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• Part 1 of 3: Looking elegant
• Part 2 of 3: Dress elegantly
• Part 3 of 3: Behaving elegantly

How do you make a good impression on others? Being elegant is the answer; that makes you look feminine, attractive and mature! This article explains what you need to do to be like that.

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Part 1 of 3: Looking elegant

1. Be clean. Pay attention to good hygiene. Take a shower if necessary and keep your hair clean. Brush your teeth and use a fragrance (perfume, deodorant, essential oil) to keep you smelling fresh.
2. Be neat. Keep your hair brushed, your nails neatly groomed, and excess body hair should be scrupulously kept at an acceptable length.
3. Use makeup subtly. Only use as much concealer, foundation and powder as needed to give your skin an even color and reduce shine. Eyeshadows and lipstick colors should be subtle, use neutral colors, such as browns and grays. Eyeliner and mascara should be as subtle as possible.
   • However, there are occasions when more bold lipstick colors may be acceptable. If you're having a formal night out, for example, more bold red lips can do.
4. Choose soft, shiny hairstyles. When you think of elegant women, you usually think of Audrey Hepburn, Veronica Lake, or Nicole Kidman. And what do they have in common? That beautifully made up, beautiful hair, of course. Choose hairstyles that bring out the satin beauty of your hair and positively emphasize your beautiful features and way of dressing. This will make you look more elegant.
5. Take good care of your nails. Good nail polish colors are soft pink, colorless, or a French manicure. Remember that any color can look elegant, it all depends on how you wear it. Don't rule out any color - including black - unless you don't like it. In photos, see the nails of stars on special occasions. They wear all colors, including black, green and orange, and many of them still look elegant.
6. Use a pleasant perfume. You cannot tell that someone smells good, but it does contribute to the image you have of someone. Make a lasting impression by using a subtle perfume, applied properly. Elegant accents include scents such as:
   • Jasmine
   • Rose
   • Amber
7. Stand up straight. Good posture is the foundation of appearing elegant. In short: Chest forward and chin up! This way you will immediately appear thinner and the beauty of your feminine curves will show off better.

Part 2 of 3: Dress elegantly

1. Wear nice clothes. Avoid clothes that are too casual, dirty, stained, or worn. Do not wear clothes that have holes or are otherwise damaged. Try to go out in nice clothes and a good pair of heels when you go shopping, but if you have to go out in sportswear or pajamas, make sure they are beautiful and fashionable.
2. Wear clothes with a classic cut. Avoid trendy clothes such as bell-bottom (flare) jeans or oversized shoulder pads. Instead, opt for a classic cut with most garments. This keeps you looking timelessly elegant. Knee-length skirts with a straight hem, tailored male-style button-down shirts and knee-length trench coats are among the wide range of classically cut garments.
3. Wear clothes that fit. Make sure the clothes you have fit properly. They should not be too small (so that bulging skin folds become visible or develop) or too large (hanging loosely along your body). Don't be tight on one size, always try one size down and one size up when you fit new clothes. Have clothing tailored for an even better fit.
4. Choose quality fabrics. Stay away from cheap, acrylic or cheap cotton and opt for clothes made from more luxurious materials. This is clearly visible and makes your clothes look more expensive, even if it is not. Silk, satin, modal, cashmere, Chantilly or other quality lace, many thin fabrics, and to some extent velvet are all acceptable options. It is best to avoid thick fabrics that make you look bulkier, as these fabrics hide your beautiful feminine figure.
5. Choose bright contrasts or classic colors. When choosing colors, choose colors that contrast strongly, that are very light and dark compared to each other (red, white and black, for example). Classic neutral colors also work well (gray, beige, navy blue, dark purple, emerald green, champagne pink, etc.).
   • Other elegant color combinations include blue and gold, pink and white, and white and teal / sea foam.
6. Keep it simple. Keep your outfits simple: not too many accessories, not too many layers. Avoid patterns and mixing patterns. Don't make it too flashy either. Jewelry should be simple and match the clothes you wear and what you do. Don't wear clothes that are too dressed for what you are doing: go smart, but don't take it too far.
   • For example, a cocktail dress is a bit of an exaggeration when going to the supermarket, but smart jeans, a cream sweater, and a brown jacket and boots are okay. Sweatpants would be a bad choice; too casual.
7. Use accessories strategically. Choose accessories that complement your clothes without overdoing it. Accessories should also positively emphasize your appearance and figure. For example, avoid large, wide earrings if you have a large face, or wear vertically striped stockings to make your legs look longer and thinner.
8. Go for class. Do not wear clothes that show too much bare skin, are too tight, or are made of materials that appear vulgar (leopard print, fluffy materials, Lamé, etc.). Dressing this way makes you look cheap or deluxe. You look like you are trying too hard. Dress with class by following the advice above and avoid the pitfalls, you will always look elegant.

Part 3 of 3: Behaving elegantly

1. Speak exceptionally well. Use correct grammar, a broad vocabulary, avoid contractions or omission of endings and slang, and articulate clearly when you speak. This way you come across as stylish and elegant, a real lady. If it is not your habit to speak well, practice it when you are alone, in front of a mirror if possible.
   • You don't have to feel like speaking with a different accent to sound more elegant. The accent is rarely as big a problem as your vocabulary and the correct use of grammar.
2. Always be calm. Don't overreact, whether it's very sad (crying dramatically) or very angry (yelling at people, making a scene). This will ruin all your elegance in an instant. Instead, express your emotions calmly and calmly.
   • Remember, if you're not going to die (and someone else isn't), it's probably not something that is vital. Take a deep breath and tackle the problem step by step.
   • If you have a hard time staying calm, excuse yourself and go somewhere alone and calm down.
3. Pretend that things are of moderate interest to you. Just like not reacting too emotionally, you also show moderate interest. This makes you appear more stylish and elegant. Reacting overly excited or enthusiastically can make you appear childish and immature.
4. Be polite. Be polite to everyone you meet, whether you think they deserve it or not. Don't be passive-aggressive or sarcastic when things go wrong. Stay perfectly polite in every situation. Treat everyone like your grandma is looking at you and you get a nice candy as a reward.
5. Be as graceful as possible. Walk like a supermodel no matter where you are and how you dress. Do not fall or stumble, even when walking in heels. Don't try to do everything perfectly right away. If you want to increase your elegance, practice walking. On heels, up and down stairs, etc. You can also practice your hand and leg movements in front of a full-length mirror.
6. Look confident. Of course, you don't actually have to be confident (most people pretend), but act as confident as you can. Tell yourself that you are beautiful and intelligent and that you know what you are doing ... because you are and you know it! Show confidence in others by not always apologizing for the things you want to achieve, even if they are not popular with others.

1. Have perfect manners. Real ladies have perfect manners. Practice good manners as you go about your daily activities, especially when you eat. Never let a jack or a wind in front of people. Keep doors open for others and wait your turn to be helped. Be a lady in traffic. And, of course, don't mess it up or get nasty when you're eating.
2. Be intelligent. Don't pretend to be stupid than you are. Often people act dumber than they are to stand out. While you stand out that way, it's not in a way that you want to! Also, be careful not to pretend you know everything about every topic. Talk about the things you really know about and say it when you know (almost) nothing about something. Your honesty will be appreciated.