Apologize to someone with Leo zodiac sign

Author: Frank Hunt
Date Of Creation: 14 March 2021
Update Date: 1 July 2024
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Apologize to a Leo
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Lions, according to astrology, are those born between July 23 and August 22. They are generally passionate, outgoing and full of life, which are all great traits. However, they can also be aggressive and dominant. If you have to apologize to a Leo, you have to go about it in a very special way because they get angry easily. Fortunately, they also forgive quickly, if you manage to approach the situation carefully.

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Method 1 of 3: Calming a fiery temper

  1. Give them a chance to cool down. The Leo sign is associated with the element of fire. That's why Leos tend to be cheerful and short-tempered. If you've upset a Leo so much that you have to apologize to him (or her), let him cool down first. A Leo's fiery temperament makes it very difficult to approach him immediately after getting angry. As soon as a Leo calms down a bit, he thinks more clearly and logically.
    • If you try too quickly to act rationally, a Leo will likely lash out.
    • After an incident, give a Leo at least 20 minutes before approaching him to apologize. You will be able to have a logical conversation with him by then.
  2. Let him or her take off. Once a Leo has cooled down, he should vent a bit. It may be unpleasant to let that happen to you, but just let it happen. In doing so, he will burn away some of his initial anger and thus reduce much of his frustration. After expressing his frustration, a Leo will become more receptive to rational thinking.
    • Never interrupt a Leo while he is abreacting.
    • Let him be the center of attention and say what he wants to say.
  3. Make empathetic comments. These comments should be worded in such a way that they do not stir up anger. Instead, they convey what an angry person is saying to you in a non-threatening way. During the release process, begin making empathetic comments to calm the person. At some point, this will diminish and eventually stop when the person is out of energy. These comments usually start with, "So you ..."
    • Example: A Leo might say, "I was trying to get your attention because I needed your help upstairs. But you just sat there calling someone. "
    • You should answer, "So you felt I was ignoring you when you needed help."
    • Example: A Leo might say, "I wouldn't have interrupted your phone call unless it was important." I expected you to pay attention and come and help me. "
    • You should reply, "So you felt the interruption was necessary and I should have acknowledged it."
  4. Explain how much you appreciate him. Lions are very independent but have a deep need for the love and admiration of others. Their fiery temperament is the source of many good traits, but they tend to act a bit like a spoiled child when offended. What they need most in order to forgive you is the reassurance that you love and appreciate them.
    • Lions don't like to be ignored. Intervene as soon as possible after the first cooling down.
    • Once you've cut off the worst of the situation, do your very best to convince him or her of your appreciation and affection.

Method 2 of 3: Appeal to their inner lion

  1. Treat them like royalty. Symbolically, the Leo sign is associated with the lion. Like the lion, they feel like kings or queens of their domain. A Leo will respond positively if you treat him with loyalty and adoration. Along with your apologies, pay attention to and spoil him.
    • Lions don't like to be unhappy, and they are quick to forgive when the apology is done right.
    • Offering a small thoughtful gift along with your apology can also be effective.
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    Compliment. Lions like to be inundated with attention, which can make an apology more effective when accompanied by a few heartfelt compliments. Leos love the attention and they don't get enough of hearing good things about themselves. It may feel a little over the top or strange to add praise to an excuse, but give it a try.

    • Example: "I really look up to you because of how hard you work. I'm really sorry I didn't finish my part of the project, and I understand why it might upset you. "
    • Example: "I know how much you value friendship - it's one of my favorite things about you. Everyone would be upset if their best friend forgot his birthday, but I know it's very hurtful to you and I'm very sorry. "
  2. Let them be the center of attention. Lions have a flair for the dramatic and they want to be the center of attention. If you've upset a Leo, be prepared to give him your full attention. Allow him to fully explain his thoughts and feelings about the matter. Don't interrupt him. If it closes at the beginning, encourage it to open up. It will hardly cost you any effort.
    • Example: "I know I made you angry and I'm very sorry. Can you tell me how you feel about this situation? "
    • Example: "Please tell me exactly what you think and feel - I know I have offended you, and I want to make sure I never make this mistake again."
  3. Be sincere. If a Leo feels hurt, he'll make sure you know. It is best to take him aside for a serious and personal conversation. Explain that you are genuinely sorry and that you will be more careful with his feelings. Look him straight in the eye during the apology. Speak in a serious tone. Leave your cell phone and other distractions aside, as a Leo always wants your full attention.
    • Show respect, love, and kindness - you'll find that a Leo will get over a situation pretty quickly if you do.
    • Lions are loyal to their friends. In general, they are very forgiving and usually don't hold a grudge.

Method 3 of 3: Stroking his ego

  1. Flatter him. Lions tend to be self-centered and a bit arrogant. Praise and flattery will appeal to his ego. He should feel equally respected and adored. Shower him with flattering comments that focus on his best qualities. It may feel a little over the top, but a Leo will love it every second.
    • Example: "The presentation you gave at the meeting today was absolutely fantastic. You are always so prepared and you make it look so easy! I'm really sorry that I was late. "
    • Example: "You are one of the most punctual people I know and I know how important it is for you to be on time. I'm sorry I told you the wrong time and let you be late. "
  2. Apologize. You have to convince a Leo that you are really sorry. Apologize multiple times and in different ways and be sincere. Once a Leo sees that you are seriously trying to win back his friendship, he will quickly forgive and will not go back to that.
    • Lions don't dwell on the past, so once your excuses are accepted, don't do that yourself.
  3. Give him an expensive gift. Lions are known for being generous publishers and they enjoy the finer things in life. If you're giving a Leo a gift, make sure it reflects his personality and appeals to his dramatic side. They love fine art and jewelry. Eye-catching clothing in vibrant colors also gets a good response from a Leo. Look for something sophisticated and stylish that suits his lifestyle. Eating in a luxury restaurant is another idea that a Leo will love.
    • You don't have to empty your bank account if you have a limited budget. Make sure your gift shows a deep appreciation for who it is and what it likes.
    • A Leo will appreciate the extravagant gesture and take it as a sign that you care about him.
  4. Don't criticize. Lions are super independent and they don't handle criticism well. If you want to apologize to a Leo, adding criticism to the conversation will likely result in failure. If you do have a criticism, save it for another conversation.
    • It's not about never being able to express your honest thoughts about a Leo, but good timing is important.
    • Don't expect to be able to make amends with a Leo if you come up with criticism after an apology.