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• Steps
• Advice
• Warning

Now that you've found the perfect guy to kiss, it's important to know what to do and how to do it. Good kissing is really important, but fortunately it is easy if you have good habits. Just follow these simple steps and you'll be an expert in no time!

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Before kissing

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   Make sure your breath is fresh. Good breath is important when kissing because you want to give the guy as many reasons as possible to keep kissing you. Use gum or mint and always brush your teeth before you see him. Remember, bad breath is not the end of the world but avoid it if you can.
   • Don't eat smelly, spicy, or garlic-flavored foods before you see him. Again, if you can't avoid them then it's not a big deal, but it's better to avoid them all at once.

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   Make sure you choose the best outfit. You can't always plan where and when to kiss a guy, but you can try to prepare it. If you dress well and comfortably, you will find your steps so light as to fly. That means you will be more confident. More confidence means he will more likely kiss you again.
   • It is not necessary to apply lip gloss, and do not use plain lipsticks. Lip gloss and regular lipstick, especially regular lipstick, will be smudged on the opponent's face, making him look shiny or dull, depending on the situation. Be loyal to lip balm.
   • Do not use too many accessories such as bras, or create entangled hairstyles. The boys all like natural beauty. You might want to try kissing him while his hair is tied up, so that he can only focus on you and the kiss, not the hairs tickling his face.

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   Find a good place to kiss. Public places are often not suitable for first kisses, as you can be stared at and even bothered by others. Try to find some public place but still have enough privacy for you to share your first kiss.

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   Try doing something less nervous by flirting with body language. Not only does this help him understand that you like him, but it also gives him time to get to know you, so that you don't jump from 0 to 60 in a split second.
   • Hold his hand or put your arm around his neck. Move your body to get him closer to you; It would be weird if you had to move too far to kiss him.
   • Brush his hair or face to let him know you're interested. Gently touch his nose with your index finger and smile at him.
   • You could also try hugging him first, and while holding him, lean back and move closer to kiss him. This will create a connection from the moment you hug each other.

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   Make sure you are both ready for the kiss. This readiness is both physical and emotional. Kissing means "I like you better than like a friend," and it is sometimes difficult to maintain a friendship after you've been in a relationship with that person. If you're not sure you're doing the right thing, wait until you really know.
   • Look into his eyes. When he looks at you, take a slow look at his lips and look back into his eyes. If he does the same to you, he is ready. If he looks uncomfortable or avoids your eyes, it's best not to do anything yet.
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Method 2 of 3: While kissing

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   Bring your lips slowly closer to him, closing your eyes at the last second. You need to look to kiss him on the lips, but you don't want to open your eyes when you kiss, so close your eyes right before locking your lips.
   • Close your eyes while kissing. When the kiss is over, you can open your eyes and gently pull away from the guy.
   • Move towards the kiss in a certain angle. This means, if his face is straight, you will want your face to tilt slightly left or right, choosing whichever direction makes you more comfortable. This will prevent you from touching each other's noses while kissing.

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   Use your lower lip mainly when kissing. Don't puck your lips like you've just eaten a sour marshmallow, or like you are kissing your grandmother. Relax your lips and relax.
   • Give him a long kiss. You don't have to do anything too much to get him noticed the first time.
   • Your big goal is to get him back for the next kiss. Give him enough to excite him, but not too much to make him bored. Try to keep your first kiss under 20 seconds if you can.
   • Breathe gently through your nose. Try not to breathe in his throat or breathe on his lips.
   • Don't French kiss the first time. French kisses are tough kisses, save for until you really want to surprise him.

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   While you are kissing, try a gentle open-mouth kiss. Simply separate your lips a bit and kiss his bottom lip with yours. Don't last too long - about 5 seconds - and be prepared to stop soon.

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   While kissing, raise your hand on his back and lean back toward him. This way, you can get twice the bargain you have! If he puts his hand on your back or is hugging your waist, it means he wants to protect you and you may have succeeded!
   • If he plays with your hair or gently caresses your cheeks, that is a sign that he understands his feelings very well, and he certainly likes you.
   • Remember to close your eyes the whole time. No television! Your attention should only be paid to his lips and the kiss.
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Method 3 of 3: After kissing

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   When you leave the kiss, open your eyes. This is the time to look at the guy you just shared the kiss with. If you do well, he blushes, eyes dim, and smiles.
   • Smiling back at him. He may be worried about how he kissed, so you'll want to convince him that he did a great job. You can do this just by smiling.
   • If your arms are still around him, leave them there for a few seconds before you let go. It would be weird if you suddenly let go of your hand right after the kiss was over.

