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Seduction is different to each person, so there are many ways to be charming. However, one thing that can make anyone more glamorous is confidence! Confidence includes your right body language, personal style, and how to express your personality.

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Method 1 of 3: Use body language

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   Make eye contact to show confidence. Eye contact shows you are confident, even if you are not. When you meet someone, make eye contact with them to confirm their presence. Similarly, when you talk, maintain eye contact.
   • Eye contact usually only takes place for a short moment, you can look into the person's eyes and look away. If you focus on their eyes for too long, it becomes glaring.
   • If it is difficult for you to make eye contact, practice. Start by making eye contact with yourself in the mirror, then with the person you care about. Gradually you will get better at making eye contact.

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   Slow down and emphasize body movement. When you move slowly, you will look more eye-catching and attractive. Slow down, hand gestures and other body languages. Make it look like you have plenty of time to spend in this life and enjoy being yourself.
   • For example, if you walk slowly but don't forget to press a little wobbly or exaggeratedly.
   • There will be times when you have urgent work to go faster, and that's okay. You don't have to be attractive all the time.

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   Gently touch others to establish a connection with them. When you are talking to someone, gently touch their shoulder or arm to show that you are focusing on them. This makes the other person feel like you're genuinely interested in them, making you more attractive.
   • Only do this when you're sure your partner likes touch. For example, touching your friend or lover is fine, but if it's a colleague it's not great.

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   Reveal wrists as they emit pheromones. Your wrists have glands that secrete chemicals called pheromones. Pheromones attract others to you, are more interested in you. So if you want to be more attractive, avoid wearing long sleeves or wearing jewelry that covers your wrists.
   • For example, you could wear a jacket or sweater with half your arm length so that your wrists are exposed.
   • If you spray perfume on your wrists, the scent will stand out because the wrists are the pulse point. However, this drowns out your natural pheromone scent.

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   Smiles pull people closer to you. When you smile, your face will light up and make you look more friendly and approachable. Plus, you can smile in different ways to make yourself more attractive. For example, a sly smirking way that makes you look mysterious, half-smile flirting, and smiling open-mouthed spread joy, laughing and biting your lips, then inviting.
   • Practice smiling in front of the mirror for better control, so that when you meet someone you can have a perfect smile.

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   Wink to look a little push. Giving another person a wink can draw their attention to you and show a bold, confident self. At the same time it was a way to get yourself pushed forward without saying a word. Winking makes you sexy and more attractive.
   • For example, you can wink at your crush when passing by.

Method 2 of 3: Style yourself

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   Keep yourself clean every day. People will find you more attractive if you are clean and fragrant. Keep yourself tidy by taking a shower every day. Use soaps and personal care products like deodorant sprays to keep your body fragrant.
   • Wash and rinse hair at least 2-4 times a week. If your hair is really dirty, use a dry shampoo between washings and water.

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   Skin and nail care. Apply moisturizer to your face every morning and night to nourish your skin and use your body lotion every day to feel soft and elastic. Also, be sure to trim and file your nails every week or 2 to keep them looking good.
   • It's up to you whether you want to remove facial and body hair. You may want to shave your legs and armpits, or want to let them grow. You can also decide to shave your mustache or let facial hair grow naturally. You are most attractive when you are yourself.
   • Nail polish is sexy, but not necessary. You can either paint the nail or skip it.

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   Show your best. It doesn't matter if your body is perfect, because everyone is like you. That doesn't mean you're not glamorous! To build an attractive look, see what is the best spot on the body. Then, choose clothes or make-up to showcase that trait.
   • For example, the best parts of your body are your eyes and your legs. You can use mascara, eyeshadow to accentuate your eyes, and clothes that accentuate your legs.

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   Choose a hairstyle embellish your face and show your own style. The feeling the hair gives you is more important than the hairstyle you choose. Choose a hairstyle that makes you confident. Choose a style that suits your face and reveals your taste.
   • Any hairstyle can be attractive, so don't think about yourself having to choose certain styles. For example, one-sided shaved hair is also attractive for all genders if you're confident in it.

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   Build a wardrobe makes you look more gorgeous. You don't have to be expensive to be beautiful. Try out everything you have in your closet and remove the ones that don't make you happy. Making sure what you hold will increase your confidence. When buying new clothes, only buy those that make you more attractive.
   • Don't worry about the meaning of "charm". Seduction is dependent on your confidence, and dressing that makes yourself prettier can also convey a sense of confidence.

