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Some people may call you "naive" if you are too gullible or inexperienced with the world around you. Innocent people easily trust others, and that naive nature often makes them vulnerable to deception or harm. Innocence is not always a bad virtue; It can help you to be more optimistic and ingenious. However, if you want to be less naive, you should boldly experience more instead of shyly avoiding it. You should also take certain precautions in certain social situations.

Steps

Part 1 of 2: Open your eyes to the World

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   Meet many people from different social backgrounds. Sometimes, people are considered naive because of a limited view of the world or a limited life span. Walking out into the outside world and interacting with people with completely different lives can be an experience that helps you understand the world in a broader perspective.
   • You may be naive because you grew up rich and confused about those less fortunate. Making friends with people from different socioeconomic backgrounds and backgrounds will help you appreciate the luck you have.
   • Individuals growing up in small towns tend to be more innocent than people with urban lifestyles. Visiting a city and connecting with people can give you more confidence and give you knowledge about the difference between the world around you and the world you live in.
   • Friendship between people from many different cultures will help you develop empathy for others, as well as respect for cultural beliefs and practices.
   • You can try joining a culture club in your local community, or learning a foreign language. If you know people from different cultures and social status, ask them (with courtesy of course) about their customs, attitudes, and experiences. You can only learn more when you are willing to listen.

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   Join a new experience. Some people are naive because they were brought up in a very protective environment. Your parents may not allow you to attend the party or play with another kid your age, so you miss out on many memorable experiences.
   • Make up for lost time by doing all the fun activities you can think of to change your vision of the world and everyone in it. Parachuting, hiking / camping in the national park, writing a novel, or learning a language.
   • The novel experience stimulates brain cell growth. So, not only do you expand your opportunities to show behaviors and collect lots of good stories to tell, but also for brain health.

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   Step out of the comfort zone. When you always do things in a certain way, it gets a little tricky when you suddenly change the direction of your life. However, you will never know exactly how talented you are or what you are capable of without escaping from a place you've been in for so long.
   • Don't settle for a normal life just because you feel comfortable. Do your best for something new and special. You will learn more about the world as you progress.
   • Getting out of your comfort zone also gives you new energy to your life and makes a connection with a part of yourself that, up to now, is still at peace. As new opportunities and challenges arise, you'll be more productive, and your creativity and satisfaction levels increase.

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   Travel more. Discover many new places that will make the world smaller, whether it's a city nearby or around the world. You will quickly peel off old "pale" skin and gradually become more fluent with traveling around.
   • The social skills of innocent people often progress slowly, and cause them less opportunity to step into the outside world. However, by traveling around the world you can improve your social skills and change your horizons, as well as communicate with others in the country and around the world.
   • For example, traveling alone increases your natural instincts and challenges, so that when you come home, making new friends, eating alone at a restaurant, or going to a movie alone will be. should be easier. Flying on your wings also increases your confidence and reduces your dependence on a companion, giving you more opportunities to meet new friends and participate in new experiences.
   • Make sure you are open to new experiences. "Culture shock" is a state when encountering a different culture from the culture in the homeland. This condition is very common and can have a big impact if you are completely innocent. Accept that when you travel, you will encounter many experiences and people will be very different, and you will experience times feeling uncomfortable with the experience. That's all it takes to learn about a new life elsewhere.

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   Become a volunteer. Just as bonding with people from different backgrounds gives you a new perspective on life, so is helping the needy. Plus, for yourself to step out of an inexperienced environment, you'll work hard to solve the problem and help improve your community.
   • Believe it or not, volunteering is even healthy.It has positive effects on physical and mental health, including giving people a sense of purpose to strive for and be happy, fulfilled.
   • Consider what kind of abilities you have to help. Many volunteer opportunities don't require any special skills, but if you are proficient in the computer field or are a "sociable person", you may be able to seize opportunities that match your skills and personality.
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Part 2 of 2: Be More Careful in Social Relations

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   Be more alert. When you step out of the familiar environment, you will find that there are good people and bad guys everywhere. You should be aware of the types of people around you.

