Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

It's hard not to worry when your friend becomes an enemy. At first, you will be at a loss, try to understand how long he intends to hold this position. Well, this article is meant to help you.

Steps

1. 1 Ignore it and don't let a single tear fall from your eyes. Obviously, he wants to upset you, so don't give him any reason to believe that he won.
2. 2 Tell yourself that you are better than him. Remind yourself that real a friend would not have done that and would not leave you - this will help you to get through the situation perfectly.
3. 3 Learn to forgive. Did he push you down? You did something to him that you regret? You don't have to tolerate this kind of behavior, but forgiveness can help you heal your wounds. Although this does not mean at all that you should forget about what happened.
4. 4 Don't treat this person like your friend anymore. You may feel very bad about it and hate yourself, but you shouldn't suffer for something that he done towards you.
5. 5 Don't worry about whether this person will be at the party or not, whether you received an invitation from him or not. If you are invited, great, you have the opportunity to decide really whether you want to go to this party or not.
6. 6 If not, meditate and just forget about it.
7. 7 Become a more mature person. If a former friend is spreading gossip about you or giving away your secrets, don't reciprocate in kind. Behave in a peaceful and mature manner. Then he will look like an idiot, not you.
8. 8 Give him a second chance, but no more. If you truly believe he’s sorry, you don’t need to give your friend a cold shower or fan the problem out of nothing.

Tips

• If a friend betrays you, cut off any relationship with him. Someday he will regret and try to return you when he needs you - do not answer his request (although it all depends on the degree of betrayal). Live your life and do what will bring you the most joy. This person is not worth you, especially if you were a good, devoted friend to him. Life is full of twists and turns - direct your ship (your life) the way that is best for you, meet new people on your way and forge new relationships. People come into our lives and leave, but real friends always stay with us.
• It may not be easy, but you have to be better than these people. If a person tries to return you, remember what he did, what choice he made. Perhaps it is the universe that tells you that you must move on until you become the same as these people.
• Don't let people get too close to you. It is very, very difficult to learn this, but it is possible with a strong desire.
• Be open to new social opportunities. Chat with others, say hello to a few new people every day - sometimes people you know very little become your best friends for the rest of your life.
• If this bad "friend" has your phone number, you can block him so that he cannot call and text you.
• If he wants to be friends again, ask him never to do that again.

Warnings

• Some people can be very stubborn. And yet, sooner or later, they must forget about everything.
• Be careful not to push everyone away ahead of time, unless they've done something really, really bad.