Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 4: How to Become Desired
• Method 2 of 4: Finding Your Man
• Method 3 of 4: Get your man
• Method 4 of 4: Other Reflections
• Tips
• Warnings

It's hard to live and be truly happy when you need to worry even about whether you can go to the dentist. Financial problems are one of the most common reasons for divorce. It is quite understandable why someone would want to get rid of this problem in life and relationships by marrying for convenience. But how can you do this? If you want to get married for the good life, start at step 1.

Steps

Method 1 of 4: How to Become Desired

1. 1 Avoid stereotypes. You know one of them: a beautiful (pumped up with silicone) girl who goes shopping all day or sits by the pool. You don't need to make a millionaire want to be with you just because you fit a certain image, because it is so easy to find a replacement for you. It doesn't make you stand out from the crowd. It is easy to find many girls that fit this look.It is difficult to find one that excites him and suits him in what he enjoys or what he wants from life.
   • Another part of the cliché, of course, is that you only love him for the money. It's good to dream of a guy who will support you, but it's worth choosing a man who can support you, whom you love and with whom you have a deep connection. He does not need an obvious kept woman, because he knows that his peers will judge and pity him. He wants to be loved.
2. 2 Respect yourself. Many men, including the rich, want a woman who respects herself next to them. Why should he like you if you don't act like you might be liked? Show him that you deserve it by caring for your body and appearance (eat right, exercise, dress nicely and keep good hygiene).
3. 3 Get involved in education. Usually rich men are not looking for a complete silly thing. They are smart enough and want a partner who can be on the same level with them. This is more interesting for them! Study hard in school and don't lose interest in your studies after graduation. Go to university if you can, and if not, sign up for free online courses from services like Coursera and stay tuned for the latest TEDTalks.
4. 4 Learn more about culture. Wealthy men usually participate in at least some cultural events, and you need to learn to enjoy and integrate into this environment. Cultivate your interest in music, art, literature and cinema. Understand and research foreign culture as well as politics (as wealthy men often travel the world).
5. 5 Do something in life. Nobody wants to be with a superficial person, an empty shell that never does anything. It's boring! Change your life and start doing something in your life. Have hobbies and dreams for the future (which you are actively moving towards, rather than just sitting still and dreaming about how you will be the next big star). This will make your character more complex and make you appear to be a more whole person.
6. 6 Unleash your talents. Talent is always sexy and makes you more interesting. Learn a skill or develop one you already have. The easiest way is to become a great cook (anyone can learn this), but you can learn to paint or play a musical instrument.
7. 7 Be passionate. Be a passionate lover, but also passionate in the way you live your life. When we are around someone who is enjoying life and doing what they love, it inspires us to do the same. This is why passion is so sexy! Pursue your interests. If you've always wanted to do something, do it. Once you find your millionaire, he will be very impressed.

Method 2 of 4: Finding Your Man

1. 1 Find it as early as possible. Visit bars and cafes near major medical and technical universities. This will help you meet guys who are soon to be doctors and IT professionals. If you meet him while he is young, then it is more likely that he is single and does not worry about women dating him for money. You will have to deal with a busy graduate schedule, but this is only a point in your favor. You will show him that poverty and wealth were with him.
2. 2 Attend their meetings. Visit the places where you can find richer men. This is not a country club, but dining in cafes or restaurants in the main business districts. Visit the bars in these areas in the evenings.
3. 3 Go to auctions. Rich people often have expensive hobbies, and collecting curiosities is one such hobby. The rich often collect vintage cars, toys, comics, or antique signs. Cultivate your interest and knowledge of such things, and then visit famous auction houses where you can purchase similar items.
4. 4 Attend charity evenings. Such events are often visited by the cream of society. Nevertheless, you need to prepare for them.Find out more about the issue this event is about and the work of the organization that is hosting it. When you arrive, be prepared to talk to people you don't know. Even making friends in the right places will help you meet someone who is right.
   • You do not need to make a donation if you are attending the event, but any contribution is a good idea. These evenings are expensive to attend and these organizations look forward to donations.
5. 5 Work in the right places. Did you know that about 22% of married couples met at work? Get a job at a large tech company or other profitable organization and keep an eye on whoever you meet!
6. 6 Make rich friends. You can use many of these tricks to simply make rich friends. Over time, with their help, you can meet your future spouse. If you become very good friends, you may even ask to find a match for you! This is a good path, because you are unlikely to be treated like just another kept woman.
7. 7 Use the services created for this purpose. There are many dating services, both online and in real life, that are specifically designed to help you meet a wealthy partner. Pick a reputable service and see where it takes you. These services create couples based on their similarities, so be aware of those earlier steps in developing yourself as a person.

