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• Part 1 of 3: Reading her body language and communication signals
• Part 2 of 3: Talking to her loved ones
• Part 3 of 3: Talk to the girl one on one

Does your loved one or good girlfriend behave differently than usual in your neighborhood? Do you get the cold shoulder or a subtle negative message that makes you uncomfortable? It is better to try to find out if something is going on or if you are exaggerating, rather than ignore it. You can do this by reading her body language and her communication signals. You can also contact her loved ones to find out if she is upset and talk to her one on one.

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Part 1 of 3: Reading her body language and communication signals

1. Note if they are closed body language has. Not all people verbally express anger, so take a look at how she feels. Obvious signs of anger include shaking, sweating, and a red or flushed face. However, not all signs are equally clear, so consider the following as well:
   • A tense jaw or clenched fist
   • Avoid eye contact
   • Turning away from you
   • Cross arms across her chest
   • Frowning, rolling eyes, or otherwise cold expressions
2. Listen for the tone of her voice when she's talking to you. If she uses a snide or tense tone, she probably isn't impressed with you. She may even use a sarcastic tone, mock you or make fun of you when you are mentioned in a conversation or when you try to talk to her. Other signs to watch out for include:
   • Shout
   • Call
   • Raise her voice
   • Lashing out at you
3. See if she's not answering your calls or texts. The girl can express her anger by dropping her communication with you through phone calls or text messages. She can ignore your calls and voicemails and not respond to your messages. You may be sending messages to her and not getting your usual quick reply or no reply at all.
   • When she's texting you, look for passive-aggressive anger, such as short or sarcastic responses like "what do you think is there" when you ask her "what's going on?"
   • If she suddenly uses dots at the end of her text messages, it could be a sign of anger or aggression.

Part 2 of 3: Talking to her loved ones

1. Ask her close friends if she's upset. If the girl has lost communication with you, personally or otherwise, reach out to her close friends to find out if she's angry with you. Ask her friend, "Have you talked to her lately?" And "Do you know if she's mad at me?" The friend may be able to affirm or contact the girl.
   • Choose friends who you know have regular contact with, such as the people she goes to work or school with.
   • Be respectful when approaching the girl's friends and don't pressure them if they don't want to share information with you.
   • If the boyfriend advises you to talk to the girl directly, respect this advice and make sure the boyfriend doesn't feel bad for not telling you what's going on.
2. Contact her parents or other close relatives. You can also talk to relatives of the girl, especially if she is close to her family and confides in them. Contact one of her siblings you know who is close to the girl. Politely ask the sibling if she knows if the girl is mad at you.
   • You can also approach the girl's parents, especially if you know her parents well and have a good relationship with them.
3. Talk to your mutual friends. If you have mutual friends, consider reaching out to them for more information about the girl's state of mind. Ask the mutual friend if they noticed that the girl has been aggressive or angry with you, and if she has said anything negative about you recently. This can help you determine if the girl is upset.
   • If the mutual friend also seems angry with you, it could be a sign that the girl has confided in them. Ask them what happened.
   • If the mutual friend refuses to tell you what happened, ask another mutual friend. If you get the same answer, you may need to use a different tactic.

Part 3 of 3: Talk to the girl one on one

1. Find a quiet, secluded place to talk. This could be in your house, in a park or at your favorite spot on campus. It can be challenging, but a serious and honest conversation can help address her, get to the root of her anger, and potentially solve the problem.
   • Let her choose the meeting place. This gives her a measure of control over the situation, which makes it easier for her to talk.
2. Bring a peace offering. It's never a bad idea to bring a peace offering to a potentially emotional conversation, especially if you may have done something wrong. You can give her something small and thoughtful, such as her favorite drink or item. Or you can give her flowers to show that you know she's upset and that you feel bad for what you've done.
   • Having a peace offering can also make it easier to start a conversation with her because you can give her something she may appreciate and make it easier to start a conversation
   • Keep it casual and don't make a big show of it, especially when you're in public. If she's mad at you, she might not want to be spotlighted.
3. Ask her directly what you did wrong. If you're not sure what you did wrong, you can start the conversation by asking her directly why she's angry with you. You can say, "I am aware that you are angry with me, but I am not sure why. Can you tell me why? ”
   • Don't ask her this if you already suspect why she's upset. Because of this, she probably still will angrier on you.
4. Apologize and make amends. If you know what you did wrong, you should apologize sincerely. Start by acknowledging what you did wrong and apologizing. For example, you could say, "I understand that you are angry because I missed your birthday last week. I got caught up in my job and forgot your special day. I'm so sorry I did and I promise it won't happen again. ”
   • Once you've apologized, ask her, "Will you accept my apologies?" If she says yes, show her your gratitude.
   • Make up for your mistake. For example, if you missed her birthday, take her to a special dinner and make sure you don't miss it next year.