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• Method 1 of 2: Hugging
• Method 2 of 2: Kiss your friend
• Tips
• Warnings

It can be difficult to kiss your boyfriend, and if you want to cuddle at the same time, the situation can get even more complicated. What should you do if you are sitting on the couch next to your boyfriend and he puts his arm around you? Read on to find out the answer.

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Method 1 of 2: Hugging

1. Sit close to him. If you're both on the couch, don't sit far from him unless you want him to feel lonely. If the river Maas could flow smoothly between you, so to speak, you have a problem. So sit close to him but without touching him. If his arm is on top of the handrail, this is a sign that he would like you to sit against him so that he can lower his arm over your shoulder.
   • If you are watching TV, this makes cuddling a bit easier. That way it is not so noticeable that you are getting closer to him.
2. Have him put his arm over your shoulder. When he has done this you must make it clear to him that you like this, you can do this by placing your head against his neck, or on his chest. You can also look at him and smile so he knows that you like cuddling too. At that moment he knows he can always put his arm around you.
   • You can also take his hand and signal him by stroking his fingers and hand with your fingers.
3. If you are bored, you can also cuddle while both of you are looking forward. You then put your arms around his shoulders until you are both lying down. Once you are lying down, lie against him without looking at him.
   • You can also lie with the back of your head on his stomach. This will give you a kiss anyway. If the two of you are that close together, he will want to kiss you at least briefly.
   • Your bodies don't have to be completely on top of each other, when you lie on top of him you have to let your legs hang to the side.
4. You can also sit on top of each other, as it were. You do this by sitting on your boyfriend with heads to each other and arms around each other. You wrap your legs around them while he leaves his legs on the floor.
5. The mother bear. This is also called spooning. Lie behind your friend with your arms around him while both of you are on your sides.
6. The father bear. Lie on your side and let your friend lie behind you. In this way, his chest comes against your back with his arms around your body. Your bodies together form a C while looking the same way. He can also rest his chin on your shoulders so that your faces come even closer.
7. Avoid bad hugging positions. You may think that cuddling always brings you closer together, but it doesn't! Some positions are so uncomfortable that you spontaneously feel like each other. Don't worry though, all beginnings are difficult and even advanced huggers make mistakes. However, if you know which positions to avoid, you have a better chance of success. In any case, avoid these positions:
   • The dead arm. The dead arm is the most unwanted hugging position. The dead arm can sometimes occur while cuddling while sitting or lying down if your friend's arm ends up under your body. This causes a pinched blood circulation and ensures that he no longer has such a sense.
   • The human bun. It can happen that you are hugging so intensely that it almost seems like you are playing a game of Twister. If you no longer know which body part belongs to whom, you have a problem.
   • If you do not dare to kiss yet, you should avoid positions where your faces are already touching each other during a hug.
   • Squeezing too hard. If you want to prevent your boyfriend from literally leaving you breathless, you should indicate when he is taking the air out of your body during a hug.

Method 2 of 2: Kiss your friend

1. Look at each other closely. Eye contact is the first step to a successful kiss. So if you've been cuddling for a while, or even if you haven't and you just feel like kissing, take a good look at each other first. By looking closely in your eyes, your friend can tell if you want him to kiss you or not. If you look at each other closely and you have your arms around each other you can start kissing.
   • You can lick your lips briefly beforehand so that they are a bit softer when you kiss. Try to do this inconspicuously so that you don't draw attention to the fact that you have dry lips.
2. Caress his face. Move closer to your friend and put your hand on his cheek or face.Pull him towards you and keep looking at him as you prepare for the kiss.
3. Give it now a kiss full of passion. You don't have to French kiss him right away, start with a soft, passionate kiss. Lean over to kiss him and pause the kiss in between. Then lean back slightly while you keep looking at him.
4. French kiss. If you've mastered the normal kiss, or if you want to try something new, try French kissing. Slowly move your tongue into your friend's mouth while he does the same to you. You can move your tongue in circles or move your tongue up and down. You can also rest your tongue on his as he moves in your mouth.
5. Also kiss other parts of his face and neck. If you want to show affection, you can kiss his neck, ears, or even his jaw. This will provide some variety and make him want to kiss you even more.
6. Keep cuddling. If you kiss it does not mean that you can no longer cuddle, on the contrary! You should try to use your hands while kissing. You can also take an occasional break and cuddle in between kisses. Here are some ways to touch your friend while cuddling:
   • Put your arms around his neck.
   • Play with his hair.
   • Put your hands on his chest.
   • Sit on his lap and put your hands on his shoulders.
7. Show him that you enjoy kissing and cuddling. When you're done, smile and give him a short kiss to show him how happy he makes you. Stroke his hair, tell him you like him, or do a little something that he can tell makes you happy. Don't be ashamed and express your feelings.

Tips

• Of course, your breath should smell good when you kiss someone, bad breath will ruin the mood, so make sure your breath doesn't stink.
• First, do something fun together so that both of you are relaxed. Make him feel important, men love this just like women.
• Make sure you both feel good.
• He can touch you but not everywhere, if you don't want something you have to make that clear.
• Make sure your lips are soft, if not naturally you can use petroleum jelly or lip balm.
• If you don't know what to do, just follow his lead.

Warnings

• If you've never kissed before, you should do this in a private place for the first time.
• If he seems to be leaving you, don't force him to kiss. He may not be ready for this yet.
• Relax and make sure you have a good time together. Just be yourself and you'll be fine.