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It is sometimes difficult to guess whether someone is secretly missing you or not. However, you can note a few gestures to find the answer. This article will give you tips on whether or not someone is watching you.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Observe body language

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   Pay attention to eye contact. If a guy is constantly staring at you, or is in your line of sight, he may be watching. Try to notice the difference between the normal eye contact you have with your conversation and that affectionate, emotional look. Seeing you regularly is also a sign that he wants to attract your interest and attention.
   • When you meet each other's eyes, notice if he pretends to look away. This is a positive sign that he likes you.
   • Try changing positions to see if he tries to move away to see you. For example, if you are both talking in a group, try standing behind someone so that he or she cannot see you. Then watch if he moves to another position to continue looking at you.

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   See how he approaches you. If he tries to stand next to you at a party or sit next to you at lunch, he probably really fell in love with you. This is how he tries to get close to you to show that he cares and likes to be around you.

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   Watch his hand gestures. Humans often express emotions through body language, including the hands. Women often flick their hair or lightly touch the shoulder or arm of the person they notice. Men tend to talk a lot and use hand gestures when talking to a girl they like because they are excited.

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   Pay attention to unusual gestures. If he blushes around you, laughs uncontrollably, doesn't look you in the eye, or gets restless, you have the answer. These are signs that the person is watching you.

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   See if he imitated your gestures. A familiar sign of a person's interest is imitation. People are often unrecognizable when they are imitating someone. Notice that the person uses familiar words you use often, repeats your sentences, or talks about things you care about. That's how they want to be closer to you. advertisement

Method 2 of 3: Note the obvious signs

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   She follows you on social media. The most obvious sign to tell when someone likes you is to check if they are connecting with you on social media. That means that person thinks of you when you are not around and wants to learn more about your private life.

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   Messages do not have clear content. If a girl texts you just to know what you're doing or text you all day, she is thinking about you. Regular contact is a clear sign that she has a crush on you.

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   She teases you gently. If she has a crush on you, she will say something teasing you, not to hurt but just want you to laugh. It's a familiar flirting style.
   • Along with the joke, you should try noticing humorous conversations. She may try to keep the conversation comfortable and humorous to make you laugh, if she really pays attention to you.

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   Take care of your appearance. It is difficult to know if someone is just trying to take care of themselves for them or for you. If you have made friends with that person on Facebook, check out the photos to see how she looks when you are not together. If the girl tries to take care of herself when she meets you, she is trying to impress you.

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   Special gifts. If someone visits a store you like to buy a special gift, or surprise you with a delicious treat, it's a sign they have a crush. She wants to amuse you with some intimate gestures and show concern.

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   The amount of time she spends with you. If someone else is willing to spend time with you and never misses the chance to meet you, that person is likely to fall in love with you. Note if she's attending the same party as you or canceling other plans to hang out with you.

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   Compliments. If you are noticed by someone, you will often receive a lot of compliments, even for your small changes. Your ex will notice when you cut your hair or buy a new pair of shoes, and she will let you know with a compliment. advertisement

Method 3 of 3: Asking questions

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   Find out how the person talks about you to your friends. If you get featured with his friends or relatives, or he mentions you whenever he gets the chance, he probably likes you. That shows he thinks about you and can't stop talking about you. If you get the chance, try asking his friends to see what they usually say when you're not around. Here are a few ways to ask:
   • "Do you know who he's dating? I've never heard of him, so I'm curious."

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   Ask your friends how they feel. Your friends are informative because they may notice or hear something you don't know. Ask if they see him looking at you with affection, or what he says when you're not around. Perhaps your friends will reveal the truth.
   • "Do you know who he likes? Have you heard of the person he is interested in?"
   • "Do you see him acting differently when he's around me? Do you think he treats me like friends or more special?"

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   Directly ask him. One of the best ways to find out how someone feels is by drawing up the courage to ask. This is hard work for both of you, but the only way to know the truth. Here are a few ways to ask:
   • "Recently I kept wondering about this. Are you giving me more affection than friends?"
   • If you like him too, you can say "I've always wanted to tell you this. I love you so much and always wonder what your feelings are about?"
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Advice

• Hang out with someone who likes you from time to time. Let's learn more about each other.
• Don't be kind to someone who secretly loves you while they are around.
• If you don't really like the person, keep that to yourself. If not, you will hurt their feelings.
• If you do not like someone who is watching you, do not turn on the green light to let them misunderstand. This can really hurt them.