How to tell if a girl is flirting with you

Video: 7 Common Signs She’s Flirting - SUBCONSCIOUS Signals a Girl Wants YOU

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Steps
Part 1 of 3: When a girl is definitely flirting with you
Part 2 of 3: When the Girl May Be Flirting with You
Part 3 of 3: When a Girl Isn't Flirting with You
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Have you ever had a situation where you couldn't figure out if a girl was flirting with you? Maybe it just seemed to you, or maybe she really likes you? Many girls try to hide their sympathy for a guy, but if you are careful, you will notice several signs that show her sympathy for you. In this article, we will tell you what to look for in order to understand if a girl is flirting with you (applies to girls 10-18 years old). It is important to understand that not all girls behave the same, so these tips are relative. In any case, in order to know for sure if a girl has sympathy for you, you need to talk to her about it.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: When a girl is definitely flirting with you

1 Notice how often she looks at you. Do you constantly catch her eye as you go about your business across the room? When you're in the same company, does she constantly do something to get your attention? Does she look away quickly when you look at her? These signs indicate flirting and sympathy for you.
- If a girl constantly smiles at you, looks you in the eye and raises her eyebrows mysteriously, she's definitely flirting.
2 Think how often she smiles at you? If she smiled at you just a couple of times a day, it’s hardly flirting. But if she constantly looks at you, smiles and laughs, laughs at your jokes and tries to follow you everywhere, most likely this is flirting.
- Flirt back with her, but not overtly. Smile, wink, but don't say anything vulgar.
3 Notice how often she tries to touch you. Does she take your hand when worried or happy? Is she trying to hug you?
- Perhaps she is trying to flirt with you all the time, starts to tickle you, knowing that you are afraid of tickling? This is another way to flirt.
4 How often does she text you? It can even be completely ordinary messages, emoticons and funny pictures. If she constantly asks you about something, sends you interesting videos, most likely she is trying to start a conversation. This means that she definitely likes you.
5 Answer her questions and continue the conversation. If the girl has already written to you the first several times, she definitely likes you. Usually girls wait for guys to take the "first step" in a relationship, so don't be shy!
6 Remember how often she calls you? Does she constantly send you messages on social media? Does she send you text messages like "good morning" or "good night"? If so, she definitely thinks about you!
7 Pay attention to how often she uses emoticons. If she writes messages and adds smiling or winking emoticons at the end, she's definitely flirting with you! If she has sent you hearts more than once, rest assured that she has sympathy for you.
- Don't go overboard with emoticons! They should be in the subject. And don't constantly shorten words if you don't want to look stupid.

Part 2 of 3: When the Girl May Be Flirting with You

1 Pay attention to her reaction when you tell a story or a joke. If she constantly laughs at your jokes and is interested in your story, smiles and looks you in the eyes, she may like you.
- When a girl likes you, she thinks that everything is perfect in you, and even your not very funny jokes seem funny to her. She will listen to your stories and laugh at your jokes, no matter how silly they are.
- Perhaps this is a way to compliment you, because everyone is pleased when their stories are appreciated.
2 Pay attention to how she calls you. In this way, she reminds you of a day or a moment that you both remember. This is a way to strengthen your friendship. However, she may be just trying to tease you.
- If she calls you the same as others, then this is nothing special, but if no one else calls you that other than her, most likely this is a kind of flirtation.
3 Do not worry if she is the first to end the conversation in the correspondence. Do not be upset if she does not answer you for a long time, perhaps this is just a flirting tactic. If she answers you as soon as you wrote to her, you will understand that she was waiting for your messages. Therefore, she tries to pause to show that communication with you is not a priority for her.
4 Follow her posts on your page on the social network. Perhaps she will try to somehow start communicating with you through social networks. Below are some examples of comments and notes that most likely indicate her sympathy for you:
- Comments where she brags that she broke your record in an online game. Most likely, this is how she flirts with you.
- Is she complaining to you that she lost an online game? Most likely, she is just waiting for you to regret her and say something nice.
- She invites you to join the company and play an online game? She probably just wants to spend time together.
5 These are all ways to start communicating with you. If she does this more explicitly, you may realize that you are interested in her and make fun of her feelings. But if the girl dares, she can start a conversation with you without these tricks. Here are some of the phrases girls and guys use all the time:
- "Hi, listen, what did they ask us?" The girl may not really remember her homework, but maybe this is a way to start a conversation.
- “Listen, could you help me? I absolutely don't understand this topic. " If a girl who is doing pretty well with her studies is writing this to you, this is most likely a way to start a conversation.
- "Could you please help me carry my books / bag?" Keep in mind that girls always plan ahead. It is unlikely that she asks you about it just like that.
6 Pay attention to her behavior. When she is next to you, is she constantly twirling something in her hands? Tugging and straightening your hair? If she does this with eye contact, chances are she likes you.
- When a girl is flirting, she can bite or lick her lips, straighten her earrings, touch her neck, or twist a strand of hair around her finger.
7 Pay attention to the position of her legs. When she is sitting next to you or opposite you, see if her knees are facing you. If so, chances are she's interested in you. If your knees are facing the other way, don't worry, this is just a guess.
- If she is trying to bend over or come closer to you while talking, this is a good sign. Especially if you are in a company.
- You can tell that a girl is flirting if she tilts her head to one side when she listens to you.
- If her feet are pointing at you, she may be flirting with you. But just because her knees or feet are pointing the other way doesn't mean she doesn't like you.
8 Pay attention to her words. If her voice begins to tremble when you are around, then she is worried.It is common for people to unconsciously change their tone of voice when they are nervous around someone they like.

Part 3 of 3: When a Girl Isn't Flirting with You

1 Does she often end the conversation first, or is she picking on words when you say something? Distracted by everything? Perhaps she just doesn't like talking to you?
2 Watch to see if she is trying to shield herself from you. Sit down next to her as she rummages through her purse and see if she puts her purse between you. If she does, it means that she is not interested in communication.
3 Watch her reaction when you tell a story or a joke. If she does not react to her at all and does not smile, it is unlikely that she likes you. She might just be in a bad mood, but if she constantly rolls her eyes when you speak, she definitely doesn't like you.
- In what tone does she speak to you? Don't you think her voice is sometimes irritated?
4 Think she treats you the same way she treats everyone else? Are you friends or just acquaintances? You can usually understand that a girl is flirting when she treats you differently from others. But sometimes flirting can be confused with friendly attention. All girls are different, some will avoid you because of their sympathy for you, and some - on the contrary. If a girl behaves with you in the same way as with the rest of her acquaintances, most likely, she is not very interested in you.
5 If she starts talking to you about her relationship, slow down. However, if she just tells a funny story about some guy, there is nothing wrong with that. Sometimes girls tell you about other guys to make you jealous. But if she asks you for advice on how to deal with the guy she likes, she's unlikely to consider you as a potential partner.