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If you are meeting a guy and the two of you get closer and closer, you will probably wonder how he feels about you. Luckily, no matter if you are in a crush or hope to continue a friendship with him, you can still find out through the cues. Pay attention to his body language and how he behaves around you, along with the improvement in your relationship. You can also ask someone else's opinion - but if that doesn't work, it's best to ask him directly!

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Observe the guy's body language and behavior

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   Notice if he makes eye contact with you while you are nearby? If you catch him looking into your eyes, return your gaze with a smile and keep your gaze fixed for a few seconds. If he doesn't look away, he may be keeping an eye on you, especially if he smiles too.
   • Note, maybe he looks at you because he recognizes your presence or he has a habit of making eye contact.
   • On the other hand, some guys often become shy when they have feelings for someone; So the guy who likes you may not be able to look at you often.

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   Notice if he smiles a lot when he meets you. When you like someone, you will definitely want to smile when you are with them. If he usually smiles brightly when he meets you, he probably already has a crush on you!
   • However, he can also smile because you two are friends, so don't jump to conclusions.

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   Watch to see if he is imitating your movements. When you talk to him or go out with a group of friends, maybe every time you touch your face or hair, he does the same thing. Unconsciously mimicking someone else's gestures is a sign that you've grabbed their attention; maybe he "fell" because of you.
   • If you want to find an answer this way, you can try a little gesture like lifting your hair from your forehead or adjusting the hem of your shirt, then notice if he is imitating you.

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   See if his body and feet are facing you. We often unconsciously lean over the person we like and keep distance from the person we don't like. When you talk to him, notice if he turns towards you or to the other direction.
   • You can also see if his feet are facing you; This is another sign that he cares about you.

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   Do you find him nervous or confused around you? Sometimes men become timid in front of the person they like. If you see him blushing, stuttering, or being quiet when you approach him, he may have “crushed” you or he is naturally shy.
   • If you see this in him and you have feelings for him too, smile gently or gently touch his hand to "turn on the green light". As such, he will feel more comfortable.

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   Notice if he tries to touch you. If he's always ready for a hug, often touching your arm or shoulder, or trying to be closer to you, it shows that he already has feelings for you. However, it may also be a habit of him, so be aware of how he treats others. If he just wants to be intimate with you, he probably already has a crush.
   • If he makes you uncomfortable by touching or getting too close, ask him to stop and take the initiative to keep his distance. Don't worry about hurting the other person's feelings. If the person is upright, he will apologize and avoid repeating the action. On the contrary, you should definitely stay away from him.
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Method 2 of 3: Get to know him

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   See if he's always willing to hang out with you? If he is often there when you need it and isn't afraid to spend time with you, he may have a crush on you. Think again if he's willing to cancel plans with friends when you need it, or is he trying to make time with you, even when it's inconvenient?
   • This could also be a sign that the person is a very nice friend. Either way, if you like him, enjoy your time together! Gradually he will develop feelings for you.

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   Check if he follows you on social media. If you find that he's constantly liking his posts or following you on multiple social media platforms, it means he cares and wants to know more about you! Of course, if he's an active social media person, this doesn't make any sense; however, if he doesn't use social media very often, this is a good sign that he is keeping an eye on you.
   • Don't over-analyze his social media habits. You can take a liking of him on Instagram as a sign that he is your soul mate, but you will confuse yourself if you depend too much on this factor.
   • If he regularly texts you online but doesn't talk much when he sees it, he might be shy and want to learn more about you, or he has the courage to open up a date.

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   Did he text you without reason? If he's texting for no reason, that's a sure sign that you're on his mind - and he may have a crush on you. He can also use excuses to text you, like asking about an essay he seems to have understood in class.
   • Try not to text him too often. This way, he will have a chance to text you first.
   • If you and the guy are good friends, he simply wants to talk. Remember that you are collecting clues regarding a love affair.

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   Notice if he becomes more open to you. As you get to know him more, he may begin to reveal personal stories related to his life and past. If your ex is comfortable talking to you about confidential things, this is a positive sign that he feels close to you and that he also has a deep affection for you.
   • For example, he will not hesitate to share problems with his parents or siblings, or reveal problems in his previous relationship.

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   Did he give you gifts and help? Men often express emotions through actions rather than words. If he gives you a small gift for no reason or tries to help you, this may be a sign that he wants to be more intimate with you.
   • For example, if you say cold and he gives you your jacket, it might seem like he's being polite, but maybe he wants to protect you because he cares about you.

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   Notice if he teases or compliments you. Men often make fun of their crushes lightly, but they will also praise them. However, some have a hobby of making fun of their friends, while others are generous with compliments; Therefore, you need to pay attention to how he treats others to compare with how he behaves when he meets you. If he just does that to you, this is a good sign.
   • For example, you dress well at work and he will say, "You are very beautiful today." On the other hand, he might also tease "Oh, are you preparing to be promoted?".

   Warning: If the way he jokes makes you laugh or blush, it's a lovely gesture. However, it is not okay if he lowers you or makes you feel bad about yourself. In this case, he isn't the type of guy you should fall in love with.

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Method 3 of 3: Find the correct answer

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   Ask your friends what he said when you're not around. If your friends know him, you can try asking them to find out how he feels about you. For example, ask them to remind you when you're not around and see what he says.
   • For example, your friend would say “I feel Mai is very pretty today. And how do you feel? "
   • If he takes the opportunity to talk about you, he may have a crush on you. On the contrary, if he doesn't say anything or just say something unkind, you'll know that there's nothing special between the two of you.

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   Try asking his friends if you're not ready to ask him. If you really want to know what he thinks but don't have the courage to ask, try asking his best friend. They'll tell him this of course, but here's how to help you partially answer your question.
   • You can say “Hey Son, I'm thinking if Nam likes me or not. We went out many times, but I hesitate to ask him straight ”.

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   Ask him directly if you want the exact answer. Maybe he will tell you the truth if you ask directly. However, you should do this when there are only two people; because if he feels like being the focus of many people, he gets embarrassed and refuses to answer.
   • If you are going out with a group of friends, you can say "Can you go buy some water with me?". When no one else is around you will say “Lately I wonder what we are each other. Do you like me more than friends? "

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   Find out indirectly by expressing your feelings. If you are ready to know how he feels but don't want to ask him in person, choose a time when it's just the two of you and tell him how you feel about him. When you say you like him, he may express the same feelings or vice versa.
   • If you want to be pure, try saying “Man, I just want to say… We went out many times and you are a great friend. But some of my friends think I'm in love with you, and I don't know how you feel. I just wanted to let you know. ”
   • If you like him, you can say, "I don't know how you feel, but I already like you more than friends."

   Advice: As for a man, if you are not sure if he or she likes homosexuals, you first need to quietly find out if he is gay.

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   Write down a note or send a text if you feel embarrassed. Sometimes talking to someone face to face can be intimidating. If you don't have the courage to ask him, try writing or texting. That way, you can confess everything you want to say and he also has time to reflect before answering.
   • Just put it short but sweet, like "I like you and I want to know if you like me?".
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Advice

• Note, although you may perceive someone's feelings through signs, the only surefire way is to ask the person; So don't be obsessed with the little things!