Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 3: How to Approach a Beautiful Girl
• Part 2 of 3: How to find common ground
• Part 3 of 3: How to ask a girl out on a date
• Tips
• Warnings

Flirting with a pretty girl can be both exciting and enjoyable at the same time. If you know the necessary techniques, then it will be easy for you to flirt with both a familiar girl and a stranger. Be confident, show your personality and ask her questions so that the girl of your dreams will agree to go on a date with you!

Steps

Part 1 of 3: How to Approach a Beautiful Girl

1. 1 Watch your posture and behave. confidently. Body language can tell a lot about a person, and girls immediately notice the excitement. Try to speak loudly enough to be clear and not look at the floor.
2. 2 Tidy yourself up to look your best. Before leaving the house or talking with a girl, you need to take a shower, brush your teeth, choose the right clothes and deodorant (or even cologne). A neat hairstyle, comfortable clothing, and a pleasant scent are important for your self-confidence.
   • Appearance is not the only determining factor, but such an effort is never redundant!
   • Confidence is not synonymous with bragging. Just walk up to the girl firmly and start a conversation to show your confidence.
   • If you are noticeably worried during a conversation, and your hands are sweating or shaking, then you should find an excuse to leave for a while, go to the restroom and pull yourself together.
3. 3 Introduce yourself with a smile on his face. When you approach a pretty girl, say hello and say your name. This action prompts the girl to introduce herself in return and keep the conversation going. Smile and maintain eye contact to show your girl your attention.
   • Saying your name is the easiest way to break the ice and start a conversation, even for a shy person.
   • For example, if you study at the same university, you might say, “Hi, I'm Oleg. I think we saw each other at lectures on economics. "
4. 4 Give a sincere compliment the quality of the girl you liked. After meeting, tell her why you decided to take such a step. Perhaps you liked the girl's hairstyle or her smile. The compliment should be sincere and positive.
   • For example, you might say, “You have incredibly beautiful hair, and brown matches brown eyes,” or, “You have a Nirvana shirt. This is my favorite band! "
   • If you are already a little familiar, then you can say: "Congratulations on the excellent grade for the exam in chemistry, it was very difficult!"
   SPECIALIST'S ADVICE

   

   John Keegan

   
   
   Dating Coach John Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker from New York City. Runs consulting firm The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his knowledge of dating, social dynamics and attraction mechanisms to help people find love. Teaches people and gives dating masterclasses all over the world, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in The New York Times, Humans of New York and Men’s Health.

   John Keegan
   Dating coach

   Your compliment may be based on observation. For example, pay attention to the girl's clothes... Perhaps her outfit matches the color of nail polish or makeup. Tell the girl that you liked this combination. This will be a great conversation starter.

Part 2 of 3: How to find common ground

1. 1 Ask interesting questions to find out about the girl's hobbies and preferences. If you are talking to a stranger, you probably want to get to know the girl better. Ask open-ended questions that cannot be answered “Yes” or “No” so that she can give detailed answers and tell about herself.
   • If you just met, then you can ask: "What interesting happened to you this week?" - or: "What are you hobbies about?"
   • If you know each other, then ask about topics that unite you like "What did you do this weekend?" - or: "How are you doing with your abstract on history?" The girl will be able to answer your question, and you will get the opportunity to keep the conversation going.
2. 2 Maintain eye contact and listen carefully when the girl addresses you. Mindfulness will confirm your interest and courtesy. Eye contact is the best way to show you are interested in a conversation. Also, remember to insert affirmative comments at appropriate times.
   • If you want to complement the conversation, then wait for a pause in the conversation and share your thought. Interrupting people is impolite!
   SPECIALIST'S ADVICE

   

   John Keegan

   
   
   Dating Coach John Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker from New York City. Runs consulting firm The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his knowledge of dating, social dynamics and attraction mechanisms to help people find love. Teaches people and gives dating masterclasses all over the world, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in The New York Times, Humans of New York and Men’s Health.

   John Keegan
   Dating coach

   Pay attention to the energy of the speech and the mood of the girl.... Perhaps she liked you, so pay attention to her actions and attitude towards you. Listen to the voice and follow the girl's movements.

