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Everyone wants a close relationship with their father. When he makes him happy, he will love him more and he will also be happier. It can be difficult to please your father, but it is very important to cultivating family happiness. Your dad will probably be very happy if you pay a little attention to how he communicates and does a few things well in life.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Getting along with Dad

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   Spend time with Dad. This can be quite difficult, especially when you're busy with your studies and your dad is busy working. Try to spend time with your dad and share your views and thoughts to help you bond together. Try to eat at least one meal with your dad a day, which will be a great time for both parents to talk and talk about the events that happen during the day, the things that worry you or the problems. Another important issue. If your father shares his life together, in the future when you have the opportunity, ask again and discuss with him more to show that you are interested in listening.
   • Find a schedule of dad's life. Take the time to ask about your father's youth, dreams, career and memorable memories. The more you mature, the more you will find that these are all very cherished stories. In addition, these stories will also make you better understand your father's thoughts and thoughts.
   • Listen and really want to learn more about what Dad said. Listening shows concern and will help you bond with your dad.

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   Avoid controversy. It will be difficult for you not to talk back to your father, especially when you disagree or your father won't allow you to do what you so desperately want. Learn to control yourself and talk to your dad when you're calm. If you feel angry, take a deep, slow breath, or if you can, sit down and drink a glass of cold water to calm down.
   • Always try to understand my father's point of view. Maybe he has a special reason to forbid or think differently from you. You may find that your prohibition is exactly the way Dad is trying to protect you.
   • If he is not happy, try to find out why he is like that. Are you tired? Did you have a hard time working today? Or are you worried about something? Dad is not always sad because of you.

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   Please advise. Seek out to your father for advice on matters such as study, friends, finance or finding a job. This will show that you appreciate your father's opinion. Although you may not have experience with a subject, you will certainly be able to give you helpful advice on how to approach it and how to best find the way to approach it. .

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   Show affection. Let your dad know you love him. You can give your father a warm voice or show affection through hugs and kisses. Many fathers don't like love so much and even you are not used to loving gestures for each of us, but each of us needs such gestures of love.
   • Guys are sometimes especially shy about showing their affection to their parents. Try to show your emotions at a level that you are comfortable with. You don't have to hug your dad in public if you don't like it.

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   Follow father's thoughts. You can take the time to enumerate his thoughts by thinking about phrases he keeps repeating, such as 'You must always be honest', or 'Do your best' . Hidden in those words are the thoughts that your father is imparting to you (in the two examples above, live honestly and work hard). Maybe he doesn't often, but only occasionally sits and talks to you about these things. Think about his way of life, how he is always punctual, always dressed neatly and trying to imitate that way of life.
   • You don't have to agree with everything your dad says or does. Think of thoughts that have a positive effect on your life and try to emulate it. If you disagree with a certain idea, talk to your father, maybe you can change that mind in a more positive direction.
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Part 2 of 3: Be responsible at home

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   Housework. Think about the household chores that your dad always reminds you to do, the daily things that you are responsible for and completing them. If you do not like to do housework because it is difficult and boring, you can refer to some tips from Dad, maybe he will help you handle them in a different way more easily.
   • Asking for advice is also a way of showing that you value your father's opinion. Remember to follow those advice. He might feel disrespectful if you ask him to guide him to do something and then do it your own way,
   • Never let your dad ask you why you haven't done housework yet. You should make a schedule, set daily alarms on your phone to remind yourself until you form a habit of always completing everything on time.

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   Proactively do housework. Pay attention to the things to do around the house that your parents have not reminded or assigned to you and actively do them to surprise dad. Think of the things that had been piled up there for months that no one was going to do. Alternatively, you can think about his father's daily routine.For example, if he used to drink coffee before he went to work, make coffee for him every day, he will know that you care about him.
   • Do not forget to be considerate to other family members, especially when you use the living room or the kitchen, do not leave it untidy and let others clean.

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   Keep the room tidy. One of the reasons mothers often complain about their children is the messy rooms. Even if you share a room and it's your own space, show your dad that you can take on the responsibility of taking care of what belongs to you by keeping the room tidy.
   • Keep your closet tidy by folding / hanging clothes neatly, put dirty clothes in the laundry basket and fold down blankets and curtains in the morning when you wake up.
   • If you want to decorate the room with decorations like posters, be sure to not be ashamed of them if Dad comes to see the room.

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   Use internet and phone appropriately. This is especially important when your dad is the one who pays for your phone and internet usage fees. Having access to the internet and using the phone is a privilege from Dad, not your right. You need to show that you respect the amount of money your dad spent and the thoughts he taught you.
   • Talk about limited use of electronic devices with your father. Please follow the rules given by my father, such as whether you are allowed to use the computer until at the latest or lose hours or you can post anything on social media.
   • Avoid using electronic devices during meals to show respect for dad and family. Focusing on your meals is also a way to show that you value the time you spend together with your family.

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   Take care of siblings in the home. Let home be a peaceful, comfortable and warm place to welcome Dad back. Try to get along with your brothers and sisters, don't bully children and make fun of older brothers and sisters, help them with their studies, solve life problems and have fun together. If you are old enough to drive and have a car, you can offer to help your dad pick you up and siblings when needed.
   • It is perfectly normal for siblings to have arguments in the house sometimes, but you should really try to get along with them.
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Part 3 of 3: Be a good student at school

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   Study well. Show your dad that you aspire to be successful in life by studying well, working hard, and doing your best to complete your homework on time. If you do not understand anything, you can ask teachers or friends to explain and provide references for further research.
   • Make a schedule for your studies. You need to estimate how much time you need to complete homework, then schedule hours in the afternoon and evening to complete, don't forget to include review and breaks.
   • You can plan to study for about 45 minutes at a time, then take a 10-minute break, turn off your phone so that you can fully focus on your work, avoiding distractions that may appear. Try to use different learning methods until you find one that works.
   • Study in a private room with quiet space.
   • Keep your books and school supplies neatly organized. You should clip the material for each subject separately, write down the name and date of the exercise so you know which task to take first.

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   Have a good relationship with the teacher. Build a good image for yourself by always being polite to the teachers, always trying to study well and enthusiastically speaking constructive in class. Sometimes, it can be difficult to be polite or polite when you don't like a teacher or if your classmates are too naughty. Set yourself a good example by behaving properly. Your father would be very proud to hear his teacher praise you.
   • This doesn't mean you have to assume the teacher is always right. If the teacher disrespects or behaves inappropriately towards you or other classmates, report it to the school administration and let your parents know so they know the situation.

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   Join extracurricular activities. Doing well in school is not just about doing well in books. Participating in extracurricular activities will help you improve yourself more and more: you will learn valuable life skills such as discipline, leadership, teamwork, time management, and analytical skills, soft skills, and organizational skills while participating in exciting play activities. These are all the skills you need to be successful in life, and that success is something every parent always desires.
   • Extracurricular activities also help make your resume / resume look better by showing many interests and ideas that employers may be looking for.

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   Make friends with good people. Show your dad that you are someone with an eye on others. You should make friends with good students in your school, be gracious to your friends, be polite to your teachers, have a good academic record, have a good personality, and don't get into trouble. You can learn a lot from them and befriending them will also help you avoid trouble. If you want, you can offer to study in groups with them.
   • Don't do anything just because your friends do it. Think carefully before you act. If you are having problems with peer pressure, you can talk to your dad or school counselors.
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Advice

• Besides giving gifts, having a surprise birthday is also a great way to make your dad happy.