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• Method 1 of 3: Treat him
• Method 2 of 3: Show that you really care about him
• Method 3 of 3: Make sure he stays interested in you
• Tips

Whether you've been married for thirty years or only been dating for three months, it's always important to spoil the man you're with. To spoil a man, you need to make him feel special, make meaningful gestures to him that show you care, and always remember to keep your relationship fresh and interesting. If you want to know how to please a man, go to step 1 to get started right away.

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Method 1 of 3: Treat him

1. Give him a massage. Every man loves massages, even if he may not ask for it. Many men are too shy to tell you what they really want. If you and your husband are alone and you notice that he is a little tense or you know that he has been bent over his desk or computer all day, give him a small shoulder, back, and neck massage so you can get some of the can take away tension. He'll feel great afterward and notice that you really care about him. This can also inspire him to you give a massage, so everyone wins in this case!
2. Buy him tickets to a sports game. If your husband is into football or any other sport, surprise him with tickets to the next game that he really wants to go to. If you enjoy sports or think he appreciates your company, go with him. You can also say the tickets are for him and his best friend, showing that you're okay with him spending time with his friends without you. He will really appreciate the gesture and feel that you care about him. You don't have to be a sports fan yourself to show an interest in the things he is interested in. EXPERT TIP

   Make his favorite meal. Don't force him to sit at the table for two hours to eat your homemade meal if he prefers chips with a hamburger, but pick the right time to enjoy a delicious, tasty meal prepared by you together. You might surprise him by saying you're just making pasta and a salad when you're actually making his favorite meal, be it lasagna, steak, or whatever makes him happy. Serve it with a good wine or a special beer and your husband will be completely delighted.

3. Give him a small gift. There is no need to give your husband big, chic and elaborate gifts to show him that you care. No, it's the gesture that counts, and a small expression of love at a time when he least expects it can affect him much more powerfully than, say, buying a new record player as a gift. Instead, buy that one record he's been looking for, that rare T-shirt with his favorite band's logo on it, or a new fountain pen when his old one is gone. He will feel pampered and touched by the gesture.
4. Leave notes for him. Nothing makes a man melt more than a sweet note that is put away in the right place and time. Whether you get up and leave home earlier, or just leave a note at home, take a minute to write something nice to tell him you're thinking about him. Put it in a place where he will find it quickly, such as his computer, mirror or the window of his car. He will be moved by the gesture and the fact that you think of him when you're not together. This shows much more than, say, a text message that you care about him!
5. Do him a favor. If your husband is busy and stressed, take the time to find out how you can help him get through the day better. Whether you do the dishes for him, prepare his lunch or take his clothes to the dry cleaner; you can surprise him with the gesture and show him that you like him. Sure, washing the dishes doesn't sound very romantic, but the fact that you've thought about it will certainly endear him! Plus, it can give him an idea to make an effort for you too if you need some help in turn.
6. Go to his house with his favorite treat. There are times when nothing makes a man melt more than when you come to his house with his favorite snack, be it that real Italian pizza you got across town, scones from his favorite bakery, or that delicious milkshake. which he loves so much. It shows that you've thought about what he loves and that you've made an effort to make him happy. These are especially bonus points for him if he has spent a lot of time at home, at work or studying, without having gone out to eat something.
7. Give him a foot massage while you're watching TV. Sure, watching TV together may not be the most romantic activity out there. But why not spice that up a bit by giving your husband a foot massage instead of just sitting on the couch with just the two of you? Put his feet on your lap and give them a nice, extensive massage, and he will enjoy it immensely.
8. Leave a message for him on the mirror. If your husband is taking a shower, sneak in and write I love you or any other sweet message. Then when he gets out of the shower, he will see your special words on the mirror with steam and will be really touched by this. This works best if you have a spacious bathroom and don't scare him if he suddenly sees you in the bathroom.
9. Buy tickets so he can see his favorite band. Look up the band's tour schedule and surprise him with tickets before he even knows they're coming to your city. He'll appreciate the gesture and effort you've put in to make him happy, and he's guaranteed to like you even more, even if his favorite band makes very unromantic music. Sometimes a present that consists of a beautiful experience is a better present than a present that gives immediate satisfaction.

