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• Method 1 of 4: Consider yourself attractive
• Method 2 of 4: Dress attractively
• Method 3 of 4: Looking attractive
• Method 4 of 4: Act attractive
• Tips
• Warnings

Being hot is more than just an appearance - it's a state of mind. Whether you're just walking down the street or stopping for a quick chat, if you're feeling confident, everyone around you thinks you're hot. But what if you're not sure you can be that sexy, intriguing, and attractive person you want to be?

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Method 1 of 4: Consider yourself attractive

1. Allow yourself to want to be attractive. Maybe you want to look like an attractive boy or girl, but you are afraid that people will make negative comments about it. For some, wanting to be attractive has a negative link with someone who is vain or superficial. Don't let these stereotypes and misconceptions stop you from becoming attractive. Give yourself permission to do this.
   • Attraction should be something you want and not something you think you should. Today's society attaches great importance to looking attractive in a certain way, but it is not necessarily the only way to be attractive.
2. Radiate confidence. To be attractive, you have to believe that you are attractive. Have faith in your decisions, in the way you look, and in who you are or want to be. It will also help you recover from setbacks and tough challenges that come your way.
   • Remind yourself of what you have already achieved and enjoy these successes. Remember how much you have achieved and the goals you have achieved, working towards your main goal.
   • Don't place too much value on other people's opinions of your appearance. If you feel happy when you look attractive, that's more important than what others might think about you.
3. Make sure you aim for a realistic body image. You don't have to look like a fashion model. You have to have the body shape that you are happy with. Part of it means changing your body through exercise and healthy eating, but the other part is accepting the uniqueness of your own body.
   • It is understandable to want to achieve a healthy weight, but it is not realistic to aim for a narrow waist if you are naturally wider, or to enlarge your butt if it is naturally small. Don't ignore what you've been given when you strive for certain ideal sizes and shapes.
   • Do not label a particular body type as the "perfect" body. There are many types of bodies that are beautiful in their own way.