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   Say something good about him, if you want. Sometimes the kiss itself is enough to say it all. But sometimes, you still want to say something after the kiss, like:
   • "You have a wonderful kiss."
   • "I've been wanting to do that for a long time."

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   Listen to what your heart wants to say. So you finally kissed the guy, whom you wanted to kiss to death in the past six months. Now what? You have several options:
   • Wait for him to take the next step. If you're the one coming for your first kiss, you might think it's your turn of the guy to start the next kiss. Just be yourself, do what you normally do, but be friendly and supportive. He will try to kiss you again.
   • Kiss him when you want. You probably don't care who kisses who actively, just kiss. That's fine too, but make sure he likes it too. Kissing him regularly is more likely to lead to a relationship.
   • Stop kissing. Maybe it's because he's not a good kisser, or he's touched you in the wrong places, or you have a bad feeling about him. That is completely fine. Try to be friendly around him, but don't let yourself get into situations (specifically, just the two of you, in lonely places) so he can kiss you again.

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   Remember the conventions of kissing. There are unwritten rules you should know about kissing. Pay attention and try to follow them if possible and if you think it makes sense.
   • Don't talk about your love life. We know - that extremely easy to commit. But that doesn't mean it's right. What happens between you and your crush is just your business. Don't gossip too much about it.
   • Don't kiss while you're sick and can be contagious. Kissing is a very intimate thing, but it doesn't mean your partner wants everything from you, including your flu. Try not to kiss when you are not feeling well.
   • Kiss one person, don't kiss everyone. Kissing can be fun, but it doesn't mean just go out and kiss anyone you want. Focus on a person you like very much, try everything, and go out with others if nothing goes wrong between you two. You will be much more appreciated, and you will certainly be happier.
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Advice

• Close your eyes: a guy or girl with wide eyes gives the impression that they're shocked or uncomfortable! Close your eyes for a beautiful long first kiss.
• Different signs of kissing have different meanings. Be aware of them! When a guy hugs you in different parts of his body, here's what he's trying to tell you:
  • Hands on your waist - he is fascinated with you and wants to protect you.
  • Hands on his back - he wants you and doesn't want to let you go.He feels comfortable with you.
  • Hand on arm - he wants to hold you and likes the feeling of you.
  • His arms around his neck - he wanted more than that.
  • Hands caressing your face - he is fascinated with you and it is never enough to be fascinated by you.
  • Hands in his hair - he was trying to be a gentleman.
• Hold him where you feel most confident. Remember and make sure that you don't let the kiss last too long, as it will make him want more the next time.
• Make sure you are in a place that is not too public and that you are comfortable with your surroundings.
• If you feel that he is touching you with bad intentions, you have the right to tell him not to do so.
• Be enjoy. The first kiss was very special. Don't worry too much about anything, relax and let him hug you.
• When you kiss him, let him be your guide, but don't overdo it. Guys love the feeling of being owned and are happy to have someone hug you tightly, but make sure you're controlling the kiss too and, if it feels like something isn't right, let go.
• Keep a mouth spray bottle with you and use it before you kiss him.
• You can also use peppermint instead of a breath freshener.
• Don't tell him you're going to kiss him. That can make him panic.
• Before you kiss him, talk to him and make sure you really want to kiss him. Don't just take a risk, he may feel confused, scared or uncomfortable.
• Don't be shocked or embarrassed by what you do, everyone kisses, it's not a big deal - if you love him then only that matters!

Warning

• If this is your first kiss, make sure it's just the two of you together, as kissing in front of your friend can be uncomfortable. You don't want to feel like they're staring at your kiss.
• Make sure you do not only do so because you see no other hope; Make sure you really like him. It's not good that you have a reputation for being able to kiss anyone or everyone.
• Remember when you feel uncomfortable you have the right to separate. Don't do what you don't want!
• Make sure the other party is ready, too, don't jump in suddenly. You must watch each other's actions before you kiss him.
• Always make sure that you don't let the guy you're sharing your first kiss with misinterpret what you want him to do with you. Touching him in the wrong places will make him think you want more than you spent.
• Don't chew gum; it makes you saliva. Saliva is antibacterial, so if the dose is right, it's great. However, no one wants to feel like they are kissing a dog.
• If you wear a brace, make sure there are no sharp parts, otherwise the opponent will chuck on their lips or tongue!