Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 2: Approach a Group Girl
• Method 2 of 2: Know What to Say
• Tips

Having a face-to-face conversation with a girl can be challenging, but it can be even more difficult when you are surrounded by strangers. This article will teach you how to approach a girl in a company with more confidence, as well as help you find topics for dialogue.

Steps

Method 1 of 2: Approach a Group Girl

1. 1 Rate the activity in the selected group. It may be inappropriate to approach the company at the moment. What if a purely female collective has gathered there, which consoles one girl because she broke up with a boyfriend? Or, perhaps, there is a conversation about work moments or a sick family member? Try not to draw attention to yourself and try to understand the essence of the conversation.
   • If the guys are discussing a serious issue, it is better to postpone your idea. If the conversation is casual, then in this case, you can approach the girl.
2. 2 Become part of the company. To start a conversation, you need to carefully infiltrate the company. Try to get into it as naturally as possible, or wait until you hear something appropriate that will help you get involved in the conversation. Act as if you are part of the company, being careful not to invade its space.
   • Try to join the team until you manage to meet the right girl. Ask her questions about the conversation, for example, "I'm confused about what we were discussing. Will you remind me?"
   • Stay away from a group of people you don't know at all. Do not try to spy on and eavesdrop on them, otherwise it will cause suspicion and disgust.
3. 3 Join the guys. Listen to what is at stake and give your opinion. Take advantage of the subject of controversy.
   • Introduce yourself if necessary. If the company is discussing a recently released film, join the conversation and share your personal impressions.
   • Communicate with the entire female team. Don't immediately highlight the girl you like. Otherwise, you will offend or upset her friends by depriving them of your attention.
4. 4 Go to dialogue directly with her. Having entered into a conversation on the topic under discussion, slowly move on to a dialogue with a girl you like. Turn to her and look directly in the eyes, addressing not the whole company, but personally to her.
   • Start sharing personal comments that others won't hear. Maintain her interest in her story to distract the girl from the rest of the guys and, finally, bring all the attention to yourself.
5. 5 Continue the conversation. Over time, the company may leave you two alone, which will allow you to continue the conversation in a private setting. Ask her many questions and maintain eye contact so that she feels like you are speaking to her.
   • If no one has left, engage them in the conversation so they don't get left out. However, make sure you still enjoy the conversation. So you will be able not only to chat with the girl you like, but also have a great time. As a rule, girls like guys who have managed to establish contact with her friends.
6. 6 Leave if all else fails. Sometimes the best solution is a short conversation, after which you go on about your business. Don't stop looking the girl in the eye. This is a great way to find out if she wants to keep in touch with you. What if she leaves the company and follows you? That would be a good sign.
   • Wait until the evening ends if chances are you will never see each other again. And when the company is about to leave, quietly call the girl aside and tell her how you had a wonderful time in her company.Add that you would love to meet her for a cup of coffee or other drink.

Method 2 of 2: Know What to Say

1. 1 Ask as many questions as possible. What are her friends interested in? What do the guys like? What is this collective like? If it could be compared to a dessert, what would it be? Find fun, laid-back topics of conversation to get an idea of ​​what the girl and her friends are passionate about. Here are some great questions for a group of strangers:
   • How did you meet each other?
   • Do you often get together?
   • What do you drink? Which one of you has the tastiest drink?
2. 2 Listen and follow the conversation. Communication is a kind of search for doors and the ability to open them. Listen to what everyone is talking about and try to respond kindly and kindly to the topic based on your own opinion. When discussing the film, ask all the guys what they think of it. If someone answers: "He's boring," then ask again: "Really? What films do you like?" Have a light and positive conversation to show people what an interesting person you are. After that, the girl will definitely want to chat with you.
   • It is very important to constantly monitor the progress of the conversation. Nobody knows how to start a conversation with a stranger if you don't listen to what he is talking about and don't answer him.
3. 3 Shift your focus from the company to a specific girl. If one of the participants in the conversation expressed her opinion on a certain subject, then turn to the girl you like and ask: "What do you think?" This is a great way to change the flow of the conversation and involve a girl in it, which will show you are interested in communicating with her.
4. 4 Find something in common between you. If a girl attends a certain circle, loves a famous group, or is partially passionate about something, take the conversation back on track and ask her about it in more detail. Ask how much time she devoted to her favorite pastime and why she likes it. This way you will not only get to know her better, but also understand if you have something in common.
5. 5 Tell us about yourself. Conversation is a relationship process. If you only talk about her, the girl will find you too annoying. So after questioning, think about what is relevant to her words and tell your story.
   • On the other hand, you can't just talk about yourself. Verbal incontinence is a bad habit that discourages any desire for communication.
6. 6 Stay positive. When in a company, try to speak lightly and kindly. Support the opinions of others and laugh at common jokes. At first, until you get to know the people, you shouldn't interrupt them or immediately disagree with them.
   • Most of the "art of pick-up" schemes recommend releasing subtle taunts at the girl in order to get her attention. However, do not try this in a female company, otherwise the results can be the most unpredictable.
   • On the contrary, a little joke will not hurt. But there is a significant difference between teasing and flirting, for example: "I can't believe you hate Iron Man. Are you soulless? Prove to me that you have a soul!" and explaining to the girl that her view of birth control is too childish.
7. 7 Be yourself. Don't try to appear to others to get her attention, or pretend you're interested in things you don't really like. It is quite natural if in the process of communication it turns out that you have practically nothing in common. Just look for other company and talking points.
8. 8 Forget about prejudice. Come up, introduce yourself and shake hands with everyone, including the girl. Ask the guys if you can join them. Communicate with everyone equally and be genuinely interested in what is at stake. It is with this that you need to start a conversation in someone else's company, and not with words like: "Are these the same space pants?"
   • Don't try to show off as if you are part of the company. Jokes and similar tricks will not lead to an invitation to coffee, but to the fact that you have a drink in your face.

Tips

• Show your confidence! Don't worry too much about your appearance. Try to strike up a friendly conversation and you will be fine.
• Remember the names of all the guys in the company.
• Be sure to ask the girl if you can exchange a few words with her. This will hint that you want to continue talking with her in private. She can always tell her friends that she will catch up with them later, or ask her to wait.
• Stay close to her, but don't get too close. She must have her own space. And be friendly! Most girls who are not even interested in a particular guy will listen to him if he asks for a minute of her attention.
• Don't interrupt people in the group. You can join the conversation during quiet moments if the guys are having a leisurely conversation. Then, as the conversation gets more lively, try to gradually become a part of it. Say hello to the girl you like. Most likely, she will be interested in your intentions, so think ahead about what you are going to say, other than the banal "hello". Ask a question, give her a compliment, or invite her to do something interesting with you.
• If you have nothing to say, but you want to get her attention, then walk by, nod and smile at the girl. Noticing that she is looking after you, pause for a minute and walk past her again. Now the girl will probably forget about her company and take time for you.