Method 3 of 4: Get your man

1. 1 Show him that you are not with him for the money. Your future spouse should understand that you are with him not only because of money. They need to see that you love them ... and you really need to love them! Relationships can be difficult, and they will only work out if you are truly attached to that person. Don't bring up the issue of money (especially in the early stages) and try to be frugal enough. If they want to draw up a prenuptial contract, do not quarrel with them about it. You can even suggest this if you want them to be more comfortable.
2. 2 Build trust. Since it often happens that rich people are used, they often have problems with trust. You need to build trust. It will set you apart from other people and show them that you are the one to marry. Be someone they can confide in, never judge them, and openly discuss your own secrets and doubts.
3. 3 Be a great couple. Don't be the one who wants everything to be done for her and for her. Take an active part in your date. You have to drive them to different places, even if they are not posh. Be prepared to line up and contain your emotions if things don't go according to plan. Ask them what they would like to talk about.
4. 4 Make their life fun. Everyone wants to marry someone who can make their life better. When you are rich, you don’t have to think about finding someone to support you. Instead, they think about how to meet someone who will make their life interesting and fun. If you want someone to propose to you, become that person. Get them out of the sink. Do something fun and exciting with them that they would never do under other circumstances. Always be positive and try to avoid complaints by all means. They will not be able to tear themselves away from you!
5. 5 Love them deeply and faithfully. Become a master in the art of love. Not in terms of sex (although it doesn't hurt): learn to really love them and help them love you. Be completely selfless in your relationship. Work to make them happy. Surprise them by showing love here and now. Be commonplace. This is good.
6. 6 Let them ask for supplements. Don't give them everything at once. You can sleep with them if you want, but don't do it often and don't spend all your time with them. Why would they marry you if you give them everything they need, like a girl or a lover?

Method 4 of 4: Other Reflections

1. 1 Get rid of the idea that you cannot make money on your own. It's easy. Give yourself a chance if you are young. Stay in school and you will see how many new perspectives will open up for you. Save money in a savings account - just start saving. If you work, try to be the best at what you do.
2. 2 Give a realistic assessment of your appearance, mind and personality. If you have a normal appearance, you are slow thinking, and there is nothing outstanding in your personality - forget about it. Write a list of what needs to be improved and then take action. You should look as rich and powerful as the man you're trying to find, but don't forget your personality and style.
3. 3 Don't be too obvious. Don't talk about how rich he is or how much he makes. If he brings up the topic, be polite, but don't ask questions. This topic shouldn't be important.
4. 4 Act like a lady. Avoid swearing, drinking, taking drugs, laughing loudly, being aggressive, or wearing vulgar clothing. Make your style more elegant. Think about what will look stylish, not "brands". You want to become a girl and then a wife, not a mistress.

Tips

• Choose simple jewelry, do not get tattoos or piercings, makeup should be very delicate but beautiful - throw out all the colored eyeshadow and eyeliner. It is better to apply less makeup than to overdo it.
• Become a really good lover. Learn to massage and use it. Surrender 100%.
• Learn to cook really well. Become a foodie. Wealthy men need excellent housewives. Make him great food.
• If he made his own million, he wants to be with a woman who knows how to handle money, not a spender. Show him that you are responsible and that you can be trusted. Do not take his money until you are married. This will put you in one of the categories: "for charity", "freeloader" or "kept woman" (not a real friend or future wife). Real men want to be close to equals, not addicted.
• Dress in navy blue, brown, black, beige and white. Avoid bright colors unless it's an evening outfit. You need to pay attention to classic, high-quality clothes made from natural materials - 100% cotton, linen, silk, wool, cashmere, etc. It is better to have several sets of high-quality clothes than a lot of cheap ones. Avoid clothing with flashy brand names.
• Don't put pressure on him. He'll just back off. If you have been together for five years, and the ring is still missing, then leave.
• Take some time for yourself and let him get bored. Live your life, make friends and many interests. Make it interesting and fun with you.
• Tone your body, but don't show it. Forget about big silicone breasts and tight tops; this is definitely not worth doing. Think like a future wife.
• Always be a lady. Think about how Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn would behave in public. Learn etiquette and always use it.
• Women with children are attractive only if he loves them.

Warnings

• If you are a woman, never having a child just to keep a rich man is a disaster.
• Avoid meeting with your parents soon - this can be intimidating to him or her. When and if he or she does get to know them, make sure it is appropriate and that your family can behave with restraint and sophistication.
• Do not accept gifts prior to your engagement. Don't let anyone buy you because they won't respect you.