Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 2: Connect with Mom through Communication
• Method 2 of 2: Demonstrating Appreciation Through Action
• Tips

It can be difficult to think of a way to make your mom happy except for the obvious things like flowers and gifts. Of course, this is all very nice and most mothers will love it, but there are other ways to show your love and care. Happiness is a very personal thing and is different for all people, so you have to experiment a little before you find a recipe for happiness just for your mom. However, attempts and aspirations also count!

Steps

Method 1 of 2: Connect with Mom through Communication

1. 1 Ask your mom to talk about her life. One way to make a person feel important is to show interest in them. Who he is, what he went through, what he thinks about. Asking your mom about life gives yourself a chance to feel connected to her. She will also be pleased to see your interest in what she has to say.
   • For example, if you are spending an evening in the living room together, turn to your mom and ask what she liked to do when she was little. Perhaps you will learn some interesting stories!
   • Research shows that families where family stories are shared develop stronger bonds, and that children in such families tend to have more self-confidence. So asking about your mom's past will benefit both of you, and it's scientifically proven!
2. 2 Ask your mom about her feelings. Mothers are people just like the rest of us. They need someone to talk to. By being interested in her feelings, you show attention to her and show that you care. Perhaps this will make your mom very happy.
   • For example, if you notice that she looks tense, you might say, “Mom, you look very tense. Are you all right? "
   • Another good way to connect with your mom is to ask how her day went. She will most likely ask what you were up to. Why not share too?
3. 3 Send her a short message, just like that. Even small acts of kindness can be highly rewarded. By texting your mom throughout the day, you show what you think of her and help her feel special and important. The more people feel cared for, the happier they become.
   • You are not fond of writing a whole novel. Even a simple one: “Hi Mom! Hope your day is going well! ” enough to show you care about your mom's happiness.
4. 4 Apologize when wrong. Sometimes it can be very difficult to apologize to your mom, especially if you've had a big fight. However, admitting that you are wrong and taking responsibility for your actions will strengthen your relationship and help your mom feel loved.
   • A good apology consists of the four letters "SORP": regret, responsibility and solution... This means that you express regret for the pain caused, take responsibility for your actions without excuses, and also offer an option for your actions in the future.
   • For example, if your mom tells you that you haven't taken out the trash again, say, “Sorry I forgot to take out the trash again. I know it adds work to you, and now I'll put a reminder on my phone for Wednesday so I won't forget next time. ”
5. 5 Step into her place. Sometimes it seems that today mom is your best friend, and tomorrow is a prison guard. Instead of thinking: What she does?, try to imagine what you would do in her place. Empathy training is good not only for your relationship with your mom, but for you in general.
   • For example, if she asks you how your day went and you snap back instead, it might hurt her feelings. If you are too busy at the moment, make it clear by answering, “Mom, I have a lot of homework. Let's talk later?" This will show that you want to chat with her, but now is not the best time.
   • Moms can do things that embarrass you. Sometimes it seems like they specialize in this! Try to think why your mom does that. She may be “babysitting” you because she wants you to feel safe, not because she thinks you are infantile (oops). Plus, you can always ask herwhy she does it.
6. 6 Discuss your problems with her. Moms love to feel involved in their children's lives, especially when the children themselves share their feelings and thoughts. If you've had a bad day, trouble at school, or secretly fell in love but don't know. How to approach her / him, ask mom for advice. This will help her understand that her opinion is important to you.
   • The same thing works the other way around. Despite the fact that mom is probably happy to listen to you and help you, you should not run to her only when you need to "dump a mountain" of problems. If you have something amazing, great news, or watching a movie that you enjoy, discuss it with her as well.
7. 7 Come up with "your" jokes and associations. Most likely, you have a million "your" jokes with your friends, right? For example, once you watched a movie and mispronounced the hero's name, and now you deliberately call him that in order to remember and laugh. Having this kind of "secret" humor just between you and your mom will strengthen your bond and make you both / both feel happy and secure in your relationship.

Method 2 of 2: Demonstrating Appreciation Through Action

1. 1 Give her a personal gift. A gift means so much more when you put your time and effort into it. It doesn't have to be expensive, the main thing is that it expresses your desire to make your mom happy. And then it will bring the desired effect.
   • For example, if your mom loves Star Wars, fold her origami Yoda! You will not need large expenses, but this way you express your attention to her interests and cheer her up for this day!
   • You can also make a “coupon book” for Mom that she can cash out. For example, “one breakfast in bed” or “one bad joke on request”.
   • A selection of your favorite songs may seem a little old-fashioned to you, but you can try making a playlist of songs that remind your mom of you or songs that cheer you up in bad times. Share these recordings with her so that she thinks of you every time she listens to them.
2. 2 Leave her a note in the lunch box. Perhaps, collecting food for you to school, mom herself leaves notes with words of love. Why not do the same for her? You can also make her lunch and leave the container in the fridge to save her time in the morning.
3. 3 Introduce mom to your friends. Of course, it might be a little embarrassing to bring friends home to Mom. You never know if she's going to show your childhood photos or talk about the “funny” (and humiliating) things you did when you were 6 years old. However, by involving your mom in your life, you remind her that you care about her, even if you are ashamed of her.
4. 4 Help your mom around the house. Household chores can be stressful and time-consuming. Make life easier for your mom by taking on some of the things you can do. This works especially well when it happens suddenly. For example, mom comes home from work tired, and you've already made dinner. This will make her happy!
5. 5 Prepare dinner for her. Cooking dinner can be very challenging.If you know your mom is having a busy week, suggest cooking dinner at least once during that period. Even if you can't cook everything completely, at least offer your help in the kitchen. This will help you master some tricks and also be able to spend time with your mom.
   • Breakfast in bed is a win-win classic. Even though most only do it on March 8th, Mom will love having breakfast in bed every weekend!
   • Think about her favorite foods and cook them. If she likes something that is difficult for you to prepare or you don't know how to do it, ask her to teach you a few weeks before you are going to surprise.
6. 6 Take on more responsibility. It can be very difficult for your mom to organize a schedule for all family members, especially if the family is large. It is also time consuming. Keep track of your class and workout times to ease your mom's burden. The less worries mom has, the more happiness mom has!
7. 7 Spend time with your mom. Offer to go out together, or offer to watch a movie she loves. You can play video games together or go for a walk. The most important thing is to show that you are interested in spending time with her.
   • The walk doesn't have to cost money. For example, if you both love animals, suggest visiting a local shelter and playing with the animals. Many rescued animals need companionship, so you will not only bring joy to your mom, but also help cats, dogs and other animals
8. 8 Remember important dates. Nothing makes a mom feel more special than knowing a baby about her birthday or anniversary date. Send her a heartfelt letter or card expressing your appreciation for her.
   • To remember important dates, add them to your calendar on your phone. If you and your mom are friends on VKontakte (yes, it happens!), The social network will remind you of the upcoming event.

Tips

• Even if you have moved and live separately, there are still many things you can do that will put a smile on your mom's face. Stay connected with messages, calls and social media chats.
• While “big” gestures are great, it’s the little things every day that help people feel loved and appreciated. This usually does not require a lot of money, but the reward for the work is priceless.
• Give her a gift with your own hands, she will appreciate it.
• Your concentration on your studies and good grades will make your mom happy. A lot of mothers are concerned about getting their child a good education.