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• Method 1 of 3: Communicate with compassion
• Method 2 of 3: Using non-verbal communication
• Method 3 of 3: Act thoughtfully

Even if you particularly care about someone, it can be difficult to show those feelings. There are many ways to show your appreciation to loved ones. By speaking kindly, giving your full attention, and being kind to people, you can show your appreciation.

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Method 1 of 3: Communicate with compassion

1. Find various ways to show that you care about someone. A comment such as "I love you" is a common expression of appreciation and care. There are plenty of other ways to express appreciation that are more direct and specific. This is important because everyone expresses and accepts love and compassion in different ways. The more ways you express your appreciation, the more likely the person will see it as genuine. Some examples are:
   • "I enjoy spending time with you."
   • "I appreciate everything you do for me."
   • "You are one of my best friends."
2. Confide in the other person. Showing someone your appreciation for them sometimes comes in the form of trust. Be open to the other and tell things that you wouldn't just tell everyone. Let the other person come closer so that it becomes clear that you appreciate them.
   • For example, you can tell someone that you still really like a childhood story, something that you normally keep private.
3. Be empathetic. The people you appreciate should also be able to trust you. Make an effort to show that you are interested in their life and try to create a real emotional connection. Never ridicule or laugh at people who open up to you emotionally, as this can make them feel embarrassed and shut themselves off from you. By repeatedly showing that you are there for the other person, you indicate that you appreciate him or her, and this will ensure that they respond to your appreciation.
   • For example, if someone you know well is going through a divorce or breakup, he or she may need your support. Never play down or make fun of the situation by saying things like, "Don't come to me to cry. Find someone else. "Instead, be supportive by saying something like," I know you're going through a rough time right now. What can I do to cheer you up? "
4. Accept people as they are. If you really value someone, you have to appreciate them for who they are. You can't force someone to change just because you want to. Trying to force something like that will make the other feel unappreciated, but rejected. If you disagree with something someone does, thinks, or says, agree to disagree instead of forcing the other person to share your opinion. This kind of respect will show the person that you appreciate them, even when you disagree on a particular issue.
   • For example, if you have a friend who disagrees with you politically, you are no more likely to change his mind than vice versa. That said, constantly trying to force your way of thinking on someone can damage your relationship. Instead, agree to disagree and avoid that topic.
5. Show gratitude. Sometimes we are so busy and preoccupied with life that we forget to express gratitude to friends and loved ones. We take things in life - and people - for granted, even if it is usually not on purpose. Think about things you can do to express your gratitude.
   • For example, thank loved ones for what they do, even the little things. Say something like, "Thanks for doing the dishes." I really appreciate your help. "
   • You can also try keeping a gratitude journal. Write down specific things you are grateful for and share them with friends and family.
   • Say something like, "I love you," or leave a note for someone telling you how much that person means to you, making you smile, or adding to your life.
6. Give compliments. Recognizing a person's best qualities shows that you have noticed and appreciate them. Make sure to compliment regularly. Some common compliments are:
   • "You are brilliant".
   • 'I think you are pretty'.
   • "You are so kind and caring".

Method 2 of 3: Using non-verbal communication

1. Offer your help when someone needs it. A real show of appreciation is that you are there for someone in need. If the person you value asks for your help, do whatever you can to help them. If you know the person is going through a rough time, do your best to do something nice for that person.
   • For example, if the person is going through a rough time, you can bring them a meal or come over to do some chores for them.
2. Make physical contact. Physical contact can often show that you care and appreciate someone. Hugs, holding hands, and other forms of contact are often welcome with close friends, family, or loved ones. Make sure any physical contact you initiate is welcome and never try to impose it.
3. Text message. Personal communication is of course best. Yet many of our daily interactions today are by phone, email or text message, making it easy to reach your loved ones in this way. Send a short message to let you know you've thought about the recipient.
   • SMS and email are quick and easy to send and another way to express your feelings of appreciation to someone.
   • Text something like, "I appreciate you" or "I love you." Send a short email saying, "I miss you" or "I can't wait to see you."
4. Look the other person in the eye when they are speaking. When talking to someone, give them your undivided attention. This will make the person feel important and appreciated. Look the other person in the eye when you talk or listen to the other, so they know they have your full attention.

Method 3 of 3: Act thoughtfully

1. Avoid arguments. Fights can crumble a relationship over time. When you can, avoid them at all costs. If something is insignificant, it's not worth hurting the other person's feelings or your relationship with him or her. By choosing your battleground wisely, you show a strong appreciation for the person.
   • For example, if someone makes a comment like, "Your hair is a mess today," it probably isn't worth arguing.
   • However, if someone has stolen money from you, then you should, for example, have a constructive conversation about boundaries.
2. Apologize. If a disagreement has arisen, apologize. This will show that you accept some of the blame for the disagreement and value the other person enough to admit it. This can go a long way in showing your appreciation for the other person.
3. Come up with a nice surprise. Surprising someone also shows that you have thought about him or her. It also shows that you know them well enough to surprise them with something they enjoy. An unexpected gift, meal, or trip can show someone that you really care.
   • For example, if you're stopping by with a takeaway from a favorite restaurant or cooking a friend's favorite meal for her, this shows that you care about the person.
   • People will also feel appreciated if you bring a small gift from your trip. It shows you've thought of them.
4. Be there for the people you value. When someone you care about needs you, it's important to make time for them.Sometimes you have to drop what you are doing right away, and other times you can agree to have lunch later in the week. You should always stick to agreements with the people you value or they will feel unimportant to you.
   • For example, if a friend needs your help moving on the weekend, try to clear your calendar and help him or her.
5. Pay attention to the people you care about. When you spend time with someone dear to you, give them your full attention. Avoid distractions such as cell phones or televisions and engage in a conversation. Actively listen to the other person and show genuine interest in what he or she is saying.
   • For example, if you are going to lunch with your parents, turn off your mobile phone at the table.
   • Use the power of the touch. If the person is a close friend or relative, give them a pat, hug, or kiss on the cheek. If it is an intimate partner, think of a hug, cuddling on the couch or kissing.