3. 3 Tell a short, funny story. Girls like guys with a sense of humor who can make them laugh. Think of a recent funny incident in your life and tell the girl if it matches the topic of the conversation.
   • For example, if you are discussing difficult lessons in school, you might say, “Yesterday we got our French tests back, and I noticed that the teacher circled my name on the page. At first I was surprised, and then I discovered that I wrote my own name with a mistake! "
   • You do not need to remember random stories that are not relevant to the topic of the conversation, otherwise the girl will think that you have overdone it.
   • Do not drag out stories so that the girl does not get bored. Make sure she is interested. If she's bored, finish your story as soon as possible and change the subject.
4. 4 Find an excuse to touch the girl if she is comfortable with you. Many girls respond positively to small gestures when guys touch their hand, sit next to them, or straighten their hair. Find a reason to touch the girl so she can relax in your presence.
   • Try to take the girl's hand if you want to show her something, or sit at the same table with her so that your feet can touch.
   • Don't insist if the girl is uncomfortable and is trying to pull away.
5. 5 Remember the details of the conversations. Listen carefully to show your interest and courtesy. If the girl has told you that she is worried about the math exam, on the day of the exam, wish her luck to show your attention.
   • Many girls want to see this quality in their future boyfriend, so it will be easier for you to move from friendship to romantic relationship.
   • When you first meet, ask her about her favorite color, birthday, and favorite food. Remember these details as they will definitely come in handy in the future!
6. 6 Spend time alone if things are going well. Having a one-on-one conversation with a pretty girl can be thrilling, but it's the best way to get to know her better and understand how much you like her. Offer to do a literature assignment together or take her home after school. This will help her understand that you want to spend more time with her. In addition, you will be able to speak without strangers. Be careful, as many girls and women are uncomfortable when alone with a boyfriend or a man, as this situation can be dangerous. A girl may hesitate, even if you are well-meaning and not going to do anything without her consent. The best way to avoid this discomfort is to spend time in a crowded place. The presence of people will allow the girl to feel safe, but at the same time other people will not interfere with the conversation (depending on the place and situation).
   • Some girls behave differently in the presence of their girlfriends. Spend time alone to get to know the character of the girl better and understand how interesting she is to you.
7. 7 Tease the girl softlyif you communicate closely enough. Sometimes it's hard to go from friendship to romance with a girl you know well. If you have shared jokes or embarrassing stories or memories, remind the girl so she doesn't forget how close you are.
   • For example, you can say: "Wow, Zhenya, your shoes are almost as dazzling as your smile!"
   • If you know a girl well, try to avoid topics that make her uncomfortable. Taunts about appearance or intelligence are inappropriate in any case.
   • Do not tease unfamiliar girls, otherwise you may be considered rude. Each person has their own complexes and reasons for insecurity, which you may not know at the time of meeting.

Part 3 of 3: How to ask a girl out on a date

1. 1 Flirt in messages to start a conversation. If everything goes well, then you should find out the girl's phone number. Messages are a great way to start a conversation without having to worry about the presence of strangers. When you find out the girl's phone number, write her a message the next day with a comment on the topic of your previous conversation.
   • For example, you might say, “I listened to the group that you recommended to me yesterday. I love the first song on their new album, you have great taste! ”.
   • Try to reply to messages within 30 minutes if you are not too busy. A conversation can be frustrating if the other person rarely replies, especially when the message has already been read.
   • If the girl doesn't answer, then wait one or two days. Don't be reminded of the lack of response and try starting a new conversation. If there is still no answer, just accept the situation.
   • Do not post multiple messages in a row. Such activity can scare and overwhelm your interlocutor. Write the following messages after the girl replies.
2. 2 Go straight and invite date girlif everything goes well. Sometimes you need to act boldly if you like a girl. If the conversations go smoothly, and the girl is happy to meet and communicate, then you should invite her out on a date. She will appreciate your openness and directness, and you will immediately know how much your sympathy is mutual.
   • When asking a girl out on a date, consider her interests and think about things to do during the date. For example, you might say, “Let's go see the new James Bond movie this weekend? I remember that you like this episode! ".
   • In case of refusal, make the decision of the girl and do not impose.
3. 3 Behave with courtesy and courtesy. Open doors and hold her hand to show her your romantic interest and care. Demonstrating that you are going to be a good guy is very important to get a girl interested.
   • A kind attitude will show that you are a reliable person who is trustworthy. These are very attractive features. Plus, girls love to be treated well!
4. 4 Get ready to pay the bill when you ask a girl out on a date. Be prepared to pay the bill on first dates if the invitation comes from you, but don't get into a fight if she wants to pay the same amount. Surely the girl is trying to show that she is independent and can pay for herself. If you are interested in the girl, then be polite and offer to pay the bill yourself.
   • It's okay if you can't afford expensive dates. Just plan more affordable activities like a free exhibit or a romantic picnic in the park. Dating like this will show your interest and sympathy, but won't burden your wallet.
5. 5 Stay yourselfwhen trying to please a girl. The best way to get a girl interested is to show herself as a fun, interesting and kind person. Any girl will immediately recognize pretense and attempts to impersonate another. If she feels comfortable and trusts you, then the girl will enjoy spending time with you.
   • Don't hide the true purpose of your flirting. If the matter is not limited to one date, then it should be explained whether you are aiming for a serious relationship or do not want to commit yourself yet. Don't mislead the girl if your desires and goals diverge.

Tips

• Be prepared to accept rejection. Some girls don't want to get into relationships or meet new guys. Respect other people's boundaries and learn to accept rejection.
• Do not try to impress with behavior that is unusual for you. This approach usually doesn't work. Girls value confidence, not bragging.
• Don't lie to a girl about yourself. The lie will be revealed later, and you will not know how to behave.
• Don't try to be overly confident lest you come across as selfish or arrogant. Be yourself. This is a hackneyed piece of advice, but if you are shy, then it is better not to exaggerate the degree of feigned self-confidence, because unnatural behavior can be misinterpreted. In addition, some girls find shy guys cute.

Warnings

• No need to flirt with two or more girls at the same time.It's rude, and girls will start avoiding you if you have a reputation for being a womanizer.