Content

• Steps
• Tips

Most people at one time or another find themselves in an awkward situation when it is necessary to deal with a person who likes them much more than he likes them. Here are some tips on how to deal with this situation without hurting their feelings. You need to minimize your interaction with the person with as kindness and tact as you can.

Steps

1. 1 Ask yourself if you really may be overlooking certain features or facial features that you might admire or be interested in. We can really reject someone before we really give a chance, and that's a loss if that was the case. We all make mistakes and maybe you can find common ground with them. Even so, you may not want or find the time to build a friendship immediately.
2. 2 Do not feel guilty that you do not feel the same feelings for the person that he does for you. We don't get along with some people the way we do with others, and before you can deal with the situation, it is imperative to understand that your antipathy towards them is normal. This does not make you a bad person and does not mean that you think your interlocutor is bad.
3. 3 Be very subtle; most often it works. If someone wants to hang out with you or take a walk, just tell them you can't. If you answer every sentence like this, most people will take the hint and move on. This also applies to phone calls. If this person calls you, be polite, but keep the conversation to a minimum. Do not voluntarily tell how you and what did you do, just warn that you are busy now and would like to talk at another time. There is no need to lie and say that you will call later or the next day if you do not intend to do so.
4. 4 Avoid situations that involve hanging out with this person. If you do find yourself in this situation, try to apologize and go to another group of people, or try to attract another person to distract yourself from the discomfort.
5. 5 Tell your target that he / she is a good person, but you don't feel like you have anything in common and you don't want to waste your time. It will not be rude, but honest. Do this only after trying to hint, if the interlocutor did not understand it or simply ignored it. Ultimately, this kind of thing is somewhat harsh and hurts people's self-esteem. You can get the opposite effect and your goal will eventually fall out of love with you, but it's important to communicate with your senses if other methods haven't worked.
6. 6 Talk about what is happening with the people around you if your speech did not help. Gather the sympathies and collective thoughts of loved ones to develop a strategy for dealing with the person. Most likely, you have mutual acquaintances who will be able to talk to him on your behalf. Even though most people do not always act with the best intentions and thoughts, almost everyone wants to do it, and you may not achieve the result on your own.With luck, the person will find someone who can respond to his feelings.

Tips

• Treat people with the same respect that you would like not only for yourself, but also for your son or daughter, your mother or your best friend.
• If they did something bad to you, don't let them get dry. Show that you cannot be tainted with dirt. It's best to say this out loud before getting down to business. This will make you appear intelligent and not impulsive.
• It's okay not to be liked by everyone, but consider it a compliment.