Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 2: Show Interest
• Method 2 of 2: Flirt with her
• Tips
• Warnings

Everyone seems to be able to attract the attention of the average girl, but how to attract a girl who acts like a kid? Be yourself for a start, but you can increase your chances by showing an interest in the things that attract her and respecting her choices.

Steps

Method 1 of 2: Show Interest

1. 1 Find out what interests her and start to be interested in it yourself. Naturally, you shouldn't change drastically; just try to figure out if some of these passions enthrall you and try to adjust a little.
2. 2 Play sports games with her or chat with her. Do this progressively so as not to intimidate her with your intense interest in her sports life.
   • Ask her about some sports or video games, cycling, or outdoor activities. Try what she does and see if you enjoy the game, sport, or activity.
3. 3 Find funny jokes. Most girls love funny guys, even if they are tomboy girls. This may be a bad pun, be funny anyway. This is vital.
4. 4 Leave compliments about clothes aside. It's not a good idea to praise a kid for her looks. Chances are she became a tomboy to get away from all those girly frilly things.

Method 2 of 2: Flirt with her

1. 1 Make sure she is free before you start approaching her. Girls (and boys) don't like guys who harass them when they're in a relationship.
2. 2 Slowly but surely, start flirting with her. Do it in a more discreet and friendly way. If you persist and do it consistently and in a friendly manner, she will begin to notice that she likes you.
   • Show affection. Talk to her as much as possible. You're kidding.
3. 3 Build relationships. After a while, if she shows signs that you are also cute to her, you can move to a higher level in flirting. Don't play too easy though; since she will not feel that she is strong and most girls like to think that they have power over love. Love should be mutual, not a power struggle.
   • Make physical contact. Take her hand and look into her eyes and say something funny, smile. Boys in this way often make friends and it becomes easier for both if the guy hugs her by the shoulders or just try to touch her hair.
4. 4 Be patient. If she's a confident kid like most others, then she will most likely invite you in or tell you that she likes you. If she doesn't, then invite her yourself.
5. 5 Invite her wherever the kid would go. For example, a baseball game or a Minecraft game. Do not try to invite her to a mall or a restaurant, as this implies something fashionable, but the kid, in any case, will come in jeans.

Tips

• Be the same guy when you meet. Girls don't like guys who change during dates.
• Don't be surprised or offended if she plays for another team, but also never assume that the girl is a lesbian because she looks like a kid.
• There are no simple rules for flirting with a kid; some tomboy girls just want to be a friend and this is how they see their relationship. Others may be flattered that you stare at her and joke around to see her inner femininity.
• Remember, no matter how strong the kid is, she's still a girl. And the girls love the attention.

Warnings

• Be careful with compliments; make sure she likes compliments before you start giving them.
• Make sure she is receptive to romance.
• Flirt calmly at first so you don't overwhelm her.
• Don't be too approachable. For boys, the best way to show sympathy is through stalking.
• Don't change when you start dating.
• In fact, some girls are not interested in relationships.