Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

Sometimes it’s hard to admit that you sympathize with the boyfriend / girlfriend without opening up too much and that this person doesn’t take advantage of him or her over you. Well, here are some ways to help you avoid making a mistake and be better able to express your feelings.

Steps

1. 1 Do it yourself. Try to make eye contact with the person you are talking to. If you are a jittery type of person and may stutter or sweat and are unsure of how to express your feelings correctly, you may want to resort to messaging. But remember that writing messages of this nature is a last resort.
2. 2 When you start talking, make sure you don't argue. Explain how you feel, but don't go overboard or act like the most important person in your life. Tell us what is happening and why you feel that way towards him / her. Do not rush to start a relationship, because this may make your partner feel uncomfortable or awkward.
3. 3 When you're done expressing your feelings, don't ask: "Well, what do you feel about me?" It depends on your passion when to let you know about it and whether it is worth doing it. If you get rejected, accept the truth and don't lie. Say how you really feel, but don't throw tantrums. If you do hear agreement, well, one of you should voice an invitation to a date, but if you are younger, you should just be friends.
4. 4 If they can't tell you anything about your confession, move on.
5. 5 If you do get an answer to your confession, but it is not what you feel, do not emphasize it and do not make the mistake of trying to take your words back. Over time, you may be reciprocated, but if not, again, move on.
6. 6 If your feelings are mutual, ask if your crush wants to go out with you sometime. Get to know each other better.

Tips

• Do this in private.
• Smile, it shows confidence. Self-confidence is impressive. But don't force yourself to smile. Your smile must be 100% genuine.
• Be confident in yourself.
• Do this when he or she is not busy.
• Don't panic when you confess your feelings. Keep calm. Relax.
• It is difficult to tell someone about your sympathy, but, most likely, this will be perceived as a great compliment, so do not be afraid that you will be counted "with regards" for such confessions.
• Do not ask someone to tell your passion about your feelings for you, unless you SERIOUSly trust them. If you just tell a random person, then it can go further, because the wrong people will find out. DOESN'T END ANYTHING GOOD ...
• Don't tell the whole class that you want to confess your feelings. The person may feel uncomfortable and give up.
• Do not swear. It's not attractive.
• Choose an intimate setting, a place where you both feel comfortable.
• Inflating the situation too much can irritate the person you are about to confess to.
• If you say you want to talk, it will be clear that you are serious. Don't just yank them out of the way.
• Whatever you do, don't kiss or show your feelings in public. The last thing you want is to start spreading rumors.
• It's not a good idea to plan in your head, because if something doesn't go as you expected, it will surprise you or catch you off guard, which will prevent you from behaving naturally.
• Don't jump right in with this topic. Start with what happened to you throughout the day, and gradually move on to the subject that interests you.

Warnings

• Do not cry or be upset in front of this person if your feelings are not mutual. So they will only feel sorry for you or your passion will become uncomfortable, but you do not want that.
• Don't wait too long to confess, or someone else might get ahead of you.
• Escaping immediately after confessing can make you feel uncomfortable.
• Don't ask your friends to confess for you. This usually only leads to inconvenience.
• If he or she ignores your feelings, then it's a pity. Don't beg! Begging only worsens your chances of ever being with that person in the future.
• Ask your sympathy on a date after confessing if your feelings turned out to be mutual.
• If he or she immediately refuses, skip the part where you will selflessly feel sorry for yourself. Stay calm instead of crying or getting upset.
• Act like nothing happened, but be serious with the person.