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• Method 1 of 3: Showing your love through actions
• Method 2 of 3: Show your love through words
• Method 3 of 3: Showing your love through trust
• Tips

In the excitement of a new romance, it seems simple and natural to communicate your love for the other person. However, after marriage, many couples settle into a routine where one or both partners feel like it is a matter of course. Don't let another day pass without strengthening your love for your partner. Follow these steps to show your partner how much you really love them.

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Method 1 of 3: Showing your love through actions

1. Start small. Little things can make a big difference if you put a little bit of mind and feeling into them. Your wife or husband wants to know at the end of the day if you are they thinks. All of the following can be done for little or no money.
   • Suggest an evening stroll through the neighborhood.
   • Turn a room into a dance floor and ask your partner for a dance.
   • Camp in your own backyard.
   • Read to your partner in bed (with or without comedic commentary).
   • Hit the gym together (some couples swear sex afterwards is great).
   • Talk about romantic getaway ideas and save the data safely for later.
2. Get bigger gradually. It's nice to mix the small, more mundane acts with the bigger, more meaningful ones. These take a little more work and can cost money (some, but not a whole lot), but they'll be worth it when your partner is screaming with excitement or squirming with joy.
   • Make a video montage of your wedding night.
   • Ask your in-laws and plan a birthday party as a surprise.
   • Reconstruct your first date, your first kiss or your first meeting.
   • Write a song for your partner and record it (can be sincere or funny).
   • Create a storybook that tells the beginning of your relationship.
3. Show your love through thoughtful actions. They could be simple things like drawing a bath, giving a massage, doing the dishes, or writing a poem. Choose an action that you know your partner will appreciate. Remember that denying yourself never means doing things reluctantly. If you show affection but have to drag your feet along the way, you might as well not do it.
   • Buy him / her something when you know they have it specific want. If he wants a Bosch tool box or she wants a Fendi bag, they can get mad at your well-intentioned attempts to give them something similar.
   • Make something for them if you are trying to show your effort. It doesn't take a lot of effort to buy your partner what they want, but it certainly takes effort to come up with a poem, write it down, and frame it. This shows real commitment.
   • Lots of small gestures are easier than one big one. In case you thought you could relieve it and make up for all your normal neglects, sorry: It's much easier to do little things for your partner at regular intervals than pop out every blue moon with a grand gesture. Practice small and steady gestures.
4. Spend time with your partner. (This is often the least used, but the most powerful form of loving.) Turn off the phone, radio, television, and computer and sit together and allow yourself to experience each other. Of course, being present with your husband or wife provides an opportunity to serve him or her, so be available to love your partner.
   • Go on a date at least once a month. The kids, busy schedules, and apathy can all get in the way, but both of you should insist on being alone for dinner or the movie at least once a month.
   • When in doubt, ask questions. People love to talk about themselves and your partner is no different. Pepper them with your big "how", "what" or "when" questions instead of the simple "yes / no" questions. Great conversations depend on big questions. Become a connoisseur.
   • Really get to know their past. After many years, some partners are amazed to hear everyday details about their partner's past. Showing a shared interest in their past shows them that you really care about who they are. Don't lie, tell the truth. Admitting that you've made mistakes shows that you trust each other and accept your past.

Method 2 of 3: Show your love through words

1. Express your love. Clear communication will let your partner know how much you love them. Speaking from your experience is a way of sharing yourself so that your partner can hear. You could say, "My heart goes boom boom when you walk into the room" or "I think about you all the time, and when I think about you I smile." Say what's true.
   • Praise your partner's talents and achievements. If you haven't already, find out the ways your partner thinks they are unique and fantastic. Spend your time enhancing those traits. If your husband imagines himself as an intellectual, praise him for his cleverness. If your wife imagines herself as a fashionista, praise her for her style.
   • Get used to talking about feelings. Don't avoid talking about whatever emotions you're going through. Have a conversation about the feelings your partner has. Even share insignificant things that happened during your day, as it will make your partner feel more involved in your life.
2. Speak the truth. Telling your partner the truth is a loving thing to do because it shows trust and respect. The truth doesn't have to be positive to be meaningful. It just has to be true. Show your partner unconditional love, but not unconditional acceptance. Also, always be willing to accept corrections from your partner. This helps each of you develop and grow as better people, and it strengthens your relationship, not one built on fantasy or falsehoods.
   • Don't raise your voice, use loaded words, or generalize words like always and constant. These can make the truth worse than it needs to be.
   • Don't get caught in the cultural understanding that to love is never to seek help from someone who is better than oneself. Trust your partner actually want that you tell them the truth. You should strive to encourage each other, to keep coming up with ways to improve you and your relationship.
   • Use pleasant words to point out your partners' weaknesses and offer constructive suggestions on how to improve these things. If your partner is particularly sensitive, offset criticism with praise so they can see what they need to improve. Don't lie just saying they are perfect just the way they are, point out what they need to improve and help them get better in a positive way.
3. Find out what your partner prefers as the love language. Do they know you love them when you speak words of love? Or maybe they feel loved by your actions? Some people feel loved by receiving small gifts and others by loving touches. Real love is not based on your preference but on that of your partner.
   • Things men might consider about women. A little physical affection goes a long way.Men don't often show physical affection and sometimes a small gesture like a kiss on the neck or a spontaneous hug is just what she needs. Don't think it's a reassurance, see it as a concrete gesture.
   • Things that women might consider about men. Men sometimes think that physical affection is unnecessary or even clingy. That doesn't mean you can't show your love. Just be aware that it is not important to him. Give your partner time to express his emotions and don't punish him if he can't.

