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• Part 1 of 3: Kissing while standing
• Part 2 of 3: Kissing while seated
• Part 3 of 3: Stop kissing
• Tips

Not sure what to do with your hands when kissing your sweetheart? In this article, you can learn how to use your hands to make kissing even more intimate without going too far.

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Part 1 of 3: Kissing while standing

1. Place your hands on the other person's body. If your hands hang at your sides while kissing, it may seem a bit unnatural. Usually, the girl puts her hands on the boy's shoulders or around his neck, and he usually puts his hands on her waist or her lower back.
   • If the girl is much smaller than the boy, these roles are sometimes reversed so that no one has to stretch too much to be able to touch each other in a pleasant way.
2. Holds her face gently. While kissing, try placing your hand on her cheek, or on her neck, or on her chin, so you can share even more intimacy. This also brings some stability to the kissing, so that you have more control over the kissing again.
3. Holds each other's hands. If you've been dating the other person for a while, it can be nice to hold each other's hands while kissing and intertwine the fingers.
4. Gently pull the other person closer to you. If you want to spice up the kissing, you can use your hands to pull the other person closer to you by the waist, until your bodies are pressed together.
5. Run your fingers through her or his hair. There are many nerve endings in hair follicles, and stimulating them can feel very pleasant for the other person. You can also gently tug the other person's hair to make the kiss more passionate and intense.

Part 2 of 3: Kissing while seated

1. Put your hands on the other's thighs. If you are sitting next to each other and both face the same direction (for example, if you are watching a movie together), it can be difficult to determine what to do with your hands. In situations like that, it is usually best to put your hand on the knee or thigh of the other person because then you don't have to reach that far.
2. Touch her face. If you are facing each other, put your hand on her neck or cheek so that you experience more intimacy while kissing.
3. Make kissing even more exciting. If you are alone somewhere, and you feel very comfortable with the other person, and you both want more than just kissing, you can use your hands to explore the rest of her body. Get your hand under her blouse or shirt, or put your hand gently on her buttocks. If you notice that the response is positive, then continue with it; if not, keep your hands where you can see them both.
   • If you are alone with the other person for the first time, it may be a good idea to ask her clearly if she would like to go beyond kissing with you. This will prevent you both from being embarrassed.

Part 3 of 3: Stop kissing

1. Use your hands to signal that the kiss is complete. When the time comes when you want to stop kissing, take your hands off the other and gently separate yourself from the other. If the other person is very coercive, you may need your hands to politely but decisively push them away from you.

Tips

• Consider the situation you are in (are you alone or in public) to determine how far the kissing and touching will go.
• While kissing, don't do things that feel unnatural. Because if you start to feel uncomfortable, the other person will notice. Sometimes it's good not to think too much about what you're doing and to go with the flow.
• Try to estimate as best you can how much you want to use your hands while kissing and where you want your hands to be. Take into account the duration of your relationship, and how long you have had a romantic contact between you. It is important that the other person feels comfortable with everything and at any time.
• Never allow people to force you to do things you don't want to do, especially when it comes to sex.