Content

• Steps
• Advice
• Attention
• What you need

Texting is the fastest and easiest way to get started talking to someone you like. Texting is simpler and less stressful than talking in person or talking on the phone, even making calls all the time makes you feel like you're in control. Take a breath, gather your courage, and take out your phone to get started.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Start a conversation

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   Ask for phone number. The most appropriate time is during the climax of the conversation. Gently suggest and make it natural.
   • Use simple words, "What phone do you use? I just bought a new one. Or let's exchange phone numbers!"
   • The moment right after retrieving a person's phone number will be a bit confusing. Make sure you don't miss a beat by keeping the conversation going so that getting the number is as natural as possible.

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   Plan!
   • Plan what to say or what information you want to get at the end of a conversation before texting.

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   Start texting. "What are you doing?" or "What are you going to do?" are good questions to start a conversation with.
   • If your partner says they're watching TV, listening to music, or playing a game, keep asking more about what they're doing. Regardless of the response, always be ready to ask questions to keep the pulse of the conversation.
   • If the person replies with a closed answer, "I'm doing my homework.", To continue your story you can leave a message: "The submission deadline is still long. I must take a century to finish it. That pile of songs! " Or if the other party doesn't go to the same school as you: "Oh really? Is there a lot of homework?"
   • Tell him what you are doing. When your partner tells you what they're doing, send in a reply like, "How fun! I'm just surfing Facebook all day." Or whatever you are doing at the time.

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   Pay attention to the person's reactions. Look for responses to see if the other person likes texting, has the conversation been enough, and if you're ready to take a step further to schedule them out.
   • If the reply is short, you should end the conversation with "Let's talk to it later" or "Let's talk later" (Combine with a cute emoji). The person may be busy or in a bad mood. Don't try to cling to the conversation when you can't, as it will make you very annoying and less attractive.
   • If the reply was a question like "What are you doing?" means they want to keep talking. Let the flow of talk naturally and always let the other party finish first. Be aggressive in answers and always follow the content.
   • Find an opportunity to take a step further in your relationship. If the density of messages increases and mentions private matters or the other person begins to talk to you about your troubles, you can take the initiative: "Let's talk directly, so it's easy to share. than."
   • Brave. When the opportunity is ripe, make an appointment with the other party. Maybe you will be rejected, but do not be discouraged as there are many opportunities.
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Part 2 of 3: Other ways to start

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   Message the other person: "How was school today?" If they answer questions like: "Okay" or "As always," then you can keep asking about your homework, about your lab session, your report or your upcoming test. .

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   Use holidays and anniversaries as an excuse to start a conversation.
   • Text your partner right before their Christmas or birthday and ask about your plans to celebrate the special day.
   • If you text after a holiday, use the holiday as the subject: "Happy birthday, South? Where are you going?"
   • Learn about holidays you don't know. For example, if your partner is vegetarian on the full moon day and you don't, ask them about it.
   • Text your crush on Tet holidays and ask about your preparations, then tell them your story.

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   Ask about the family of the person you like. They may complain about their siblings or talk about their brother who just started college. If you also have a sibling, respond sympathetically: "Me too, my sister is very stubborn." You can also ask about parents, even their pets.

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   Talk about the person's interests.
   • If your opponent plays sports, ask about recent matches.
   • If he has hobbies like listening to music, watching movies or joining a few clubs, asking about his favorite songs, movies and some club activities.
   • If the person recently entered a contest and won, text them to congratulate them.

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   Text sympathetic messages. When the other person has a bad score or has a bad situation, condemn and encourage them: "Work hard, then everything will be fine! If you need help don't hesitate to tell me!" advertisement

Part 3 of 3: Rules to remember

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   Response time. You have a lot of characters to text a good message. It is not necessary to respond immediately. Receive the message for a while and think before replying.

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   Telephone fee. Or you have an unlimited texting plan, otherwise use the characters appropriately. You don't want your parents to frown when the phone bill arrives.

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   Avoid abbreviations. Abbreviations make you insensitive and unreliable. Abbreviations should only be used when texting close friends, while for "that person" should write complete sentences and capitalize.

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   Be careful when using emoticons. Use smiley or cry emoticons, use flirting symbols only when you are sure of the person's feelings for you. Make sure 99% of the other person likes you before using love symbols.

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   Allow the other person to actively text a few times. Don't text them too often. Once or twice a week is enough, otherwise you will become a stalker. advertisement

Advice

• Always end with a question or easy answer if you want the person to respond to your message.
• If the other person is not actively texting, it could be because they don't feel the way you talk. Stay calm and learn their interests.
• Make use of a sense of humor (if any) thoroughly. People tend to like people who make them laugh.
• Always start with an open-ended question. Have to make the other person feel comfortable before addressing personal matters.
• Keep the conversation comfortable. Never give statements like "I love you" through text.
• Always be yourself, don't let others influence you.
• Don't send the message too long, keep it short.
• Don't text while you're with your friends or let them keep your phone. They can complicate the story.
• Don't text too much or he'll think you're annoying.
• Don't get too flustered, girls don't like it.

Attention

• Do not text while using drugs or alcohol. You will probably send you regretful messages later.
• Think carefully before texting. Your partner may run away if you get too stressed out the first time you text. Do not send offensive images to the other person or use vulgar words. Most importantly, don't do things that make yourself uncomfortable.

What you need

• Mobile phone
• Phone account is enough to use