Method 3 of 3: Showing your love through trust

1. Remember that actions often speak louder than words. Don't just say something, do something. It sometimes upsets your partner when you consistently say you're going to do something but ultimately never do. If your words don't have any initiative behind them, they start to lose some of their covetousness and your partner will start to trust you less.
   • Don't make excuses. Apologies might be real to you, but they sound like excuses for your partner. Bring you faults of the past not in your new relationship, this is also seen as an excuse, no matter what situation, abuse, insult, financial suffering you were in, don't bring it up. You can overcome and process everything with time. Talk to your partner about these things, then leave it in the past, don't keep using it as a support in your future. Man or woman, admit when you make a mistake and try to do better next time. Your partner will notice.
2. Trust your partner to acknowledge your efforts. Love is not a competition: It's not about getting you right or it payback from your partner. Trust that your partner realizes how happy he / she is with you.
   • Don't always ask for validation. Validation is important, but learn to get by without it, even if you desperately want it. Maybe you just gave your wife a wonderful gift, and for whatever reason, she's not particularly grateful. Trust her to appreciate your effort and gift and don't dwell on the lack of validation.
   • Trust your partner that he / she is with themselves. Unless there is a history of infidelity, rely on your partner to make responsible, loving decisions in your absence. When they are out with friends to drink beer or at a bachelor party, trust them. They are likely to surprisingly honor your trust if you actually give it to them.
3. Don't forget what love is. Love is an act of will, not a warm feeling or a clever expression of experience. While love is different for everyone and everyone shows it differently, love often requires denying yourself and meeting the needs of your loved one.
   • Think about the last time your partner made you smile. What has he / she done to make you feel like the happiest person in the world? Is there anything you can do to make them feel the same as you?
   • Go the extra mile for them. The modern world has kept us busy, we are constantly doing things and we never seem to have enough time to do it. Can you go to great lengths to help your partner with something they need to do, something they hate, or just something they would appreciate?
     
     • Have the oil changed in her car. Press or iron his shirts for a big day at work or an interview, help out in the kitchen so you can enjoy the evening together.
     • Buy her a gift certificate and insist that she go shopping with her friends, help do the lawn, clean the gutters, or prune the trees.

Tips

• Marriage takes effort. Listen to your partner, don't interrupt or invalidate what they are saying. Listening really means absorbing what your partner is saying - if you are mentally planning what to say, then you are not listening.
• Remember that service and love are naturally linked. Whatever you know about the needs your partner needs, that's what you need to do to love him or her. The moment where you start to insist with your way or do what you want, you stop showing your love for your partner. A marriage or relationship is not just about you, love is a partnership, you put your partner's needs first. You have to want to take care of them, protect them, and make sure their happiness is above all else.
• Take your partner out to different places, such as to the restaurant for dinner, to the movies, to have a picnic or to go on vacation. Don't go to places you went with your exes, this can be tricky for both of you. Go to new places and learn new things. Learning new things together helps build your relationship and helps you get to know each other better.
• You can make mistakes in love, which is why forgiveness is such an essential part of your marriage. However, people often report constant infidelity and lie as a mistake. Infidelity is a choice, not a mistake. A mistake is an argument about something narrow-minded, not being thoughtful enough, forgetting to do something that your loved one asked you to do, not lying or being unfaithful. If you are a forgiving person, you are more likely to be forgiven.
• For men, when your woman is dressing up for an event, pay attention to detail by choosing and praising something new for her. When shopping with her, show her some of the options available (according to her taste) and if you don't like what she's wearing, never express your dislike.