How a girl should behave on a first date

Author: Helen Garcia
Date Of Creation: 21 April 2021
Update Date: 1 July 2024
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How Guys Should Act On A First Date Vs. How They Do Act
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There is no uniform age when girls start dating. Someone's first date happens at 10 years old, someone's at 16. Regardless of how old you are now, but if this is your first date, then you should know in advance what to say on the first date and what to do ... But above all, be yourself - the guy fell in love with you just the way you are.

Steps

  1. 1 Don't get ready in a hurry, or you will look like you just got out of bed. Take a shower and at least a day before the date decide on the outfit, hair and makeup.
  2. 2 As soon as you meet, say hello to him and smile. It will be a good sign for him, he will think "She is happy, so everything should be fine."
  3. 3 If it's going to be a group date, talk to everyone! Let the guy see that you are very sociable, and that you are not fixated exclusively on his person.
  4. 4 If this isn't a group date and you are alone, feel free to ask him questions. This will help you get to know him better. If you've known each other for a long time, so much the better. And if not, then you don't need to worry anyway. Imagine that he is your brother or the best friend you have known for many years.
  5. 5 If your first date is in a movie, try to cry if, for example, a scene of violence or murder is on the screen. If it's a romantic movie, then when the characters are kissing, lean against his shoulder and say, "This is so romantic!" or "This is so cute!" In general, you need to make the guy feel sorry for you. 86% of guys hug a girl in such cases. He may also kiss you on the head or pat your shoulder.
  6. 6 If on a first date a guy invited you to a cafe, ask him to make his choice first. In general, food is a good topic of conversation, it will be very easy for you to talk.
  7. 7 If you were the initiator of the date, then you should confidently say that you yourself will pay for the food. Most likely, he will offer to take over the costs. In any case, you will show that you are a strong personality, that you are a leader.
  8. 8 Say goodbye to the guy and wave your hand. If you still haven't exchanged phone numbers, do so now. You can also hug him and kiss him on the cheek (if, of course, you have the courage).
  9. 9 Don't be too approachable. It might scare the guy off.
  10. 10 If you take your girlfriends with you on a date, ask him to take one of his friends. Most likely, this idea will not be to his taste.
  11. 11 If you take friends of the opposite sex with you, he will definitely not like it. He may find you strange. In any case, don't pay too much attention to your friends, otherwise your boyfriend will get jealous of you and think that you are flirting with your friend.

Tips

  • Only kiss him on the lips if you really like him. A kiss on the cheek will be enough.
  • When you break up, say that you had a good time, that he is an interesting conversation partner, and that this was the best date of your life.
  • Don't be silly before your date! For example, you don't need to dye your hair or eat onions or garlic an hour before leaving the house.
  • Spend at least an hour getting ready for your date - whether you want to go on that date or not.
  • If it's a group date, don't flirt with other guys or your boyfriend will think, "What am I doing here?" or "She doesn't need a serious relationship at all!"
  • Clothing for a date should be ready at least 24 hours before the scheduled appointment. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror, ask your friend, older sister or mom for advice.
  • Try to get enough sleep before your date. Just don't forget to set your alarm!

Warnings

  • Don't kiss in a café; find a less crowded place to do so.
  • Do not tune in to the fact that a French kiss is waiting for you on the first date.
  • Don't kiss a guy harshly. This can scare him, and he can automatically push you away.