Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 2: Watch Her Reactions
• Method 2 of 2: Observe Her Behavior
• Tips
• Warnings

There are probably hundreds of questions swarming in your head right now. Does she like me? Does she have a boyfriend? Didn't I see these glances furtively? It's tricky and can drive you crazy! Instead of guessing, you can find out for sure if she wants to be more than a friend by observing her reactions and behavior.

Steps

Method 1 of 2: Watch Her Reactions

1. 1 Eye contact. Does she look into your eyes for a long time or does she look when you are not looking? This is usually an indicator that someone likes you.
2. 2 Physical contact. This can range from delicate gestures, such as holding your hand near you, to obvious ones, such as a long hug. In any case, full physical contact is not how you usually behave with platonic friends. This is probably a good sign.
3. 3 Tendency to jealousy. Do you think she gets upset when you hang out with other girls or tries to get involved in any conversation you have with them? She's probably jealous of the attention they receive from you. This is a clear indication that she wants to be more than friends.

Method 2 of 2: Observe Her Behavior

1. 1 General behavior. Has she been acting differently with you lately, or is she asking for your advice on important life decisions? Some people may see this as a sign of a strengthening relationship, but it could also be a sign that she is ready to take it to the next level.
2. 2 Its availability. Does she keep answering your calls or messages? Does she come to important events that you invite her to? Someone who constantly finds time for you may be interested in you not only as a friend.
3. 3 Find out what your friends think. Ask your friends what they think about her behavior with you. If the general opinion is that she likes you, you can safely try to develop a relationship. If they all think she only sees you as a friend, you should refrain from any explicit courtship.

Tips

• Ask her out because you want it, not because she or your friends want it.
• You will probably never be 100 percent sure that you want to ask her out on a date. Just ask her out on a date and don't be afraid of rejection. It is better to love and lose than never to love at all.
• If she says no, it means NO. Do not try to convince her that you are the one, the only one. Move on, and if it turns out that she still likes you, then you can return to this situation.
• Establish basic friendships. This will increase your chances of her agreeing.

Warnings

• Some girls just play with the emotions of the guys to get something out of them. This is also true of guys looking for girls. Make sure she is interested in "you" and not your money, body, or friends.
• NEVER ask a girl out to make your ex jealous, this will show that you are a git, she will forgive it, but will not forget.