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   Determine if people are trustworthy. Carefully observe someone new to you before assessing whether they are trustworthy. Don't judge people until they reveal their unreliable nature.
   • If you tend to judge things too hastily and hastily, bring someone in on your first meeting with new acquaintances for more ideas before you start building a friendship or relationship. new cold.
   • The human brain usually only takes a millisecond to judge whether a person is trustworthy, so don't be disappointed with yourself in case you quickly believe in the best human qualities. . Lack of innocence doesn't mean you have to become a skeptic.

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   Recognize the signs of dishonesty. Meeting someone new to you can be novel and exciting, but you need to keep an eye on certain expressions to see if the person truly loves you.
   • Not all liars look away when lying. Experienced liars can make eye contact, even while cheating on you.
   • Fidgety sitting can be a sign of dishonesty, especially if it only happened during a specific incident or story, rather than a routine.
   • Other body language that alludes to dishonesty include persistent clearing of the throat, hands behind the neck, (like playing with a necklace), leaning back, or lack of "definitive gestures" such as pointing or leaning. head. A single manifestation is usually not evidence that a person is lying, and some of these actions may simply indicate anxiety. However, if you see many of the above signs appearing at the same time, it could be a signal of a lie.
   • Be wary of new acquaintances who are overly concerned with you. People who try to learn too much about you in the short term can be a signal of danger to be wary, especially if they are deeply interfering with your personal, work, and financial life. This type of person often has an underlying motivation when it comes to making friends.

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   Listen more, talk less. Engage in superficial social chat until you feel comfortable with the new person. Listen to what the person is saying more, instead of sharing too many things about yourself. In addition, this behavior towards a new friend can be seen as a benefit because most people are interested in sharing about themselves and feel happy when someone is ready to listen.
   • Keep it secret. Innocent people often trust strangers too quickly. Don't let anyone know about your personal life and job, except your family and your most trusted best friend or lover. Avoid sharing too much.
   • Sword talk in a hurry. If you are someone who rarely thinks before you speak, take action to avoid saying something that you may regret. Pause and think carefully about each word before speaking.

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   Learn to read other people's minds. What people say is completely different from what they feel inside. Words only make up 7% of communication. 55% belong to body language and 30% belong to voice.
   • Is the new acquaintance sitting far away with their back facing you? This may reveal that the person doesn't like you.
   • Does the novice tuck his hand between his legs, put his hand in his pocket, or put his hand behind his back? This may imply that the person is not interested in the conversation or interaction.
   • Check for suspicious body language signs. The open arms pose perpendicular to you shows that someone is comfortable with what's going on.
   • Are newbies grinding their teeth or pursing their lips? This is an indication that the person is feeling tense in the present situation.
   • If inwardly you think someone is suspicious or dishonest, distance yourself from that person immediately. Learn to trust your instincts.

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   Realize that you cannot "fix" people. People can sometimes be perceived as naive if they believe they can "fix" others by helping, loving, or believing in them, etc. This is especially common in a relationship. To reduce your naivety, acknowledge that each person is responsible for their own behavior and actions.
   • For example, a common sign of an unhealthy relationship is a person who believes that his / her "love" can help someone to give up improper behavior or help that person become human. better. Although you can of course support your spouse, you cannot "fix" them with love.

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   Be confident in yourself. Even if you are naive, you still have something special to contribute to the world. In fact, naive people can take risks, take risks and be more productive than those who have experienced but always doubted themselves. Learn to naturally accept who you are.

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   Give yourself more time. You can't change your innocence overnight. Give yourself some time to adjust and become more cautious of the people around you. Before you begin any relationship, take some time off until you feel like you can assess the other person's intentions. advertisement

Warning

• When in a new environment or meeting new acquaintances, always let someone know your location by giving them your address or telling them how to reach you in an emergency. Always meet new people in public.
• The downside of sharing too much information will exceed the limits of face-to-face conversations. Take care not to share personal information on social networks.