   The secret: If you wear glasses, choose a frame that matches your clothes and the shape of your face. Be bold in your choice as it shows your confidence.

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   If used, choose a signature fragrance. You don't need perfume to be glamorous, but spraying with a little of your favorite scent can make an impression in other people's memories. This makes you more nostalgic and more attractive. Choose a smell that attracts and matches your personality. Then use it every day so people can relate the scent to you.
   • Spray perfume on neck or wrists, aromatherapy locations.
   • Just spray a little perfume on your body, about 1-2 sprays. If you are too passionate, it will make the people around you lose emotions.

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   Wear red to attract all eyes. Red makes people unconsciously more attractive to you, so it's an easy way to be sexy. Wear a dress, dress, shirt or red pants to attract all eyes. Or you can add red accessories, for example scarves.
   • Use red when you want to impress people. For example, you could wear a red dress or a red blazer when you go to class.

Method 3 of 3: Express your personality

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   Fill your life with the things you love to be happy every day. Joy draws people closer to you, making you look attractive. The best way to be happy is to do fun things, so collect the things you love in life. Try to do at least one interesting thing each day to develop a happy manner.
   • For example, invite a friend to go bowling, host a board game, go get a manicure, meet friends at a coffee, or take a drawing class.
   • Have fun whether alone or with everyone.

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   Try new things because they excite you. Don't be afraid to step outside the safe range because courage is also very charming. Challenge yourself to new things, like eating at a different restaurant or going hiking. This makes people around you feel confident and passionate, and attractive human traits.
   • On New Year's Day, make a list of the new things you want to try. Then check the list every 1-2 months.
   • When someone recommends a new activity, be the first to volunteer to try it.

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   Be kind because it draws people closer to you. It sounds simple enough, but being kind to humans takes a long way. That makes people find you attractive, leading to a sense of charm. Always treat people well and if there's something cool to say, compliment them.
   • Try to give praise at least once a day. You could say, "You look great in this color", or "Your presentation was brilliant".

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   Show intelligence. While you think sensual is about appearance, mindfulness and intelligence are also considered sensual. Develop your mind by constantly learning new things. Then, show off what you know by participating in topics that interest you and sharing your skills with others.
   • You can learn more by reading, keeping up with the news, watching documentaries, or taking classes for fun.
   • Once you have the knowledge, the conversation becomes easier because you have a lot to say.

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   Develop a sense of humor. The ability to share and understand funny things makes you more attractive. To develop a sense of comedy, watch comedy, monologue comedy show to understand the mechanism of jokes. Then practice by telling jokes or making jokes with close friends and family members.
   • When the other person jokes, laugh along to show that you are also funny.

   The secret: Taking jokes classes or improvisation classes will also help you become more interesting in everyday life.

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   Bring in a positive attitude to spread positive air. A positive attitude makes you more attractive in the eyes of others. To make yourself more positive, keep a gratitude diary to keep a record of the wonderful things in life. In addition, use positive affirmations like "Today is a fine day" and "I'm doing well" to keep yourself excited.
   • Start keeping a gratitude journal by writing down three to five things you would like to be thankful for during the day. You can write “Family dinner”, “Get a job”, and “Sunshine”. Then add 3-5 new things per day. When you feel tired, read the diary again.
   • Everyone has a hard time, so don't try to be happy all the time.

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   Be with friends to make yourself look more attractive. Becoming part of a certain group makes you seem more sociable, thereby more attractive to others. When you go out, bring in friends or family to become a part of the group.
   • Try gossiping with people you meet. You can say something like "Your first time here?", "Do you recommend something delicious on this menu?", Or "Are you looking for a Ma Wolf play group?"

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   Unfollow social media accounts that annoy you. Since glamor is in your confidence, it's best to avoid things that interfere with your self-esteem. Social media sites that post unreal standards about perfect body will make you feel bad about yourself. To prevent this, click unfollow all accounts dragging you down. Instead, stay tuned to inspirational and energizing sites.
   • It's normal to change what you don't like about yourself. That's how we grow. However, your inspiration for change should be positive, not out of self-doubt.