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• Method 1 of 4: Create a good relationship
• Method 2 of 4: Keep the neighborhood clean and orderly
• Method 3 of 4: Be aware of noise
• Method 4 of 4: Troubleshoot neighbors
• Tips
• Warnings

Getting along well with your neighbors can make your environment a lot happier and safer to live. The key to a good neighbor is clear and regular communication. Welcome new people to your area and stay in touch from time to time. Try to be polite by not making too much noise and by taking good care of your yard. If you want to do even more, you can even set up a neighborhood association or organize a neighborhood watch.

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Method 1 of 4: Create a good relationship

1. Introduce yourself. When new neighbors move in, give them some time to settle in and then drop by to say "hello." You can even offer them a welcome pack. Or greet your neighbor if he (or you) goes out for a walk with the dog or works in the garden.
   • You can also give your neighbors friendly tips about the area, such as when the garbage will be picked up or the postman will come by.
   • A welcome gift can be anything from a friendly card to a basket filled with local foods or ingredients.
   • When you first meet your neighbor, you could say, "Hello! I am Fred Waanders. I live two doors down from you and just wanted to welcome you into the neighborhood. "
2. Help your neighbors if possible. If you see your neighbor struggling with a large package, offer to help. If you see that your neighbors don't have a lawn mower, offer to borrow yours. We've pretty much had the time of offering up sugar, but there are many other ways to support your neighbors.
   • If you're helping yourself, don't be ashamed to ask your neighbors for help if it's needed.
3. Organize community events and associations. Talk to your neighbors about forming a neighborhood watch to keep an eye on safety and crime. See if your neighbors want to contribute or collaborate in an association that organizes street festivals or barbecues.
   • This is also a great way to get to know your neighbors and get new people into the group.

Method 2 of 4: Keep the neighborhood clean and orderly

1. Maintain and take care of all shared spaces. If you share a hallway, entrance, or even a garden, do your part to keep these areas as clean as possible. Remove or store anything that doesn't belong there, such as bicycles or barbecues. Pick up waste and never leave rubbish. If the place requires more attention, you can talk to your neighbor about setting up a maintenance schedule.
   • For example, you can agree to mow the lawn every other week.
2. Keep your front yard and backyard tidy. Nobody likes a careless or negligent neighbor. Maintain a regular garden maintenance schedule to keep up with the garden throughout the year. In the fall you clean up all the leaves. Prune trees and shrubs and tidy up flower beds. If you cannot do this maintenance yourself, you may want to hire a professional gardener.
3. Empty your trash at the right time and the right day. Nobody likes having garbage in front of the house for days on end. To keep your neighbors happy and your house clean, put the dumpster by the road according to the local schedule. Also use the correct waste containers and follow any guidelines regarding chemical substances or bulky waste.
4. Treat all your pets responsibly. Animals can be a great source of contention between neighbors. One of the best ways to avoid any problems is to strictly follow all local rules regarding pets. Make sure your animals are fully vaccinated, have a permit for them, and keep them on a leash when you walk them. Meet your neighbors by cleaning up your pet feces and keeping your animals quiet.
   • It may also help if you indicate that your neighbors can always come to you with questions or comments about your pets if they are bothering them. They, in turn, will likely tell you to do the same.

Method 3 of 4: Be aware of noise

1. Keep noise levels down. Nobody likes to listen to a dog's barking or the honking of a horn all the time. Keep this in mind in your daily routine and try to avoid noise, especially during the early morning or evening hours. Most municipalities issue noise regulations. Find these rules on your city's webpage and stick to them.
   • This is even more important if you live in an apartment or terraced house. Noise can very easily pass through walls and disturb your neighbors.
   • A good rule to follow is to lower your volume if you think it is getting too loud. You can also ask your neighbors if the noise is disturbing.
2. If you're having a party, let your neighbors know. If you plan to invite a large group of people, it never hurts to notify your neighbors in advance. This allows them to decide whether to move their car or park elsewhere for the night. You also warn them that there will be a lot of "stranger" people around and that it can get a bit noisy.
   • The same goes for any other big, loud events, such as a remodel.
3. Get to know your neighbor's lifestyle and weekly schedule. After living side by side for a while, you might notice that your neighbor works at night and likes to sleep during the day. Or maybe they have small children who like to play in your front yard. You can then use this knowledge to be a better neighbor, for example by being quiet during the day and keeping your garden clean and safe.

Method 4 of 4: Troubleshoot neighbors

1. Stay calm when talking to your neighbors. When neighbors come to you with a concern or problem, it's important to respond calmly and rationally. If you start to get frustrated, take a few deep breaths before responding. You can also ask to postpone the conversation so you have more time to think about it.
2. Handle any issues personally. If you have a problem with your neighbors, it is important to act quickly. Go straight to them and tell them what's going on. Ask them to work together to find a solution that is workable for both of you. It is better to give your neighbor a chance to come up with a solution than to call the authorities immediately.
   • This does not necessarily apply if you feel that the safety of yourself, your family or the neighborhood is at stake. You can ask the local government for help in these situations.
   • Do not gossip with other neighbors or the people in your ward about any problems you have with a neighbor. This can only cause additional problems.
3. Try to see things from your neighbor's point of view. It's always a good idea to follow the old adage "Treat others the way you want them to treat you". Before taking any action, think about how your neighbors might react or feel about it. This prevents you from crossing a line, while still retaining some control over your living environment.
   • For example, if you are hanging your neighbor's shrubs in your yard, wait a while before pruning them. It might be better to talk to your neighbor about it first and then start pruning.

Tips

• After a special event, such as the birth of a baby, it never hurts to give your neighbors a small gift.

Warnings

• Always trust your instincts when dealing with neighbors. Even if you just want to be friendly, always take your own safety into account.