you are listening. Nod, smile, and laugh out loud when appropriate. Repeat what others have said from time to time to make sure you understand.
   • Take turns answering any questions others have asked about you. Be willing to talk about your own work, friends, life, and family. Don't overwhelm the conversation, but create a sense of intimacy by freely sharing.

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   Laugh. A natural smile at the right time can make you more attractive in conversation. Remember to keep your smile mysterious most of the time. However, if they are joking, laugh and giggle. People will feel amused when someone laughs at their jokes.

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   Let the other party want more. A little bit of mystery will be fascinating. When you meet someone for the first time, be the one ending up on phone conversations, appointments, and other meetings. If you say goodbye first, the person will want more.
   • However, avoid being disrespectful. Only leave if you have a reason to do so. For example, if the appointment is too late, you have a reason to leave. Don't skip the appointment halfway just to be sexy. Your partner will understand that you are cold to them.
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Part 3 of 3: Choose sexy styles

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   Choose stylish clothes. No outfit is internationally sexy. You will need experience to find the right clothes for you. Try on a variety of clothes until you find the one that flatters. The shirt, suit, dress, and jeans styles will suit different people.
   • You want something to show off your best features. For example, if you have muscular arms, choose a short-sleeved shirt or button-down collars.

   

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   Try to prepare for the date in a sexy way. You want your partner to sit and watch when they meet you. For example, you can wear the prettiest outfit. Take the time to create the right hairstyle, and apply a little makeup if desired.

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   Choose a gentle lipstick color. If you wear lipstick, a standout lipstick color can be limited when you want to be glamorous. The lipstick can be attractive, however keep it subtle. Choose a lighter shade of rose lipstick instead of one that's striking or vibrant.

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   Choose a seductive scent. A pleasant scent will be extremely seductive. You should choose a pleasant fragrance and deodorant. Before going out, spray perfume on your wrists or behind your ears. The scent and freshness will be very sensual.
   • Make sure to avoid anything too passionate. Choose a subtle fragrance, such as vanilla, over a rich floral scent. Some people are annoyed by the strong scent.

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   Dressed in red. People tend to be attracted to the color red. If you want to be sexy, add red to your outfit. You can wear a red dress or suit with a red shirt. Try a pretty blouse, shirt, or blouse with red buttons. Even red pants can make you sexy.
   • Remember that while red clothes will look great, dazzling red lipstick will stand out too.

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   Keep hair clean and shiny. There is not only one sexy hairstyle. However, the effort to improve the appearance will be charismatic. No matter how you style your hair, keep it clean and shiny. Wash your hair before going out and use a small amount of products like hair wax or gel, to increase the smoothness.
   • Sweet scented shampoo can also give you a seductive scent.
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