Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 2: Starting a Conversation
• Part 2 of 2: Part 2: Good communication
• Tips

In recent years, text messaging has become a common way to develop friendships that can grow into something more. If you want to interest a girl, texting via SMS will be one of the easiest and surest ways. So relax, pick up your phone and show yourself in the best possible light.

Steps

Part 1 of 2: Starting a Conversation

1. 1 Ask the girl for a phone number. Correspondence is possible only if you know the girl's phone number. It can be difficult to ask a girl for a phone number, but try to do it in the most casual way. The usual phrase “Listen, I still don’t know your number. Shall we exchange contacts? " will fix most of the problems.
   • When learning a girl's phone number, avoid the following mistakes:
     
     • Don't take a friend's phone number. If she herself did not give you the number, then she does not want to be written to her. The girl will think that you are harassing her if you ask for a phone number without asking.
     • Ask for a number via messenger or internet. If you ask for a phone number in person, it will be difficult for the girl to refuse you. You have a 9 out of 10 chances, unless the girl is too serious. There is an option that she simply does not like you.
     • Make the problem out of the process itself. The less you think about it, the better it will go. If you are very worried about this, the girl may pull back a little.
2. 2 Introduce yourself in the first message if the girl doesn't have your number. If she gave you her number and assumes that you will write to her, start with these messages:
   • "Hi. This is George. We met yesterday. How are you?"
   • "Hi. This is Joy. Didn't mean to bother you. Did you see this video? I almost died a second ago ..."
   • Try to say something deliberate if you think you are not interested in the girl: "Who is that guy who was embarrassed and couldn't ask you for a number? It's me!"
3. 3 Send your girlfriend messages from time to time. Send messages gradually to see her reaction. There is no need to bombard a girl's phone with a thousand messages immediately after meeting. A few messages a day, followed by a one- or two-week break, will prove to the girl that you are not going crazy with her (this scares a lot of girls).
4. 4 Respond to received messages. Try to find evidence that you are doing the right thing. We all use sign language. Most likely you know this. But you may not have imagined that sign language is capable of being reflected in messages. If you do the right thing, you will find evidence like this:
   • Fast replies to your messages. Does the girl reply to your messages immediately after receiving them? If a girl ignores messages, most likely, she does it on purpose, so do not attach great importance to this fact.
   • Laughter and other designations for emotions. She always answers you with the words "ha-ha" or "laughing?" This is a good sign.Emoticons and other expressions for emotions are really good signs.
   • Flirting towards your person. You will recognize flirting at a glance. If a girl answers you something like: "Oh, I missed you so much," or "When I talk to you, the day goes by with a bang", it means that you are doing everything right. Good luck!
5. 5 Pay attention to words that indicate that the girl is not so interested in your communication. In addition to positive signals, there are also negative ones. Pay attention to negative signals as you start chatting.
   • The girl is not responding to one of your messages. She just ignores him. If you write something impolite or rude, never repeat this mistake. Try to give the girl more freedom.
   • The girl answers in a few words. If you sent a girl a couple of beautiful, well-written SMS, and she replies with a phrase "Yes it's good," , this means that she is not in the mood or does not find your correspondence interesting.
   • The girl never starts the correspondence first. If you always write first, and she's not even going to answer, most likely your business is bad!

Part 2 of 2: Part 2: Good communication

1. 1 Think about what you would like to write to the girl. You can start with general topics, and after a while move on to personal issues.
   • For example, at the initial stage, you can tell the girl about upcoming parties and events.
   • After that, you can write about what you are doing and what events you have attended.
   • At the end, send messages to tell the girl what you think of her and what you like about her. This can only be done if you are dating, and you are not afraid that the girl will be embarrassed.
2. 2 Try to bring humor to your correspondence. Fun themes will help make your chat easier. If you are a person with humor, use this fact to your advantage. If you are a serious person, try using jokes, playful teasing, or comments about funny situations you both find yourself in.
3. 3 Make sure you understand the meaning of the girl's words. Answer the questions in such a way as to show that you have read the message and understood what was described in general terms. The girl will love it.
   • Do not immediately respond to a message you receive. Wait two minutes before posting. Change tactics. Sometimes it’s worth waiting longer, sometimes less.
4. 4 Don't try to flirt with a girl all the time. You are greatly mistaken if you flirt with her for days on end. If you start flirting with a girl, do it from time to time. A little effort will pay off. Diversify your messages in the following ways:
   • Questions about the girl's daily life. "How are you?" "How was your day?" and “Have a great weekend?” are common phrases.
   • The problems that the girl has to face. Don't invade her life. Try to give advice only if the girl is willing to accept it.
   • Events from your life. Chances are, you pay a lot of attention to the girl, which is great. But she also wants to know what's going on in your life. Share information about your hobbies, events you saw, or events you attended. Do not rush and be distracted from the main thing.
5. 5 Make sure you gradually transition from messages to real life. If you are developing a relationship with a girl, do not hope that the correspondence will solve everything. Over time, you will have to go beyond texting and start dating a girl, calling her, and asking her out on dates. If a girl likes you, she looks forward to it.

Tips

• Be nice and polite towards the girl. Show that you care about her.
• Use emoticons to chat with a girl! If she uses them in her answers, chances are that the girl enjoys talking to you!
• You shouldn't send the same message twice if the girl doesn't reply to it the first time.