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• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

If you've been abandoned or abandoned by your ex by making small but positive lifestyle changes, you can make her jealous and curious about your new life without her. As long as the desire to induce jealousy comes from good intentions on your part, it can make her realize that she really cares about you.

Steps

1. 1 Learn the difference between healthy and unhealthy jealousy. This will prevent hurting one or both parties in the process of making your ex jealous. A healthy approach implies that your goal is to strengthen or rekindle a relationship with your ex, while an unhealthy approach primarily comes from your desire for revenge or intentionally hurting your ex for breaking up with you.
2. 2 Stop hanging out with your ex. Breaking contacts can make her curious about what you are up to and why you don't talk to her anymore. She may begin to suspect that you have someone or that you are busy with entertainment without her. If you don't like the idea of ​​cutting all ties, wait at least two to three weeks before starting to communicate again.
3. 3 Improve your current lifestyle. As the old Spanish saying goes, "The good life is the best revenge." It's a good idea to keep this in mind when making your ex jealous. Self-improvement is very beneficial. Plus, it boosts your self-esteem as you go through a breakup. Exercise more often, devote more time to family and friends, and make other positive changes so that your ex begins to wonder if your life is better without her.
4. 4 Don't interrupt your communication with mutual friends. So your ex will involuntarily be aware of what is happening with you, even if you are not in contact with her.Your friends may even mention in front of her that they saw you and that you are doing well without her. For example, let your friends know that you've recently been promoted, that you've lost weight, or are planning to run a 5-kilometer marathon. This news can reach your ex's ears and make her jealous of your accomplishments.
5. 5 Be active on social media. Your ex may, out of curiosity, look at your profile to see how you are getting along without her and if you're spending time with someone new. Leave posts that are positive in nature, but try to keep intrigue without going into specific details. For example, share a photo from a Friday night party with your friends, but don't mention where it was or what you celebrated.
   • Post pictures of yourself hanging out with other girls, especially those you find attractive. Seeing that you are having fun with other girls can make your ex jealous and question her true feelings for you.
6. 6 Be confident and lighthearted when confronted with your ex in public. If dating your ex is unavoidable because you work together or because you have mutual friends, smile and say hello, then keep going about your business. This relaxed behavior will make your ex wonder why you're not unhappy without her. It will also show that you are confident and move on.
7. 7 Be unavailable to your ex. If she texts or calls you, don't answer right away. This will make you seem busy and wonder what is going on with you. It will also help you avoid desperately waiting to hear from her. Depending on the nature of her calls, do not call back for hours or days.
8. 8 Allow yourself to date again. And while you may still have feelings for your ex and want her back, returning to the dating arena will be a natural way to make her jealous, as it may seem like you've already gone through the breakup and are ready to move on. Plus, you end up meeting someone with whom you can enjoy your time more than your ex.

Tips

• After breaking up, devote more time to activities and interests you truly love. Plunging into your favorite hobby, you can put your ex out of your head and even make new friends, and possibly a new romantic relationship with someone who shares the same interests as you.

Warnings

• Don't overreact or make you jealous too obviously. This can turn against you, and your ex will lose all interest in you altogether. Be smarter and provoke jealousy in indirect ways, without crossing boundaries. For example, don't kiss another girl just for the sake of jealousy when your ex is looking at you.
• Try not to devote excessive amounts of time and energy to trying to make your ex jealous. It can have a devastating effect on your love life, preventing you from moving on, reaching your goals, and wasting time on the things you love.