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• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

The relationship between you is over, and your former love does not move on? You need to clarify the fact that everything is in the past, before this person sends you another awkward love letter or settles under your window with a boombox on his shoulders playing at full volume. Wow. You could try to scare him away, threaten, annoy him, but with Wikihau you will solve this issue very quickly.

Steps

1. 1 Be honest: sometimes you just need to be persistent in explaining your point of view. Have you ever been in a relationship that tried to break up, but this person spoke your teeth and confused you every time? Avoid this mistake. Speak clearly and simply so that everything is clear.
2. 2 Avoid Any Contact: if you continue to talk to this person after you broke up, he will not leave you alone, and you will only add fuel to the fire. And if you step back, leaving alone, then he may begin to realize that everything is really over, and nothing will make you change your mind - and this is the only option when they stop bothering you.
3. 3 Tell friends and family about what's going on - especially a friend who has had a similar situation. Breaking up is always a stressful situation in and of itself, but sometimes it gets even worse when the person you are dating is still obsessed with you or, worse, stalking you. Friends and family members will be your support group to help you stay away from this person; nevertheless, be careful with your friends, because they may start helping out of sympathy for your crazy adorer.
4. 4 If all else fails, warn this person that you plan to contact law enforcement: sometimes the threat of litigation can really scare him / her away and help to understand how abnormal his / her behavior was.
5. 5 If you continue to be persecuted, contact the authorities: get a restraining order to prevent him from approaching you closer than a certain distance or in any way getting in touch with you.
6. 6 If this person violates a restraining order, call the police / militia and have them deal with the problem.
7. 7 Be kind but firm. How would you love it if someone told you to get away! Think about how you would feel if you were this person before you say anything. However, do not let us mistake your kindness for approving his behavior.

Tips

• If your ex or ex is obsessed with you, it is unnerving and intimidating, but it should not slow you down.
• Don't feel guilty about ending the relationship: you had a reason, and that's enough.
• If you are starting a new relationship while you are still haunted by your ex / ex, it is best to discuss the situation with your new partner before things get too far.
• If you are being stalked by your ex / ex, it is recommended that you do not get into a serious relationship with the other person, because it can hurt him, and there is also the risk that your stalker may do something with you or your new partner.

Warnings

• Sometimes people who are possessed by someone lose their understanding of what is good and what is bad. If your ex is stalking you, don't let him be around you, as there is a chance that he will hurt you out of anger.
• If bad rumors begin to spread about you, talk to someone about it right away.
• If your ex / ex starts to harass you - do not hesitate, contact the law enforcement agencies.
• If he / she is really obsessed with you, then it is best to talk about it with a friend or family member you trust.