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• Method 1 of 3: Making your relationship adventurous
• Method 2 of 3: Connecting through conversations
• Method 3 of 3: Reviving the passion

Every now and then it is necessary to invest in your relationship so that your relationship remains exciting, passionate and interesting! You can achieve this by having exciting dates together, having interesting conversations, and making the both of you feel attracted to each other again. Think about the things your boyfriend loves, and don't be afraid to just be yourself!

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Method 1 of 3: Making your relationship adventurous

1. Try activities that make you both feel challenged. Among other things, people fall in love when the hormone adrenaline starts to flow, so getting the adrenaline to flow can act as a booster for the love and excitement that develops between the two of you. Do things together that make your heart beat faster and make your blood flow faster!
   • Try out physical activities such as skydiving, hot air ballooning, and bungee jumping. If you don't have much to spend, try indoor climbing or paintball, or go hiking together.
2. Make it a goal to do something new and exciting together at least once a month. Sometimes boredom flares up when a routine is followed for too long: so make sure your relationship gets exciting again! Do your best to try out a new recipe or go to a new restaurant.
   • Try out a kitchen that you have no experience in. You can find an interesting recipe online or in a cookbook, or you can make a reservation at a restaurant you've never been to before.
   • Other ideas include visiting a neighboring town, going to a museum or gallery, or going to a concert or sports game together. You can also think of hiking in the woods, canoeing, miniature golf, bowling or roller-skating.
3. If possible, plan a weekend getaway together as a surprise. Don't let your boyfriend know where you're going, and just tell him you have something planned for him. Stay at home for a weekend and do fun things at home when you're short on money, or just go for a drive if you like to be out and about new places! Go camping in a campsite or nature reserve - and it's perfect if there is a hot tub! Taking a break from your daily routine refreshes everything.
   • Pick something that's exciting for both of you, but neither of you have been to before.
   • If you can't manage to spend an entire weekend together, just plan an exciting day trip!

Method 2 of 3: Connecting through conversations

1. Talk about the time when you got to know each other. Start talking about your first date, the way you got to know each other, and the things you loved about each other back then. Small details can make your memories come up again. Talk about some of the things you loved about your boyfriend when you first met him, and use those things to spice up your relationship in the present.
   • For example, maybe you always watched the sunset together in the summer, or maybe you always ate ice cream together when his soccer game was over. Try to do fun and familiar things together again and make it a habit again.
2. Ask each other questions so that your bond continues to deepen. If you talk to each other in an open and honest way, you get to know each other even better and you feel even more connected. Your questions will naturally lead to interesting and engaged conversations with your boyfriend.
   • You can find suitable questions online for an interview, or you can just ask him whatever you want to know about him.
   • Ask him questions such as, "What is your best memory?" and "What should you never be joked about?"
3. Have an exciting conversation together on topics that both of you are interested in. Start a conversation by telling your boyfriend what you are thinking about, or mention something interesting that you recently found out. Add interesting details to the conversation. Keep asking questions to keep the conversation going, and always listen carefully to what he has to say.
   • Talk about interesting topics, such as the news, politics, or recent startling discoveries. Or, talk about things that interest you, such as music, movies, or sports.
   • Say something like, "Wow, I didn't know you and your dad were so close to each other. My dad used to take me to soccer games too."
4. Both read the same book and talk about your opinions, the storylines and the characters. Choose a book on a topic that interests both of you and read it both. After you have read the book, share your thoughts about it. Ask your boyfriend what his favorite passage was, and talk about the characters you liked and the ones that appealed to you the least. You can use the book to have a conversation with your boyfriend, which is an easy way to start a conversation.
   • You can take a book that you teach at school, a favorite book from your childhood, or a new book that has just come out.
   • You can also choose a magazine or short story if you don't want to read a long book.
5. Choose a new television program together that you want to watch and then watch all the episodes together, after which you talk about it with each other. You can stream so many interesting programs nowadays; so find a show you both enjoy and watch a few episodes together. Then talk about it together.
   • Try out shows you both enjoy or try out a new genre together.
   • If you don't have a membership to a streaming service, get a free trial subscription such as Hulu or Netflix.
   • You can also search for a series to be repeated on cable TV.

Method 3 of 3: Reviving the passion

1. Try to laugh together as much and as often as possible so that you keep your relationship fun and positive. Find something that will make your boyfriend laugh. Tell a fun joke or funny story to your boyfriend. Watch a funny series, a comedy series or a humorous movie together. Laughter releases endorphins, and endorphins make you feel good, and it's good for your overall well-being.
2. Compliment your boyfriend, showing him that you care. Whether you've been together for 2 weeks or 2 years, compliment your boyfriend regularly so he knows you appreciate him.
   • Say something like, "Wow, those jeans look good on you!" or “You're so smart. I love how you analyze subjects so thoroughly. ”
3. Send flirty naughty messages. Write about how great your time was together or how much you are looking forward to seeing your boyfriend again. Look ahead to your plans together, such as hinting about a new outfit you've bought. You can also send sexy pictures of yourself to the boyfriend to get him turned on even more!
4. Hold hands more often. Whether you're running errands or strolling around the area - hold hands whenever you can. Physical contact releases the hormone oxytocin, which creates intimacy and strengthens trust in each other.
5. Touch your boyfriend in a loving way. Give your boyfriend a back or shoulder massage. For example, you can put your hand on his shoulder, or maybe put your feet over his when you're watching television together. When you touch each other, more passion is created, and through the touch you also express your love for each other.
6. Passionate kiss with your boyfriend. A kiss says as much as a thousand words, so show him how much you care by kissing him often and passionately. You can also alternate kissing with soft kisses. The kisses also release oxytocin, so the more you kiss, the more you feel connected!
7. Create a romantic atmosphere in the bedroom. Light some candles, get silk sheets, and try some new massage oil. Put on some romantic music or try on some new lingerie. All those things create romance and add some zest to your sex life.
   • Always make sure that both parties give their consent before trying something new. It is important to respect each other's boundaries while discovering each other.