Content

• Steps
• Advice
• Warning

Are you feeling disgusted when the person shows indifferent expressions or doesn't even respond to your calls or texts? There have been a lot of girls in the same situation as you and each of them will behave differently. If you feel sick of your boyfriend's indifference and want a revolution to change everything, take time to read these helpful tips below.

Steps

Part 1 of 5: Review your own attitudes and behaviors

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   Think carefully about whether he gets suffocated and pressured by you when he's together. Maybe he wants to avoid you to have his own space if you have recently had a habit of managing or breaking into his own life. For example, regularly texting or calling continuously about three times an hour for the past three hours. You should understand that guys treasure their private time and they don't always hang around with you 24/7.

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   See everything from his point of view. There are many core reasons why he may seem "distracted" from you, but in fact, he has no interest in being with you.
   • Maybe he was really busy. Both of you have the habit of cooking porridge with each other everyday. And suddenly one day you don't get any conversation from him. That makes you more eager to hear his voice than ever before. It may just be a day without talking to him but it drives you crazy. And the truth is he is very busy. At this point, he may suspend all communications before completing the job.
   • He is not feeling well. He seemed to be suffering from a cold, shoulder pain, or even stomach ache. As someone who tries to endure everything, he doesn't want to be a burden to you or let you see his pitiful looks during illness. Maybe that's why he didn't reply you back.
   • He felt really tired and exhausted. That may be the reason he wants to find his own space to regain energy by hiding from you for a week to have a proper sleep.
   • He is having problems related to his family. Your boyfriend feels uncomfortable talking to you because he is dealing with complicated family problems. It is difficult to expose you to such matters in detail. He thought it would be better not to let you get involved in things like this because that would make things even more confusing. Either way, he just wants to be good for you.
   • He is having a headache with difficulties at work. Maybe your boyfriend is covering his head because the deadline to finish a project is nearing, or he was scolded and pressured by his boss, or felt his future was uncertain. To save the situation, he is trying to take advantage of every opportunity at work and your presence may inadvertently distract him.

Part 2 of 5: Let's slow things down a bit

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   Make room for both. If you think you've been “overwhelmed” in the relationship, it's best to step back for a while and give him some space. That doesn't mean you will give up this love or never see him again. This is just your chance to catch up with yourself and make things feel more relaxed.
   • Do not text or call him during the day. Practice getting used to it. If he really hasn't moved for the whole day, ask him what he wants and needs out of his current relationship. If he can't give you what you want, look for another guy.
   • Do not call or text him just to talk about aimless stories. Don't bother him with the phone calls to tell him about a friend breaking up when he doesn't even know what their face looks like. You might think it's important, but he doesn't.

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   Don't get too preoccupied with that. Showing how sad you are when you are ignored by him only reduces your attraction and you may have fallen into a chauvinist's trap. Practice laughing a lot and being happy with what you have. Make sure that your daily life and work will not be hindered by being neglected by others. The happier you are, the stronger he will gain.

Part 3 of 5: Find out what makes him uncomfortable

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   Try asking in person. Ask boldly if there is any special reason why he is indifferent to you. For example, do you bother him or accidentally say what you shouldn't be saying? If he acts like a stranger for some reason, you will want to know it to avoid recidivism.
   • If the guy says he just wants some space, see if you can live without him. This can be difficult if you are someone who wants to have a strong relationship with your boyfriend and is not comfortable with letting him have space.

Part 4 of 5: Find a way to heal with him

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   Get closer based on his thoughts and opinions. As noted above, there are many reasons why your boyfriend is indifferent to you. One of the reasons why he doesn't respond to you is that he probably thinks your story is not that important and it is just gossip and not worth the attention. The best way is to learn to talk to him according to what he is interested in and interested in. Or stop telling him the stories you told your friends about celebrities, hairstyles or beauty.
   • Together, talk about his passion. For example, sports, racing, chemistry, whatever. Pay attention to what makes him forget to sleep. Everyone has their own passion and it's up to you to discover it.
   • Ask about his hobbies. Find out why he likes those things. You can insist on him explaining why he is passionate about it and how he realized it. Think about it, how can he ignore you when you care about his hobby like this?
   • Don't interrupt when he's drunk on something. When you're passionate about what you love, let him say it. Don't disturb him when he's on the rise.