Method 2 of 3: Show that you really care about him

1. Develop common interests. If you really want to get your man to like you, you can't both live completely separate lives. Make an effort to create common interests, whether it's watching a TV show together or cooking together on Wednesday evenings. If you can find a few things that both of you like, and that keep both of you busy with your relationship and really just your relationship, then your man can really feel that you like him. You are supposed to find something that both of you are genuinely interested in, rather than, say, pressuring him to go to a dance class or do something else just to please you.
2. Touch him often. If you want to show your husband that you really care about him, make the effort to touch him when the two of you are together. This doesn't mean it has to be something inappropriate or something sexual. Just touch his arm, his lower back, or his knee if you are sitting together, or squeeze his hand from time to time. You don't have to kiss or hug extensively in public (that's simply not done for many guys) so that he knows that you care about him and that you like being with him.
3. Let him go out with his friends for a night. There are also many ways to please your husband if you're not even there yourself. One way to show him that you love and care about him is that you allow him to spend an evening with his friends. Don't be jealous, don't text every few seconds, or ask if there will be other women; just show him that you trust him to act responsibly when he's with his friends. He will then see that you really love him and that you want him to be happy, and he will enjoy spending the day with you all the more.
4. Compliment him. Men love to feel special just as much as women. Let him know you think he is sexy, smart, or the most amazing man you have ever met. Whatever you feel, don't pretend he can read your mind all the time, and just let him know these things from time to time so that he feels really special around you. He will really feel that you love him and that you have taken the time to think about what you really love about him. And when you sleep with him, don't be afraid to compliment him for it; men love to hear that!
5. Contact him regularly. If you don't see each other for a while, don't be casual about making him think you don't care about him. Without being over the top, send him a phone call, text, or email to ask how he's doing and let him know you're thinking about him. This doesn't mean calling him at work in the middle of a busy day or during a stressful family affair. The point is that he knows you haven't forgotten him now that the two of you haven't been together for a while.
6. Ask him about matters that are beyond your own interests. Maybe your husband is crazy about football or Game of Thrones. It's okay if you can't go along with that, but that doesn't mean you have to ignore his passions. You don't have to watch a football game with him, but you can text him to ask how the game was, just to let him know you're thinking about him and because you know it's important to him. If you see him after just watching his favorite show on television, ask him if it was a fun episode. Asking these kinds of everyday questions can really make him feel like you care about him - and the things he cares about.
7. Make eye contact. It's easy to get too focused on the many things that need to be done in everyday life instead of focusing on the man you love. However, if you really want to spoil him, you should still take the time to look him in the eye, whether that's in the middle of a conversation or when you're just together. Especially if you live together, it can become a habit to call out to each other from different rooms, rather than really bothering to look into each other's eyes while having a valuable conversation with each other.
8. Listen to him. If you want to show that you care, sometimes it's better to be completely quiet than to talk. If your husband wants to tell you something, take the time to really listen and try to understand what he's trying to say, rather than trying to find a solution right away or comparing what he's saying with your own experiences. Even though you think you've found the perfect solution to his problem, don't interrupt and let him finish. That will show him that you really care about him.
9. Turn off your phone. If you're going out together, just watching TV, or going for a walk, turn off your phone so you can give your husband all your attention. There's nothing more annoying than a girl who is constantly texting her friends while the two of you are doing something together, or who is surfing the Internet all the time to make sure the things you say are correct. The next time you are together, turn that phone off for a few hours. You will see that it is not the end of the world because you cannot check Facebook or Instagram every second of your date.

Method 3 of 3: Make sure he stays interested in you

1. Go for a ride on spec. There is nothing better to hit the road after a long hard week's work. Plan something simple and fun, like a few hours trip to the beach or a forest. Or maybe there's a restaurant you've been wanting to go to for a long time, even if it's a few hours away. Just get the car ready, make a plan, and go for it. Or don't make a plan - just get in the car and go where the wind blows you. You will see that your husband really appreciates the effort you put in and that it will bring more air and fun into your life.
2. Do something completely different than you are used to. Plan something the two of you have never done before, whether it's taking a sushi cooking class, learning Japanese together, or taking a partner yoga class. It doesn't have to lead to tremendous self-awareness or be a lofty goal, nor do you have to do it a second time; just trying something new every now and then can do a lot of good to keep your relationship fresh and to keep the romance going.
3. Dress up nicely. You really don't have to put on a ball gown if you're at home all day, but if you're going out together or out somewhere, make an effort to look nice and take good care of you so your husband sees you. did your best. You should both make the effort to look nice so that the romance stays in it, and to keep the passion and attraction alive within your relationship. And if you're going somewhere that isn't fancy, do enough about your appearance so that you show that you care and that neither of you gets lazy.
4. Try to persuade him to dance. Okay, most guys don't want to go ballroom dancing with their girlfriend, but if the two of you are at a bar or club and the music is really loud, take him to the dance floor for a song or two. Just moving your bodies together and enjoying the beats you hear together will help you feel relaxed and have a great time together. This is guaranteed to boost the passion and romance in your relationship.
5. Surprise him. To keep the relationship interesting and to make sure your man always knows that you like him, you should surprise him from time to time. A little bit of unpredictability doesn't hurt anyone, and planning a surprise picnic, or just some other surprise activity you never thought you'd ever do, will make your man feel really great. Make an effort to do something spontaneous, something completely unexpected, and something really exciting, at least every few weeks, just to kindle the fire of passion.

Tips

• While some men find it romantic just to be with a sexy woman, most men find it romantic to be with their girlfriend when she looks sexy. When you feel sexy, you feel confident; you feel happy, and a man will pick up on this feeling, and his confidence will then rise, which will turn him on and be very romantic to him. Just noticing that you've done your best for him is romantic to him.
• Men don't like women who compare him to another, especially if you are jealous of the relationships that others have. Men feel worthless about this.
• Remember, if your husband doesn't respond to you, even though you've made him feel like you need him, and you've supported him and his interests, and you've done everything you can to trust yourself, then you may not be in the relationship that is right for you.
• Men like when they feel needed, they like to solve problems. Allow him to do this. Make him feel good about himself, and he'll feel good about you and your relationship. Do not emphasize his shortcomings, there is no reason to nag him or criticize him for what he did wrong. Compliment him and tell him what he did well, especially if it's something you want him to do again.
• Most men are not looking for a woman who will buy them flowers and expensive gifts, that is their job to do for you. They just want to make sure that you are there when they need you, that you listen to them without criticism, and that you support their interests. That's definitely what men find most romantic.
• Romance is a two-way street and relationships have ups and downs. If he really likes you, you know it inside. Don't try to change someone's feelings or how they feel about you so that they like you as much as you like them, it just won't work and they will eventually turn away from you.
• If you constantly feel that you are not good enough for him, you will try harder and harder to please him, but in vain; maybe he is just not available emotionally, or maybe you just deserve better than what he can offer you. If you have invested a lot in the relationship it can be difficult to leave him, but really try to follow your true feelings because deep down you know for sure what is good for you.