Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 2: Hugs
• Method 2 of 2: Kissing
• Tips
• Warnings

Kissing your boyfriend can be tricky, and if he wants to hug at the same time, it can be easy to get confused. If you are sitting next to him on the couch and he hugs you, what should you do? Read on to find out!

Steps

Method 1 of 2: Hugs

1. 1 Move closer to him. Don't sit on the other end of the couch if you don't want it to feel lonely. If the distance between you is like the shores of the Mississippi, you have a problem. Therefore, move closer to him so that your bodies are almost touching. If he puts his hand on the back of the couch, this is a clear invitation to sit down next to you.
   • If you're watching TV, the task becomes easier. You can surreptitiously move closer to him.
2. 2 Let him put his arm around you. As soon as you are under his arm, show him that you like his touch, move closer, rest your head on his chest or just below his neck. You can even look at him and smile, thereby showing how pleasant it is for you to hug him. Then he will know that he can boldly squeeze you in his arms.
   • You can also take his hand. By gently stroking his palm or fingers, you will give him the right signal.
3. 3 Cuddle while lying down. If you get bored of hugging while sitting and looking forward, you can try lying hugs. You can put your hands on the guy's shoulders and pull away from him slightly to let him know that you want him to lie down. Then you can sit under his arm, the back of his head to him, and he can hug you with both hands.
   • Alternatively, you can simply lie on his stomach, facing him - although this will immediately lead to a kiss. When you are this close to each other, it will be difficult to resist such a stolen kiss.
   • Your bodies don't have to be completely on top of each other. Even if you're lying on top of the guy, move your legs to the side.
4. 4 Hug while sitting. In this classic hug pose, you and your boyfriend have to sit down and hug each other. Face the guy, bend your legs and place them on his lap while his legs rest on the floor.
5. 5 Cuddle in the mother-bear pose. This is another classic hug pose. Curl up behind the guy and hug him. Both of you should be on your side.
6. 6 Cuddle in a daddy bear pose. This is the perfect hug position. Just lie on your side with the back of your head to the guy, while his chest will touch your back. Your bodies should be curved with the letter "C" in one direction, then your boyfriend can hug you. He can even put his chin on your shoulder, so your faces will be closer to each other.
7. 7 Avoid awkward positions. Perhaps you think that by hugging, you will become closer to each other, no matter what. While this is the case in most cases, there are several positions that are so uncomfortable that they can stall your moment of intimacy. Don't worry - these common mistakes are made by both hobbyists and hugging professionals. Knowing what to avoid will give you a head start. These poses are:
   • Numb hand.The numb arm is the most controversial of all hug positions. This happens when you are hugging, either lying or sitting, and your boyfriend's hand is squeezed under your back. From this, his blood circulation will be cut off very quickly - along with a romantic impulse.
   • Human knot. This happens when you are so intertwined with your boyfriend that you need to figure out for an hour where your left leg and his right arm are. If you can't get loose easily, you have a problem.
   • The famous face-to-face hugs. If you don't want to immediately jump into kissing, don't hug your boyfriend face to face.
   • Iron grip. Unless you want to literally take your breath away from the hug, don't let the guy squeeze you so tightly that it will be difficult for you to breathe. If this happens, just gently tell him to loosen his hug slightly.

Method 2 of 2: Kissing

1. 1 Look each other in the eye. Eye contact is the first step to a successful kiss. If you hugged enough or even did without hugs, and you just wanted to kiss, first of all look the guy in the eyes. This will let him know that you want to kiss and what you think of his lips. If you are facing each other and cuddling, it's time for a kiss.
   • You can gently lick your lips to soften them a little. This will draw attention to your mouth even more.
2. 2 Caress his face. Now move closer to the guy and put your hand on his cheek or face. Pull him close and keep looking him in the eye as you prepare to kiss.
3. 3 Kiss him passionately on the lips. Don't try to switch to French kissing right away. First, kiss him on the lips softly and passionately. Just lean over to him, put your lips to his for a second and pull back, looking into his eyes again.
4. 4 Move on to the French kiss. After soft and tender kisses, you can, if you like, move on to a French kiss. Slowly penetrate your boyfriend's mouth with your tongue while he does the same with his tongue. Then you can slowly rotate your tongue in his mouth, or gently move your tongue up and down, holding it on the guy's tongue.
5. 5 Kiss other parts of his face and neck. If you want to show your feelings, you can kiss his neck, ears or chin. This will change the rhythm of the kiss, and your boyfriend will want to kiss you even more.
6. 6 Keep hugging. The fact that you are kissing does not mean that your hands can now dangle around. In fact, the opposite is true. Keep your hands busy while kissing, from this you will feel even more close. You can temporarily interrupt the kiss for a hug. Here are some ways to keep touching your guy while you kiss:
   • Hug his neck
   • Play with his hair
   • Put your hands on his chest
   • Sit on his lap and put your hands on his shoulders
7. 7 Show him how much you enjoyed hugging and kissing him. When you're done hugging and kissing, give him a happy smile and a light kiss to let him know how happy he made you - and how you want to kiss him again. Pat him on the head, tell him that you like him, or do some little thing that will show him how happy you are. Feel free to show him your true feelings.

Tips

• Make sure your breath is fresh and that you smell good. Kisses and hugs are a very intimate moment between you, so don't spoil it with an unpleasant smell.
• Have a good time with him, make him feel like the most important person in the room or on the entire planet. Guys like it as much as girls :)
• Make sure your lips are soft and tender. Petroleum jelly or chapstick can come in handy.
• If with a kiss you don't know what to do next, let the guy lead and see where it takes you.
• Make sure you are as comfortable as possible.
• He can rub against you, touch you, but not intimate places - you have the right to say no.

Warnings

• If this is your first kiss, choose a secluded spot.
• If he pulls away, don't force him, he may not be ready. Not everyone is ready at the same time. Good luck!
• Relax and be yourself. Enjoy!