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• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Good manners
• Method 2 of 3: Enjoyable Conversations
• Method 3 of 3: Presentable Look

If you want to make a good impression on a date, be friendly and polite. Maintain interesting conversations and a pleasant mood. Ask different questions, tell funny stories, and compliment your boyfriend to boost his self-esteem. Remember to keep your personal hygiene in mind so that your boyfriend is not deterred by bad breath, body odor or clothing.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Good manners

1. 1 Observe table etiquette. Bad manners can be repulsive. Try to chew with your mouth closed and avoid handling food with your hands. If you're out for dinner on a date, try to impress with your table manners. Hold cutlery correctly, always use a napkin, chew food with your mouth closed, and do not rest your elbows on the table.
2. 2 Put your phone aside. You always want to keep your phone in sight, but it's not very pretty in relation to your partner. Put your phone in your pocket or purse and give the person undivided attention. If you are waiting for an urgent call and need to keep the phone close at hand, then turn it upside down and do not touch it if it does not emit signals or vibrations.
   • If you are waiting for a call from a specific number, assign a specific sound signal to the number and do not be distracted by the phone unnecessarily.
3. 3 Accept compliments and reciprocate politely. A charming young man on a date will definitely give you one or two compliments. Just say thank you and compliment in return. Don't reject the compliment with self-deprecating remarks or words of disbelief.
   • For example, if you were told that you are beautiful, then you can answer: "You are also cute."
   • Don't use negative answers like, "No, I'm not pretty."
4. 4 Offer to pay the bill. Always be prepared to pay for your date dinner or split the bill in half. Bring cash and a bank card with you. Reach for your wallet when it's time to pay the bill. If the guy insists that he will pay for you, thank him politely and offer to pay for the next time you play together. Specialist Answer Question

   "Who pays the date bill?"

   
   

   

   Jessica Engle, MFT, MA

   Relationship Coach Jessica Ingle is a relationship coach and psychotherapist based in the San Francisco Bay Area. Founded Bay Area Dating Coach in 2009 after completing her Master's degree in Counseling Psychology. She is a licensed family and marriage psychotherapist and registered play therapist with over 10 years of experience.

   SPECIALIST'S ADVICE

   Jessica Ingle, director of the Center for Strengthening Relationships in San Francisco, gives this answer: “The discussion of the issue and the decision always remains with the two participants in the meeting. In such a situation, it is useful to ask your companion which option seems correct to him. As with other aspects of a relationship, open communication can work wonders. Some people simply do not have these skills or prefer to speak evasively, in which case you can judge by the expression on the face of the partner at the moment when you show the intention to pay the bill. "

   
   

Method 2 of 3: Enjoyable Conversations

1. 1 Ask questions. A good date always involves the exchange of questions and answers. Use questions that will better reveal the facets of the person's personality and get to know the guy better. Examples:
   • "What do you like to do in your free time?"
   • "Have you been anywhere lately?"
   • "Do you have pets?"
   • "What desires would you like to have time to bring to life?"
   • "What is the main irritant for you?"
2. 2 Tell jokes and funny stories. Laughter allows you to get closer to the person and feel comfortable. Tell funny life stories and relevant jokes. Humor will show you as a cheerful and friendly person, and will also allow the guy to relax in your presence.
3. 3 Avoid awkward topics. Certain topics are inappropriate on a date because they create embarrassment and tension.Avoid discussing your past relationship so as not to ruin the pleasant dating atmosphere. Do not elicit information that the person does not want to share with you, and do not insist on topics that he is not ready to discuss.
   • Don't be too personal about yourself while you're not close enough.

Method 3 of 3: Presentable Look

1. 1 Freshen up your breath. When people are around, bad breath can alienate the person. Always brush your teeth and use dental floss and mouthwash before a date to keep your breath clean and fresh. Drink plenty of water and avoid coffee, garlic, and other foods that can cause bad breath.
2. 2 Take a shower and use deodorant. Always shower before a date. This will show you respect for the person and ensure proper hygiene. Turn on warm water and stay in the shower for more than 15 minutes to avoid dry skin. If you are also going to shave your legs in the shower, then do it at the very end, when the pores are open.
3. 3 Choose the right outfit. Choose a date outfit that makes you feel comfortable and confident. Your clothes should reflect your personality. For an informal date, wear a little more dressy than your casual outfit. For a special occasion, choose a beautiful dress, suit, or skirt with a blouse to look stylish and attractive.