Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Use your body language
• Method 2 of 3: Set the Right Mindset
• Method 3 of 3: Send Playful Signals
• Tips

Are you already in a romantic relationship but haven't kissed your partner yet? Are you afraid to take the first step? Kissing is a fun, meaningful and very intimate act. However, there is nothing to be afraid of. With a little effort, you and your partner will start kissing in no time.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Use your body language

1. 1 Make physical contact. A kiss is an intimate act. To move towards it, start with light touches. Find any excuse to touch your partner, or just get very close to him to send the signal that you are ready to kiss.
   • Lean against your partner.
   • Grab it with one hand.
   • Brush the lash off his face.
   • Tuck the tag on his shirt.
2. 2 Draw attention to your lips. This will make the person think of the kiss and the desire to carry it out right now. The main thing is to do it unobtrusively and barely noticeable.
   • Apply lip gloss or balm.
   • Eat a piece of fruit or berry, such as strawberries.
   • Bite down gently on your lower lip.
3. 3 Look your partner in the eye. A long look is perhaps the most obvious hint of a kiss. When hanging out together, try to keep your partner's gaze as long as possible. This will help build intimacy and signal your desire to kiss.
   • You can meet glances, for example, when playing something together, while eating, or even just while relaxing on the couch.
   • Try to hold your partner's gaze for 10-15 seconds at a time.
4. 4 Try it snuggle up to a partner. If there is already some intimacy between you and you feel comfortable with your partner, try to snuggle up to him. Place your head on his shoulder or initiate a long hug. The more physical touching, the more likely a kiss is.
   • Try snuggling gently against your partner while riding the bus or watching TV.
5. 5 Create a kissing moment. For example, it could be a goodbye kiss - the classic ending of a date or meeting. At the end of the evening, your companion is likely to wonder if he should try to kiss you or not. Help him make up his mind by providing lots of hints!
   • When it's time to say goodbye, find ways to touch him, make eye contact, and somehow draw attention to your lips.
   SPECIALIST'S ADVICE

   

   Eddy baller

   
   
   Dating Coach Eddie Boller is a dating coach from Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada. Coaching since 2011, specializing in confidence building, advanced social skills and relationships. He runs his own dating consulting and coaching service Conquer and Win, the only BBB accredited dating coaching company in Vancouver. Conquer and Win helps men around the world lead the love lives they deserve. The Art of Manliness, LifeHack, POF and other sites have written about Eddie's work.

   Eddy baller
   Dating coach

   Our specialist agrees: You can create a moment at any suitable opportunity. When you are with your partner, try touching or approaching him and looking at his lips. If all goes well, start bending over for a kiss and check the person's reaction, then move on to action.

   
   

Method 2 of 3: Set the Right Mindset

1. 1 Find a secluded spot. While kissing in the rain or snow may seem like a romantic idea to you, most people prefer to show their feelings in private. You are more likely to achieve a kiss if you find a place to be alone with your partner.
   • Go for a walk.
   • Go to a restaurant during periods of low traffic (for example, at 3 pm).
   • Spend time at home.
   • Do not climb into protected and restricted areas and follow the rules.
2. 2 Watch the movie. This option is perfect for a first kiss. Whether at home or at the cinema, watching a movie allows people to get comfortable with each other, which often leads to kissing.
   • A romantic movie can awaken the senses.
   • A horror movie will give you a reason to snuggle up to your partner to feel safe.
   • The comedy will get you both in good spirits.
3. 3 Use perfume. Perfumes and colognes were invented in order to attract romantic partners. Apply a sweet, light scent to make your partner want to kiss you. Do not overdo it! A fragrance that is too strong will have the opposite effect.
   • Clinique Happy is a variant of a pleasant feminine scent.
   • Lacoste Challenge is a variant of the lighter, more masculine scent.
4. 4 Brush your teeth. One of the most important things to consider when preparing for a wonderful kiss is to make sure your mouth is clean and your breath is fresh! Brush your teeth and use dental floss and mouthwash before meeting with your partner.
   • You can bring a small bottle of mouthwash or mints with you in case you need to freshen your breath.

Method 3 of 3: Send Playful Signals

1. 1 Whisper cute little things. A great way to flirt with your partner and send him a clear signal that he wants to kiss is to whisper something nice in his ear. Get very close to him and say something simple, like, "Thank you for a wonderful date." The closeness of bodies and faces, as well as hot breath, will surely increase the desire to kiss!
   • You can also give a simple compliment, such as “I like your shirt,” or, “You smell good.”
2. 2 Compliment your partner. Your partner will feel more confident and will probably dare to kiss you. Praise anything you like about him. If you're not ashamed, be sure to mention that you like his lips.
   • You can say, "You have very beautiful eyes."
   • Or, “You're always so kind to strangers on the street. I love it".
   • If you are brave enough, say, “You have such beautiful lips. I really like their shape. "
3. 3 Talk about kissing. It is likely that the partner did not even think about it. Bring these thoughts into his mind (and encourage him to take a step) by bringing kissing into conversation.
   • For example, if you see a couple kissing (in a movie or on the street), check this episode. You might say, "They seem to be having a great time."
   • Or you can say something like, “Did you know that there are a lot of nerve endings in your mouth? This is why kisses are so enjoyable. "
   • You can also directly tell your partner, “I would love to kiss you. You do not mind?"
4. 4 Be confident in yourself! As a last resort, just kiss your partner yourself! Sometimes you need to take the first step yourself. Look for positive signals to boost your confidence and ignite the spark. Did your partner look you in the eye, stood very close to you, and complimented you? He's probably waiting for you to kiss him.
   • Before kissing, ask the person's permission! A clear answer will dispel all doubts.
   • If you get nervous, take a short break and take a few deep breaths.
   • Focus on the sensations you get after the kiss (relaxation, relief, romantic mood), and then any excitement will fade into the background.

Tips

• Make sure you have soft, non-chapped lips before kissing.
• Just keep calm. Everything will happen naturally.
• Don't use sticky lip gloss.
• Don't get too carried away with the kiss.
• If your partner is shy, ask permission to kiss. You don't want to scare him away!
• Make sure you really want it.
• Finding a good location is imperative. Avoiding kissing in public, such as on public transport, is likely to embarrass others. However, places like the cinema are great for affection.
• Bring mints, chewing gum, or fresh breath spray with you and use your options before kissing.
• Start by hugging. It doesn't matter if it's a kiss on the lips or on the cheek - after the hug it will be easier to take a step.
• If your partner is a little nervous, you can always wait until both of you are ready. It doesn't have to happen right now. Ask him how he feels to melt the ice a little.