Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Getting Started
• Method 2 of 3: Continuation
• Method 3 of 3: Strong End
• Tips
• Warnings

Sexual texting or sexting is a great way to turn your boyfriend or girlfriend on and take it to the next level of relationship if you send it to the right person at the right time. If you want to know how to write obscene SMS that will excite your interlocutor as soon as you press the "send" button, just follow our instructions.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Getting Started

1. 1 Feel the soil. Even if you have been dating for several months, it may turn out that the person does not like this type of communication. Therefore, it is important to start small before sending sexual messages and having a partner. Start with a casual greeting like, “Hello baby,” and watch for reactions.
   • If you weren't very frank in the beginning, you can play up the situation - step back and deny that you tried to sex if your partner gets angry or blames you.
   • Start with a sexy attitude. If you just write, "How are you?" - or: “How are you?”, it will be more difficult for you to tune in to sexual topics. Better to set the tone for the conversation right away so that the other person knows what to expect.
   • You might say, “I'm bored. I wish I could do something interesting. "
   • Write something like, “I saw a girl in the movies who looked a lot like you. She was very hot - but you are even better. "
2. 2 Wait for your partner to reply with a sexy text message. As soon as the interlocutor responds to your message appropriately, it's time to play. If you see that your partner is also inclined to such communication, start writing more obscene messages, but only gradually. Wait for an answer. If it takes too long to respond to you, it’s likely that the mood will not be the same, but don’t be discouraged - you can always try another time.
   • Do not continue to send SMS if you are not answered. If a partner picks up a phone and sees a bunch of obscene messages there, it may seem strange.
   • If your partner doesn't like it, don't try to convince him or her. Just apologize and move on - there is nothing to inflate out of an elephant fly.

Method 2 of 3: Continuation

1. 1 Raise your rates. Continue to send obscene text messages, but in a more explicit tone. You can even invite a partner to visit to make all the passion of correspondence a reality. If a girl says she is preparing for a sex education workshop, ask if she can come and train with you. Here's another way to raise your stakes:
   • "Wait, let me get dressed."
   • “It's so hot in here. I'll take off my T-shirt. "
   • "What are you wearing now?"
   • "What if I show you what I mean?"
   • "Can you guess the color of my panties?"
2. 2 If the partner responds positively, raise the stakes even higher. If you see that the other person likes obscenity, or maybe he even wants to try something in reality, you can make the conversation even more frank. You can talk about the meeting or about what you touch or how you take off your clothes. Here's what to say:
   • “I took off all my clothes. I am under the blanket".
   • "I would like to chat, but I'd rather close my eyes and introduce you."
   • "What would we do if you were there?"
   • “It's so cold in here. Would you like to warm me up? "
   • “Sorry for taking so long to answer. My hands are a little busy. "
3. 3 Get creative. If you and your partner are already turned on, you can continue like this until you start fondling yourself. Or, when it gets too hot, you can make an appointment. Whatever happens, your correspondence should be creative and interesting so that your partner doesn't get bored. Use as many details and descriptions as possible, answer quickly so that the other person knows that you are giving them your full attention.
   • “If you were here, I would stroke your hair. But now I will stroke something else ... "
   • "I'm so excited I can hardly write."
   • “I'm wearing a tight T-shirt. Take it off for you? "
   • "I take off your belt - thinking about spanking you a little ..."
   • “I just got out of the shower, my hair is wet. Do you have a towel? "

Method 3 of 3: Strong End

1. 1 Masturbate. If the lewd text message is heading in the right direction, then you and your partner will slowly begin to take off your clothes and touch yourself. If you both like it, it can be a lot of fun and exciting. Just share what you would do, what you are doing now, and what you would do together.
   • You just need to relax and send obscene messages until you both have an orgasm.
   • You can say, "I want you [verb] my [body part]." This will make your sexual experience more real.
   • Tell us how you feel while texting - describe all the sensations, even how you feel with your fingertips.
2. 2 Introduce the person you are texting with. Mutual masturbation is fun, but having sex is much more enjoyable. If the conversation is heading in this direction, you can simply ask your partner if he would like to visit or ask him yourself. Here's what to say:
   • "I'm trying to imagine what you look like, but I'd rather meet you."
   • Why don't you crawl into my bed? I would like to see if we will be as good as I imagine. "
   • “I guessed the color of your panties. But how do I know that this is true? "
   • “Why don't we continue in reality? I want my hands to do something other than SMS. "
   • “Why don’t I come to see you? I'll still be there. If you, of course, do not mind. "
3. 3 End the conversation. Whether you end a conversation because you made an appointment or because you got everything you wanted, you need to be delicate. You can just say it's time for you to leave. Whatever the reason, be gentle and maintain a sexy tone even at the end.
   • Don't just say goodbye or see you at the end of the conversation. Say, "I can't wait for your next text message," or, "We'll write to you for another hot, lonely night." Make your partner think of you and crave for another correspondence.
   • Don't switch to a non-sexual topic at the end of a conversation. Don't say: "By the way, are you going to Katya's birthday tomorrow?" Ask about this later.
   • If you end the conversation because you are meeting in person, just say, “I can't wait for us to continue this conversation live,” as you drive to her house.

Tips

• Girls love to hear and read sensual, romantic things. Guys usually freeze with excitement, as soon as they write what you want to do with them.
• Know who you are communicating with. You shouldn't send obscene text messages to a girl you just met or whose number you got last night.Not everyone likes obscene messages and no one likes vulgar text messages at the beginning of a relationship. Make sure the person you're talking to is comfortable with this type of communication and will not be shocked to receive an obscene message from you. It should be either your partner, or a rather liberated person.
• Choose the right time. Even if you know that the other person likes sexting, you should send such SMS when he is free. If this person is working or writing a checklist, he or she will not be able to reply to your messages. And if you want your messages to be drawn to a personal touch, make sure your partner has no plans for the next hour. It is best to send messages in the evening or at night, when the other person is alone, bored and thinking about you. Night is the sexiest time.
• It is difficult to understand the tone of the conversation in SMS messages, so try to laugh it off in any situation.
• To start a conversation about sex, turn your daily routine into something obscene. For example, write something like, "I'm licking a pink lollipop, what are you doing?"

Warnings

• Start small, take your time. You must first find out the mood of your partner.
• Remember that SMS can be saved and used for blackmail. Don't send obscene messages to people you don't really like - anyone can read them, you don't want to risk your reputation for no reason.
• Be careful: anyone can take possession of the phone, and that someone can send obscene messages to everyone in the notebook. So if the most handsome guy or girl is sending you SMS of a sexual nature, then this is most likely a joke.