Author:
Lewis Jackson
Date Of Creation:
14 May 2021
Update Date:
1 July 2024
Content
Texting is a great way to flirt with your guy. You can use texting to flirt with someone you just met, a guy you just loved, or your partner to make the relationship even more interesting. You can even use texting to get in touch, exchange interests and connect with a guy before moving on to the next stage.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Initiate story and flirt
Opening story. If you're trying to flirt with a guy you just know, start the story with romance. That way, he will understand what you mean, and if he likes it, keep stirring up the story in that direction.
- For example, start with "Last night, I dreamed of you!" is a subtle flirting. It shows you've had a romantic or hot dream about him, and if he accepts that, you can keep flirting a little more.
- If he ignores the implication, understand that he may not be interested in this.
Send a flirtatious compliment. Everyone loves hearing good things about themselves, and compliments are a great way to flirt. If you're going to start a conversation to flirt with someone, try making a little flattering comments to make things easier to run.- For example, if you're going to hang out with a guy from a basketball team, you could write, "The gym was definitely a flutter when he entered!"
- Be honest and specific. You don't have to compliment someone else's appearance, let's talk about more specific things. For example, instead of saying "You are cute", you could say "You have a very nice smile".
Try texting at night. You shouldn't start texting at 2 a.m. unless you're sure he's awake. However, texting at night can be more informal and inviting.- There is always something at night that makes the two of you more comfortable and open. Try waiting until it's completely dark then text.
- You might say, "I'm curled up in the blanket. What are you doing?"
Be yourself. In texting, you are more prone to pretending to be stupid, dumb, or flattering than usual. You don't have to, especially when he unfortunately thinks you are, he will expect a different person if you two meet in real life.- For example, you don't need to use millions of exclamation marks to show your excitement if in real life you're not really that excitable.
Use more sense of humor. Even if you don't want to pretend to be someone else, it's okay to be funny through texting. Text messages make conversations short and lack depth, so a sense of humor will make him want to get to know you better.
- For example, let's say you'll stay home all night in pajamas. Instead of texting about it, tell him about the fun night before, like "Last night, I went out to play with my friends, but I wished you were there."
Don't be afraid to joke around. Teasing can help create intimacy, provided the guy has a sense of humor. You can make fun of the errors in his messages, for example the error caused by the autocorrect function.
- For example, if he texted "I think you have sexy meters" while talking about "eyes", you could tease him for that. You might say, "Do you think my" meter "is sexy? Is there any part of your body called" meters "?"
Give him a cute nickname. Nicknaming him might seem silly, but it will help him see your feelings. You can give it a bit masculine nickname, or break it with goofy and cute ones. Either way, include it in your text to help him recognize your feelings.
- For example, you could have masculine nicknames like "little guy" or "Thor".
- For cute nicknames you can use "darling" or "bear".
Break boredom. Sending the same text every day at the same time can be boring. Try breaking your routine by texting at different times of the day or changing the text to give him interest.
- For example, a friendly text "Good morning, honey!" It's a sweet way to kickstart your day, but don't send that message every morning.
- Change the sentences a little bit, like "Wake up in the sun!" or "I can't wait to see you at school!"
Let him know that you think about him. If you see something reminiscent of him, take a photo again. Send him a photo with a caption saying that this picture reminds you of him, and that will make him smile.
- Always shoot things he likes.
- Ignore serious topics like wedding rings or wedding cakes.
Keep the conversation going. If the two of you are texting back and forth, you need to know how to get the conversation going. Responding to him with short sentences won't be of any help. Instead, always contribute to your story, ask questions or introduce a new topic if you have nothing left to say.
- For example, if he says "Do you like movies?", Don't just say "Yes". Instead, give him the opportunity to continue by texting "Yes, especially when I get to go to the movies with a lovely guy like you. When can we go?"
- Also, ask about himself, eg "What is your favorite food?"
Wait before being sexy. You may want to start with hot text messages, but it's better to wait a while. In fact, you should probably wait until you are in a relationship before you start sending provocative texts.
- Flirting is acceptable, say you like his eyes, for example.
- What you should avoid here is sending out sensitive messages and trying to get him into sexually related chat. Of course, it is up to you how you text, but you might surprise him by texting him like that first.