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   Find ways to have the same date as before. Tell him you want to hang out with him tonight and hopefully he will realize that you want him to be the one to plan everything ahead of time. If he doesn't understand then you will have to do it. If the date goes well, you may end up spending a little money, for example food and drink.
   • Remember to do what he likes. You can spend an entire day planning shopping if you get the chance, but for him, that's not a good idea on a date. Consider whether you would like to go with him to an amusement park, go to a movie, or enjoy a band show he admires.
   • Dress yourself in the best outfits, always have a smile on your lips, and brush the hairstyle that he likes. Sometimes, all a guy needs is a gentle wake-up call that the girl they love is the most beautiful person on the street. And this may cause them to be a bit afraid of losing you.
   • Try to talk only about everything well during the date. And make him feel comfortable. If possible, don't be afraid to ask questions. Demonstrates a sense of humor, kindness, and optimism. Give him the chance to make things better and review together the past why he became your boyfriend at the first meeting place.
   • If the date doesn't go as you expected tell him that you hoped the meeting would be a chance for the two of you to mend together and how worried you were when you didn't do everything well. like before. If the guy really doesn't care what you've just said, he doesn't deserve any more chance.

Part 5 of 5: Changing a new strategy

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   Tell him you want respect. If he thinks he can leave you by acting indifferent after your efforts to save your current relationship, then he may make that happen. In the event that you ask for respect, like telling him what you have and can't forgive, he won't have any choice.
   • Tell him how you feel. For example, talk to him about how you need clear communication and that you will try to do the same yourself.If he doesn't, tell him that you have no choice but to stop the relationship.
   • He will change immediately if he truly loves and respects you. If on the contrary, there is no reason to continue by his side, right?

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   Applying a strategy is cold to him. For example, hanging out with your best friends and his friends. Let him understand that you have a life of your own and that he is fortunate to be an important part of it.
   • Most guys will stop being cold to you and will immediately turn to your side when he sees you chatting happily with other men. They want to prove you are in their "sovereignty". That seems to be the possessive nature that every guy has.
   • If the guy does not return and remains indifferent to you, you should consider whether or not to continue this relationship. Finding someone who's always doing his best to keep the fire of love is probably going to be a lot better than your guy who's only half-trying to keep a relationship.

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   End everything if you get the feeling that the guy is cheating on you. There should, of course, be clear evidence. You wouldn't want someone else to go with him just because you act emotionally. If your hunch is wrong, have a straightforward conversation with him and find out why you feel that feeling. In case the two-hand fishing is real and goes exactly as you feel, all you should do is find another guy because there's already nothing left to hold on to.

Advice

• Don't be in a hurry to grab the phone whenever you see him texting or calling. You should stay calm. If he really calls or texts you, please reply back. As a rule of thumb, it's best to let the time you respond to him twice as long as he responds to you.
• If he uses a strategy of indifference as a "punishment" to show dissatisfaction with what you do, then after making peace tell him that you don't like childish behavior. this. However, if he continues to behave like this, you may want to end the relationship because it will be stressful if he continues to act like this.
• Sometimes, things will not be as bad as you might imagine. Patiently wait a while and then send him a message saying something like "Brother, how are you lately?" Maybe he was too busy or didn't notice the message. Make sure you text or call your boyfriend knowing he is in a position to respond.
• Stop texting and annoy him if he doesn't reply until he calls you back.
• You should know his friends and family. This will help you better understand the personality of those around him. If you get nervous, set up some basic rules right away and on. A man always cherishes his girlfriend if she respects and loves herself.

Warning

• Do not let him despise. Men want their women to spend time with them all their life. If things don't work out, he will distract you. Give him up if you can't stand it. It would be better if you give your heart to a guy who always treats you with love and respect.