Method 2 of 4: Dress attractively

1. As a woman, find out what shape you have and dress accordingly. A great outfit should accentuate your best features and cover up the unflattering parts of your body. Here are some ways to dress some common body types:
   • Apple or circular: " Counteract the roundness and softness of your body by adding structure to your outfit, especially at the top. Wear a tailored blazer or wrap dresses that create asymmetrical lines across your body. Straight-leg pants help to lengthen your legs and draw attention to your body vertically. Large prints and patterns will suit you better than small prints, especially when worn on top. Do not wear large or loose shirts, but prefer tighter items or clothes that are draped over your body.
   • Pear or triangular: Balance large hips by wearing layers at the top. A waistcoat or jacket will help align your lean torso with your curves at the bottom. Show off those great shoulders by wearing shirts with one shoulder strap or shirts with decorated collars. Boot-cut pants or one with slightly flared legs, combined with high heels, will elongate your legs.
   • Hourglass figure: You have the shape that everyone wants! To better show off those desirable curves, simply dress. Solid-colored clothing with a narrow waist emphasizes your toned stomach. Avoid prints that distract from your silhouette.
   • Athletic or ruler-shaped: Your slim body can sometimes look too boxy, so avoid stripes or cropped shirts. Try tailored tank tops with smaller straps, or halter tops that enhance the look of your bust. Pants and skirt with a high waist give the illusion of an hourglass shape. Stick to soft fabrics that run off your body to counteract the harsh lines of your athletic physique.
2. Invest in tailor-made clothing as a man. Learn what works best for your body or go to a tailor to have your clothes fit for you. There's nothing worse than wearing clothes that are too loose or too tight in all the wrong places.
   • Shoulders: The seam where the sleeve attaches to the body should rest on the shoulders. They should not hang on your arms.
   • Arms: The fabric under your armpits should taper towards your skin, but still allow movement for your arms.
   • Chest: Your chest should fill the front of your shirt so that its shape shows through the fabric. You should also have a full range of motion in your arms. Try to reach your arms up, back, and forward. If you can't do those things, your shirt is too tight. Buttons that look tight and cause wrinkles are another clear sign that your shirt is too tight.
   • Sleeves: If you wear long sleeves, the cuff of your shirt should stop at the base of your thumb.
   • Pants: If you choose slim or tight pants, have a straight cut from your knees to your ankles. The cuff of your pants should never flap or curl up around your feet. They should stop at the ankles or just over them.
   • Belts: They should really just be an accessory and not a way to keep your pants up. If the only thing holding up your pants is a belt, the pants are probably too big.
   • Shoes: Many stylists claim that shoes are the foundation of men's looks. An outfit depends on the color and type of shoe you wear. So dress up from the shoes.
3. Complete your look by combining simple colors with eye-catching garments. Solid-colored garments make eye-catching garments and jewelery stand out. Choose things like big earrings, patterned shoes, a colorful bag, or a nice hat.
   • Black is always attractive and goes with almost everything. An all-black outfit is neat, but also quirky and sometimes a bit mysterious.
   • Use the power of contrast to your advantage. Darker colored clothes can help you achieve a slimmer look or mask unattractive features. While patterns or light-colored items can accentuate those parts of your body that you would like to show off.
4. Follow the fashion trends. Fashion is always on the move, so stay up to date with the latest trends to stay warm. However, not every trend is worth following or equally flattering to everyone, so choose what suits you and your style.
   • Avoid age-related fashion trends. Being hot has nothing to do with looking younger or more mature.
5. Show some bare skin or wear something that follows your curves. A little sexy clothes can help you look more attractive. However, make sure it doesn't get inappropriate. You know when you go too far, when:
   • It gets in the way of forming meaningful relationships. We live in a sex-oriented society, so it's not surprising that people automatically start staring at bare skin. It can make people perceive you differently or divert attention from what you have to offer and more to what you look like to them. If this kind of attention isn't what you want, then it's not the time to show off too much skin.
   • It can work against your further career or new job. In most work environments, showing too much nudity is discouraged.
   • You attract negative or dangerous attention with it. It is difficult for many people, especially women, to show off skin without drawing negative attention. And because you can't control other people's reactions and actions, your safety and comfort should always come first.

Method 3 of 4: Looking attractive

1. Radiate confidence. Clothing is not always enough - you also have to appear attractive. A few tricks to improve your body language can certainly help:
   • Stand upright and purposeful. Put your chest out and don't fidget with your hands. This powerful stance is often described as the image of Superman with his hands on his hips, chin up and legs shoulder-width apart.
   • Move calmly.Speaking too quickly or doing things in a hurry can make you appear nervous or anxious.
   • Have a variety of expressions on your face and body. Confident people are able to express themselves naturally, but will not overdo it. This makes you more accessible and open.
2. Get in shape. Whether you want to achieve a certain body weight goal, or simply want to get physically healthier, getting in shape is a big step toward becoming attractive.
   • Invest in a gym membership or a personal trainer. With the advice and encouragement of a trainer, you can safely and effectively train your body and achieve your ideal weight goals.
   • Eat healthy. Cut down on junk food and start eating more balanced.
   • Exercise and healthy eating will make you feel more comfortable in your own skin and improve your overall mental health.
3. Have a good posture. Improving your posture not only gives you more confidence, but also has many health benefits. It can reduce head and back pain, make you more flexible and prevent muscle problems.
   • Check your posture so you can work on problem areas of your body. In general, your shoulders should be balanced and no one should be higher than the other. They should also be in line with your ears so that your neck and head don't stick out. Your back should not be arched and your arms should hang relaxed at your sides.
   • Do posture-improving exercises every day. These can be simple exercises, such as stretching your back while sitting, walking more, or stretching out muscle cramps. However, they can also be more complicated exercises that stretch your back and force it into the correct position.
   • Be aware of your attitude. It's easy to lean forward when working at your desk or sitting and relaxing. Make an effort to be in the correct position, with your back straight, arms back, and head and neck in line with your shoulders.
4. Choose a trendy hairstyle that matches your look and the shape of your face. Consider doing something like dyeing or cutting your hair extremely short, or applying extensions to lengthen it and give it a dynamic look.
   • Take care of your hair. The easiest thing to do is wash and condition your hair. Invest in hair products or natural remedies to combat problems such as frizzy, dry, or oily hair.
   • Go to the hairdresser every one or two months to avoid split ends and an unkempt appearance.
5. Learn a skincare routine. Your skin is the foundation of your look. Keep skin clean and free from blemishes and other problem factors by treating and protecting it. Try out different products to make sure they are right for your skin.
   • Wear sunscreen. It's easiest to forget, but a little sunscreen every day can prevent wrinkles and skin discoloration.
   • Moisturize your skin. Use lotion, cream, or body butter on your hands, arms, legs, and face. Lip balm helps with chapped or cracked lips.
   • For oily skin, use oil-free products to cleanse your face.
   • For acne-prone skin, avoid touching your face or squeezing your blemishes. Instead, wash your face with an acne cleanser or warm water and hypoallergenic soap, and keep your skin well-hydrated. Acne occurs when oils, either from your fingers or from overactive hormones and glands, mix with dirt and clog your pores.

