Content

• To step
• Method 1 of 3: Winning him through communication
• Method 2 of 3: Make it attractive
• Method 3 of 3: Other methods
• Tips
• Warnings

Are you attracted to a guy who is already in a monogamous relationship? Do you hope he ends that relationship and becomes available to you? Think of the implications of what you do in addition to influencing his choices - the pain and complications of following your desires may be too costly. Read this article, carefully consider your options and actions, be patient, and the result may be beneficial for you.

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Method 1 of 3: Winning him through communication

1. Maintain communication. Try to talk to him more than he talks to his girlfriend. If he talks to his girlfriend once a week, talk or text him every 2 days. Don't let it get boring and don't bore him. But don't get too obsessive with him or he might feel suffocated.
2. Don't bring up his girlfriend. When he talks about her, let him know you don't want to talk about her by quickly but subtly changing the subject. Don't say things like that they are cute together or that they are a nice couple. You just make them think you're not interested and that you're fine with them dating.

Method 2 of 3: Make it attractive

1. Wear nice clothes. Your clothes should be sexy but not raunchy. Keep your hair and makeup natural while still standing out. You want him to see that you are physically attractive too.
2. Flirt with other guys or talk about other guys you like. A guaranteed way to make a guy find you attractive is to make him jealous and make yourself seem out of reach. Talk to other guys and give them attention when he's around. Watch his response. If he's staring at you when you do this, that's probably a good sign.
3. Walk by with perfume. Put on a nice smelling perfume and walk past him. Watch his reaction as you walk by.

Method 3 of 3: Other methods

1. Be there for him. Make yourself the person he goes to when he has problems or needs advice. If he invites you to an occasion, do your best to be there. You want to impersonate him as someone who is trustworthy.
2. Strengthen the friendship. Most good relationships are based on friendship first. Spend time with him on a regular basis and just get to know him better as a person, without pressure or expectations.
3. Do not lie. You should never lie about yourself and especially not about his girlfriend. If the guy you like finds out that you lied to him about such a simple thing, there's no chance he'll ever get on with you.
4. Smile when you see him. This will let him know that you are happy to see him. If you see him somewhere, say goodbye to let him know you see him.

Tips

• Always have fresh breath, wear deodorant and practice good personal hygiene.
• If there is eye contact, he may be interested.
• Don't tell him to break up with his girlfriend. It will only push him away from you. Let him decide that for himself.
• Be a good friend.
• Be yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are, he's not worth it.
• Be nice. Look cute and sexy and make him jealous.
• Flirt a bit but don't overdo it.
• Never bother him when he's with his girlfriend.
• If they do break up, wait a few weeks to ask him out.
• Be kind and let him know that you are always there for him.

Warnings

• Do not try this if he is a family man who has children with his partner. You may be seen as someone who breaks a marriage and destroys a family.
• Don't obsess about him and give him space to do other things.
• While it might be a good idea to go after the guy you like, it's probably a better idea not to chase an occupied guy. Imagine another woman showed up and wanted to hijack your husband; you wouldn't like that, so you should probably be looking for single men.
• Don't let other people keep asking him out for you.