Ignore all erotic images. Even if you are in love, you shouldn't send hot pictures. Once those pictures are made public, you cannot take them down any more, and there is no guarantee that the other person will not show it.
- While it's okay to send out flirting pictures, say you kiss him on the air, avoid all the pictures you wouldn't want your family to see if they go online-because they are. is exposed and can be seen by everyone.
Method 2 of 3: Text before and after a date
Explore him. If you want to go on a date, you can start by putting out hidden meanings. If you don't feel like saying it directly, you can take a detour. For example, you could state what you're up to this weekend and see if he takes a bite.
- You can text a message saying, "What are you going to do this weekend? I'm going to see a movie. And you?"
- If you tell him what you are up to, you're leaving the door open for him to suggest joining you.
Ask him out. If you want to be more straightforward, ask him directly via text. Just text so naturally. That way, you give him the chance to refuse if he doesn't really like you as you would like it to be.
- Try texting messages like, "This week is too long. I want to go somewhere fun for the weekend. How do you feel?"
- You could also be more frank: "I want us to go out sometime. Would you like to go out for coffee this weekend?"
Start dating early. Texting can help you both plan your date, so text him the day early or on that day. Let him know how excited you are about this, or that you can't wait to see him.
- For example, you can simply text this: "I can't wait to see you tonight!"
- You can also flirt a little by adding a compliment: "I look forward to seeing you tonight, especially if you wear those familiar tight jeans."
Text after a date. If the date goes well, texting is a great way to let him know. Of course, a single call can say a lot more, but if you don't have time to call him the next day, texting can reassure him that you've had a good time too. .
- The text was simple, "Last night was awesome!" is all you need.
- However, a little more specific texting doesn't hurt either. "I liked it when you took me to sushi last night. The food was delicious! And I also enjoyed being with you last night."
Method 3 of 3: Know your do's and don'ts
Always be short and concise. While there is no character limit for texting like before, you still need to keep your messages short. Long text messages can be distracting because he will have to read it all through to understand what you are saying.
- In other words, don't text him as long as a novel.
- Abbreviations are fine, as long as the person likes to use them as well, such as No or Yes.
- However, don't overdo acronyms, especially confusing words. Those words, as well as emoticons, can make many people lose interest.
Pay attention to your tone. Sarcasm is difficult to get through text messages, especially if you don't know the other person well. Don't use sarcasm when flirting with a guy, at least until you both get to know each other better, and understand each other's tone better.
Don't wait too long. Sometimes, you may feel like playing around with the guy you like by waiting a long time before replying to the message. It's a kind of power struggle. However, in the world of texting, not responding to him for at least a day shows that you don't like him very much.
- So, if you like him, please reply quickly.
- As for texting, an hour is really a long time.
Don't text too much. If you send 20 messages a day, that could be too much, especially if he doesn't reply to them one by one. Text less, about 3 to 5 messages a day. That way, he will have a chance to miss you in between the times you text.
- Also, don't text like "Did you get my messages" because they make you seem very desperate. If he hasn't answered yet, he's probably just busy.
Do not use alcoholic beverages. Texting while you are drunk can cause you to say things you will regret later. You can flirt too much from what you originally intended, or you can turn him off by saying crazy things. Self-restraint in that situation is difficult, so try to avoid it as much as possible.
Don't infer everything. If you're an inexperienced texting, texting can be a nightmare. It contains enough sentences for you to analyze, but not enough for you to get more information. If you tend to do so, don't interpret the content of the message. Sometimes, the message "Hi there." Just a greeting, it doesn't show that he doesn't like you just because he lacks an exclamation point.
Read the message again before sending it. Sometimes the autocorrect function can be counterproductive. Read the message again to make sure it makes sense before sending it. That way, you won't have to get the question "What?" from him.
- Also, even if you don't need to use standard grammar in messages, it's not harmful to be mindful of grammar. Not everyone feels offended by grammatical errors, but some people hate you because you write your grammar correctly.
Advice
- Respect if he's not interested. If he doesn't seem to like you, stop flirting.
- If you are dating, try to talk to him according to your texting style.