Method 4 of 4: Act attractive

1. Show your cool side. Ironically, being hot often means being cool. It's a lovable quality to have that draws people to you because of your relaxed attitude. A few cool things to do:
   • Don't try too hard. Or at least pretend you're not trying so hard. It gives the impression that you are so flexible with everything that you can get what you want without even trying.
   • If you fidget a lot, bite your lip, stumble over your words, or are just generally nervous, try to be cool to feel. It's hard to control or stop the little nervous movements we make when we're nervous, so it's the best way to do this from within. Feel cool and your body language will follow.
   • Be a little bit rebellious. Sometimes breaking rules or taking risks can seem very cool and make you appear powerful. But don't do anything illegal!
2. Play out your sex appeal. There are many ways to be sexy and look sexy. Try the following:
   • Wear red. There have been numerous studies showing that the color red is the sexiest color. Something in our human brain is strongly attracted to that color.
   • Smile. Looking happy and accessible is very sexy. So show those white pearls!
   • Make confident eye contact. This is a very confident movement that attracts people. Pair it with a smile or a flirty look to give you a more sexy look.
   • Flirt. It's a sexy and fun way to communicate with someone you are interested in. Subtly draw attention to your body or tease your target with flirty looks or bold compliments.
3. Be humble. The worst thing you can do is brag about how attractive you are. Modesty and kindness to others are attractive qualities. The most confident people are those who are able to make others feel good.
   • Give compliments. If you want to get someone's attention, give them a real compliment.
   • Don't boast or look down on others. The attention that comes with being attractive can easily grow into a big ego. Your friends, family, and other people will turn off someone who constantly has to prove himself or herself more attractive or consider himself above others.

Tips

• Ultimately, you will have to find your own definition of attractiveness. There is a common misconception that "hot" is the same as "sexy" and "sexy" means wearing low-concealing clothing. Being attractive can mean a variety of things. For some, being attractive boosts self-esteem and confidence. For others, being attractive means being sexually attractive. There is no wrong or right way to be attractive.
• Wear clothes that make you feel comfortable. You might be tempted to wear something that you think is attractive but uncomfortable. Don't ignore your discomfort, compromise or get used to it.
• Don't let your friends down because you think you're too great for them. Being hot doesn't mean you are better than other people.
• It must be a pleasant goal to become attractive. Don't try too hard to look attractive if it just doesn't suit who you are. People can be attractive in different ways. There's nothing wrong with being cute or pretty.
• Be yourself. Looking attractive doesn't mean trying to be someone else. You just become a more attractive, more confident version of yourself.

Warnings

• You can have unwanted or dangerous sexual advances. But don't forget it's not your fault! Being attractive does not allow others to verbally or sexually abuse you. You should never be blamed or blamed yourself for being abused, not even because of your appearance.
• If you develop a sexy attitude, don't let it get out of hand. You don't want to appear too flat or over the top.