Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

Many people want to be leaders or trendsetters, especially when it comes to community groups. You may think it’s difficult, but with the right tools and the right approach, you can become a leader or trendsetter in just a few weeks.

Steps

1. 1 Work with the right people. This will work with people who are already your friends, because you will need to spend time with them and make them trust you. Do not try to do this with an independent friend, or you will fail. Such friends themselves want to be leaders and will not follow anyone.
2. 2 Let your friends and acquaintances know that they can trust you. If they trust you, they will share with you, feel safe, and want to spend more time with your company.
   • When they want to talk, be open. Listen carefully when they have problems and keep the information confidential.
3. 3 Always be confident. People feel confident among confident people. This person will want to be with you because you know what you are doing.
4. 4 Don't tell them your secrets. They will want to know your secrets when they realize you know something about them. Don't give away your secrets. Reassure them that if they spend more time with you, you will trust them more. If they ask why you don't trust them, tell them that you don't share your secrets with anyone.
5. 5 Make them feel special. Make them feel like your best friend / girlfriend, but never specifically say that they are your best friends. If they ask, disparagingly say that you have many best friends. If they ask, it's time to move on to the next step.
6. 6 Start making friends with others in your circle. Make sure the person understands that you have many other friends.
7. 7 Start paying less and less attention to that person. Show less interest in what he is talking about or doing. From time to time, "reward" them by asking how they are doing. This way, they will understand that they have not lost you and will work harder to get your attention.
8. 8 Whenever you are with other people and this friend is nearby, ask how they are doing, showing great interest. Your friend will become jealous and will try even harder. If he / she sees that you are spending a lot of time with other friends, they will want to be with you more in order to get you back.

Tips

• If your boyfriend / girlfriend is upset about something, give him / her more attention.
• Your boyfriend / girlfriend will not fight with you, because all they need is to return your affection.
• If your boyfriend / girlfriend is angry with you, go to a meeting with other friends and act like you don't remember him / her (this is not a boycott, just try not to think about him / her). He / she will understand that you can easily find a replacement for him / her and will try even more.

Warnings

• Don't be emotionally dependent on someone.
• Don't let anyone else have power over you.
• Don't involve your best friends in this story. You can use them as another person and never lose them.
• Be careful and do everything in moderation.
• Take the last step calmly (smoothly, today - tomorrow, not in one day).