Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

We all run into this problem when guys don't give us enough time, leave us unattended, and behave strangely, making us wonder if everything is going well or not.

Steps

1. 1 Before you come to any conclusion, be sure that you are not overreacting to the situation. Talk to a friend, talk it out. See what he / she has to say about your situation. You don't want to torment your soul with something that is not even a problem.
2. 2 Wait. Phase 1: When you are sure something is wrong in your relationship, wait. See if such conditions hold for a long period of time. Tell him that 5-6 days should change everything. If he did not write or call you as often as before, or he did not have the opportunity to meet with you during this period, proceed to the next step.
3. 3 Tell him. You will not find a solution if he does not know about the problem, and you do not know about his opinion. Your goal is to let him know. See how he reacts.
4. 4 Ask him. Ask him why this is happening. Is there a problem with him and how can you help? Listen carefully to him and whatever he has to say. Prove to him that you are a good and understanding listener. Also, if he says he was busy, ask what exactly was taking up all of his time and how long it will last.
5. 5 Wait. Phase 2: Wait and Watch.Are things getting better? If not, either talk to him again, or hint (jokingly or seriously) that you are still waiting for him.
   • Is it all in vain? It's time to play tit for tat. You only have two options in this situation. Either he will actually solve the problem, or he is not trying hard enough. Over time, he may text or call you when she is free, possibly late at night. Try to do what he does. Tell them that you are busy and cannot speak. Yes, it will hurt, but remember, "You won't sweat it, you won't earn it." Your goal is to make him understand how you felt. Don't overdo it and don't go wrong with your revenge strategy. Just remember, "I will make you feel what I feel."
6. 6 The last contradiction. Here is the moment when you need to decide what is going on in your relationship. Either solve the problems or disperse. See what happens next and what he has to say. If you're both willing to fight for a relationship, go ahead.

Tips

• You are obligated to remain calm and equanimous while you understand the situation. Anger and anxiety will only spoil everything, if not with your boyfriend, then with friends and family, or even with yourself.
• And most importantly, hasty and ill-considered decisions can lead you to the collapse of a long-term relationship.
• Give him time. Maybe he really can't do anything about it.

Warnings

• DO NOT overdo it with the tit-for-tat game. This can unexpectedly backfire.
• Make sure you don't turn into "grumpy old woman’.