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If your boyfriend misses you, it means that he cares about you and feels connected to you physically and emotionally. If you're in a long-distance relationship or are away often, it can be more difficult to maintain a bond. There are several things you can do to make your boyfriend miss you when you're not together, such as improving communication, surprising him, and finding ways to keep him attracted to you.

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Method 1 of 3: Using positive communication

1. Look your best. Physical attraction is important in a relationship, but that doesn't mean you have to be perfect. Men are attracted to women who take good care of themselves and pay attention to how they look. To show that you take care of yourself you must:
   • Shower every day
   • Styling your hair
   • Brush your teeth twice a day
   • Wear clothes that fit well and that make you feel attractive
   • Exercise a few times a week
   • Your nails clean and neat
   • Wear a little makeup every now and then (only if you like it)
2. Show your great personality. Physical attraction is important, but men are especially attracted to women who have positive personal traits. Make sure to show your boyfriend what a great personality you have by showing your characteristics to him.
   • You can show your personality just by being yourself, but you can also emphasize your best qualities. For example, you can show that you are nice by being polite to wait staff when you eat out. Or you can show that you are an optimist by seeing the bright side of everything.
3. Make eye contact. If you stare into your boyfriend's eyes for two minutes, he'll feel more attracted to you, and vice versa. Make sure you look each other in the eye on a regular basis so he'll be able to remember these romantic feelings better when you're not together.
   • Try to catch his gaze as he approaches you and watch for a minute. Or, during a conversation with a cup of coffee, look deep into his eyes, and last longer than usual.
4. Wear red. The color red seems to attract men more than other colors. To take advantage of this, you can put on something red more often if you have a date with your friend.
   • For example, wear a red sweater if you are bringing something to his place at work, or put on a red scarf just before he comes to see you.
5. Choose a fragrance that suits you. A scent can enhance a memory, so always put on the same perfume or body spray when you see your boyfriend. Over time, he will associate that scent with positive feelings for you, and will miss you if he smells the scent.
   • If you've been sleeping with him, you can spray a little perfume on his pillow before you leave. Then later on when he goes to bed alone, he will smell your scent and miss you.
   • Wear one of his favorite shirts for a few hours (with his permission, of course). Put on your perfume to get some on his shirt. Then give it back to him, with your scent on it.
6. Have a social life in addition to your relationship. Rather than always being available to your boyfriend, it's important to maintain relationships with your friends and family as well. If you're independent and don't always spend time with him, he'll appreciate the time he can spend with you even more.
   • Go out with your friends or visit your family without your boyfriend. Encourage him to do things without you too. If you see him again after doing something without each other, be nice and make sure he knows you want him to have fun without you too.
   • Don't text each other too many if you're not together. Rather send him a message in which you wish him a lot of fun, and then don't let him hear anything again.
   • Don't let go of all your plans to see him. Your relationship is much healthier and more meaningful if you have some degree of independence and are not together every moment.

Tips

• Be honest about your feelings. Your boyfriend may also want to know that you miss him when he's not around.